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Making Love in the Kitchen!

Tuesday, October 20th, 2009 by admin

by Jody Power

I would like to share with you one of my favorite blogs, well, obviously besides the Raw Mom and Raw Diva’s sites, it’s called Making Love in the Kitchen.  It is a blog by Meghan Telpner, who is a certified nutritionist and holistic lifestyle consultant.  Her blog is very informative, but don’t worry it is definitely not dry – I’m hoping you already figured this out based on the blog name.  Whatever subject Meghan decides to tackle she does it in a fun, entertaining and sometimes quirky manner, which will keep you coming back for more! 

For you transitioning mom’s and dad’s out there she also has a wealth of great recipes which are focused on whole food goodness which you’ll want to check out and add to your recipe arsenal to slowly wean your kids off that processed food.  For you raw mom’s and dad’s you’ll still find a wealth of information and some raw recipes.

Just so you can get to know Meghan a little bit better below is the interview she agreed to do for us.

JP: What lead you to become a certified nutritionist and holistic lifestyle consultant?

MT: Like many people in this field, I had encountered a personal health challenge that was not being resolved by conventional medicine. After university, I went to travel in Africa where I became quite ill. I came back from that trip, began a career in advertising, all the while suffering terribly from digestive dis-ease. Going from doctor to doctor, I was desperate to find a solution. Three and a half-years and 19 doctors later, I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. Rather than taking the conventional approach (surgery and medication) I chose a completely holistic approach that included acupuncture, yoga, meditation, herbs and natural, clean, whole foods. In a relatively short time, I was essentially healed of the symptoms that had plagued me for all those years and so inspired that I decided to go back to school to study nutrition. Three years later, I remain 100% symptom-free from an ‘incurable’ disease, and now work to inspire others that they too can take control of their health and empower them to heal through easy, simple and health supportive eating and living.

JP: When you were trying to heal yourself what made you decide to go the holistic route?

MT: The doctors hadn’t done much for me by that point, aside from make me feel fairly foolish for being so persistent. My mother has always been a big proponent of taking responsibility for our own health, so I suppose that was ingrained in me. The only options the doctor gave me were medicines that would likely have to take the rest of my life with the possibility of having a section of my intestines removed. The acupuncturist I met said that he could help me put the disease in remission. Of all the ‘experts’ I sought, he was the only person who gave me confidence that this was not a life sentence. The decision, at that point, was pretty easy.

JP: How do you ensure you maintain a balanced lifestyle when things get hectic?

MT: This is an increasing challenge as I get busier, but I also know that health must come first. I never compromise my diet. That is my main sticking point. I would hate to do something that would bring the disease back into my life, that is always somewhere at the back of my mind, so I am pretty good about checking in with how I feel physically. I am a workaholic. I love what I do with such passion that I often have a hard time taking a step back from it and stop taking care of everyone else, all my clients and students, and focus on my own health. I have now learned that if I am really going to keep things balanced, I need to schedule that time in. I do go for regular early morning bike rides by the water or long walks in the park, often before the sun is even up, I go to yoga a couple times a week, and will book weeks off here and there that are not to be used for work, just for fun. I have maintained my twice-daily meditation practice which is vital to me. This biggest lesson in maintaining balance has been learning to say no to things.

JP: What is the one biggest mistake you see people making in their diets?

MT: People worry about it all way too much. The stress we put on ourselves over what to eat, getting the right proportions or calories, getting enough protein or eating too much carbs. Trying to eat all raw, or all vegan, or all macrobiotic or whatever the chosen diet may be, is just incredibly stressful. This stress and worry around food is a greater challenge to our good health than what we are actually eating. I educate people on how to avoid foods that have had to pass through a processing factory or chemistry lab, to avoid foods that come in boxes with health claims. I try and inspire people to simply eat good, whole, natural, unprocessed foods as much as possible. If we stick to a whole foods and predominantly plant-based diet, the counting and balancing is removed and the joy comes back in to the dining experience. We can reclaim a connection to our food as our fuel, the people who grew it and the goodness it provides in our lives. There is just no need to bring any feelings of guilt into the kitchen and trying to achieve any kind of dietary perfection or fit into a specific dietary category, following all the rules to a tee, does just that.

JP: What is your favorite kitchen gadget(s)?

MT: I wish I could be original for this, but is there anyone who owns a VitaMix and doesn’t love it to bits? I use a magic bullet regularly to grind up nuts and seeds. A sharp knife and a bamboo cutting board are my essentials. I think a grain grinder will be my next kitchen gadget acquisition.

JP: Do you believe in incorporating superfoods in your diet?  If so which superfoods are your favorite and why?

MT: I sure do! I love superfoods and was even more inspired after spending a weekend with David Wolfe. I don’t eat all raw through the winter, far too cold in Toronto for that. So I like to think up creative ways to enjoy raw superfoods in some cooked meals. The staples in my pantry are whole cacao beans, goji berries, golden berries and coconut oil. I have recently fallen head over heals for maca which I’ll add to smoothies or mix in to oatmeal and sprinkle on to salads. Spirulina is my fave source of easy protein and again- a great one to add to smoothies, and to boost up juices. Chaga mushroom is the newest addition to my superfood collection which is an amazing booster for the immune system and grows on trees up near my cottage. Other superfoods I keep on hand include hemp seeds, golden berries, and always have sprouts sprouting. I suppose, now that I think about, I am a bit of a superfood junkie. As David Wolfe says, why wouldn’t I want to eat the best food ever? I do!

JP: I know you don’t have kids but do you have any tips on how incorporate healthy foods into a child’s diet.

MT: Hide them! That would be the easy way, mix some hemp seeds into their cereal, sprinkle some ground flax on their salads, or in sandwiches, mix some spirulina into their drinks. That’s the easy way. It would be ideal to start kids off on a healthy eating life, but if they are older and you are transitioning, transition them with you, though at a bit of a slower pace. Junk food should be removed from the home and never ever ever used as a reward for anything. Rewarding good behaviour with sweets is a nasty habit to form. The other suggestions are the basics, sit down and eat with them, they’ll eat what we eat, bring them in to the kitchen to help prepare and educate them on the food. Carrots make our eyes shine bright and powerful, almonds help our bones grow strong, kale builds muscles… Educate them on the positives of the healthy food without bringing stress, calories or any of that nonsense into it.

JP: Can you share with us one of your favorite recipes that is also kid friendly?

MT: Sprouted Nori Rolls are a great hands on recipe to get the kids in on the action. Have them grow the sprouts themselves. It’s a great little project for them to learn about the growing of food with the task of rinsing the sprouts each day as they grow. The rolls with the sprouts are great as mom or dad can slice up a variety of vegetables, the kids can choose from and use the sprouts they grew themselves. This gives them a sense of ownership and individuality over their creation. And it’s healthy!

Nori Rolls with Ginger Sunflower Pate

Ginger Sunflower Pate

  • 1 cup sunflower seeds, soaked overnight
  • 1 clove garlic
  • 1 tbs  lemon juice
  • 1 inch  fresh ginger, grated
  • Salt or tamari, to taste

Blend until smooth in food processor.


Topping Options

  • Sprouts (any kind will do)
  • avocado
  • carrots, sliced long
  • cucumber, sliced long
  • cabbage, shredded
  • cilantro
  • bell pepper, sliced long
  • pickled ginger, chopped
  • Tamari for dipping (optional)

Rolling Nori

Place Nori down on the bamboo mat. Typically, the shinier side is put face down.
Layer filling in neat row, leaving about half an inch of space at the edge of the nori closest to you.
Rub a bit of warm water on the edge farthest from you. This will help the two sides of nori stick together
Holding the closest edge of the bamboo mat, roll the away from you.
Tighten the roll as you go, the same way you would a rug to minimize excess space. Be careful not to make it too tight, however, or fillings may start to fall out.
Once tightened, you should be able to unwrap the bamboo without the roll coming apart.
Cover your roll with the bamboo mat and press your hands over it to further pack the roll.
Move your full roll to a cutting board. Slice it first down the middle with a very sharp or serrated knife. From there you can cut it into sixths or eighths, whichever you prefer.

JP: Anything else you want to share with our readers?

MT: We have enough in our lives to worry about, so why not bring some fun into something we have to do everyday, at least three times a day. The kitchen should be a room of joy, warmth and community. What goes on in that room is the shared responsibility of every member of the family and it is a great way to incorporate more time together. Better in the kitchen than in front of the TV. If we can establish healthy eating and a healthy attitude towards food in our children when they’re young, though they may not fully appreciate it at the time, we are building a solid foundation and understanding that will be with them through life.

 

DO YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO IF YOUR KIDS GET SICK?

Saturday, October 3rd, 2009 by Lisa

Hmmmm, does the very thought make your heart beat a little faster?
None of us relish the thought of our little lovebuds getting sick, but knowing exactly what to do really helps. I have found since we are high-raw for 8 years now, this isn’t even an issue. It is soooo rare to see my kids less than bubbling little energy balls! Both my sons have only been sick a couple of times in their entire lives, and judging by friends and family, they are experiencing unprecedented health. It is not all about the food, but the food is the foundation and actually helps to create other little changes here and there which also add to the increased quality of health in a big way. This is a fundamental drive of mine- to just allow them a childhood of freedom from pain and illness as much as possible so they can always remember what real health feels like, as most people no longer know for themselves…

I myself was always sick as a kid, became a very sick teenager, and had bottomed-out before I was 30. Now, in my mid-forties, I feel so strong and healthy, and its an incredible feeling to have never worrying about my health anymore.

Here are my tried and true tips for preventing issues, or maintaining superb health.

AT FIRST SIGNS

shannon-son-1Whether you notice a runny nose, little cough, or just red eyes, these are all signs that your angel might be coming down with something. I have never taken my children’s temperature other than with the palm of my hand on their face, yet as soon as I feel a fever coming on, or any sign that they might be run-down, I stop everything for a moment and think about the last few days, what has been happening in their reality. Have they been staying up late, getting behind in sleep? Has there been celebrations and other functions where they have been eating differently than usual? Has there been any emotional stresses for them lately? Maybe ther is something going onthat they are anxious about…Just reflecting about their SLEEP, DIET and EMOTIONS gives me just about everything I need to know to understand what has been the catalyst for their physical symptoms.

liam-and-leopy-smallI do not give any fever medication as I know the fever is ‘burning off’ any little critters and is actually a sign their immune system is functional. To thwart this natural response by giving ‘fever medication’ only serves to reduce the SYMPTOMS and their discomfort, but doesn’t strengthen the body. I like the discomfort! Otherwise, they are still running around when what they obviously need is rest. There are natural ways to keep a fever in check, and still allow the body to let Nature take its course; a cool cloth to the forehead, a cool bath in the tub or sponge bath, wearing wet woollen socks that have some lemon juice or lemon essential oil in the water wrapped in a towel while lying in bed, all these methods work to help the fever stay in safe range while it is doing its work.

TAKE ACTION

shannons-drinksStep 1:
The next thing I do is create a space with my child for some mama-and-me time, where we can sit and ‘chat’. I ask them how they are feeling, and let them tell me all about what is going on with them, how it all feels for them. I just be there and just create a cozy moment with them, gathering essential details before rushing in with any talk or solutions. They feel heard and met, and their healing has already begun.

Step 2:

I know the body needs rest when it is unwell- illness is Nature’s command for silence and stillness, gentleness and peace. I create an environment either in the living room or their bedroom where they can rest which is tranquil and beautiful- clean and clutter-free, aired out, fresh flowers or even a little vase with a pretty little branch of leaves or tall grasses, and/or a candle. I always keep essential oils on hand for my cleaning, skin-care and even raw culinary preparations, and my favourite is always Lavender for an anxious or sick child. It is so soothing and relaxing and healing. Another I love is Clary Sage as it is ultra soothing when one is not feeling well. Just find one you like that is not over stimulating. However, if there is flem or infected sinuses or congestion, then Rosemary or Eucalyptus or Ravensara are great. The main idea here is to create an atmosphere of calm and comfort.

Step 3:

Serve only water, lemon/ginger tea, or fresh juices- usually cucumber with some fresh orange juice or apple- something simple and sweet so they will drink some. They may not want any, but to avoid dehydration, especially with fevers or flu, getting regular sips into them is important.

Avoid eating food as it takes a lot of energy needed for healing. Unless they are really hungry, then fruit, fresh or mashed up is great, or a healing broth of veggies and garlic and onions and herbs. The main thing here is not to clog up the system and forestall healing.

Step 4:

Avoid over-stimulation- which is one of the reasons they may be under-the-weather already. This means, no media TV/video games/computer time. Lots of rest, eyes closed, laying down, will help rally their vital forces and speed up healing. With really young kids I would suggest you take little naps with them or create lots of opportunity for ‘cuddle time’ with a book or story just to get them still, and that will often induce peaceful sleep, or at least rest. A little Classical music, or just humming/singing quietly to our little lams, is soothing and healing. Short walks to get some fresh air is really good as long as it doesn’t over-tax them, or at least, keep a window open. Offering to massage their feet or rub their back, or stroke their hair may be really appreciated.

SORE THROATS

Could be Strep Throat which is caused by bacteria called Streptococcus or a sign that chicken pox or the measles might be on the way. If you do feel it is worth taking an anti-biotic for, ensure to give the child plenty of Probiotic capsules in his food or drinks to replace his good bacteria that will be killed off.
A scratchy, sore throat is soothed with the following:

- warm drinks: lemon/ginger and honey tea

- fresh juices: a simple mixture of ¼ greens and the rest fresh orange, apple,   pear or pineapple juice

- chewable zinc lozenges with Vit C

- Slippery Elm Bark powder- take 1T and dissolve into hot water with some honey for a really soothing tea to the inflamed throat

- Keep a little pot of boiling water in the room if you don’t have a humidifier to add steam into the air (maybe with a few drops of Eucalyptus) and help moisten the dry tissues of throat and nose

- Herbal Honey- by the teaspoon or in teas: add a drop of essential oils (must be organic, pure and food grade) SAGE, EUCALYPTUS, MINT to a couple teaspoons of honey and mix thoroughly before giving to your child

COLDS

The main thing here is to avoid further congestion of the liver or bowels as the system is already clogged up, so avoid:

- eating and especially over-eating

- cooked starches, flesh foods, sugar, dairy

- keep a little pot of boiling water in the room if you don’t have a humidifier to add steam into the air (maybe with a few drops of Eucalyptus) and help moisten the dry tissues of throat and nose

- Get lots of fluids into kids, and maybe some nice warm garlic laden vegetable broths

- Gargle with warm salt water with a drop of Oregeno Oil

- use a Netti Pot (most children won’t do this)

- put a little cocnut butter or sesame oil in the inside of the nostrils

- Homeopathics: Belladonna; Arsenicum; Aconite; Antimonium tartaricum.

EARACHES

I have had the experience when I was a nanny for a house with 6 kids of being woken in the middle of the night to screams from little ones suffering from intense ear pain. Here is what works like a charm and its best if you have this on hand so you don’t have to keep your child waiting while you make it:

Garlic Oil - put a few cloves of peeled garlic into a few ounces of Olive Oil and let infuse for a week. Then remove the cloves and place the oil into fridge. All you need to do is warm up the whole jar by placing it into hot water for a couple minutes and then when it is liquid again and warm (not hot! Make sure to test before putting into your child’s ear) take a teaspoon full of the oil and have the child lie down on her side with a towel under her head, and slowly tip the oil into her ear. Have a cotton ball ready to catch the excess.

If you haven’t this on hand and an earache strikes, do this:

Peel a clove of garlic and juice it then put into a few Ounces of Olive oil and stir around. Put about ½ a teaspoon into your child’s ear as above.

You can buy in the Health Food store a little dropper bottle of a preparation already made up with garlic, oil and Lobelia herb which works too and is convenient.

- Homeopathics include Aconite, Hepar Sulph

STOMACH UPSET

It seems obvious that the body is trying to tell us not to eat right now. It needs a rest. Simple, easily digested nourishment and calm is mostly needed here. Replenish fluids if vomiting or diarrhea.

MOST IMPORTANTLY

Whatever ails your child, what helps them the very most is if you are calm and centered, content and secure. This will set a mood and will reassure them that everything will soon be back to normal again and before they know it they will be all better. Walk and talk gently and calm, and keep your voice hushed and relaxed. It’s a time of quietude and healing and your presence will support that more than anything else.

Let’s teach our kids how our bodies speak to us…and that any pain, illness or discomfort is our body’s way of getting our attention and letting us know what we need. Sometimes, getting sick is our way of creating a time of rest, or a space of love for ourselves. (ILL=I lack love) Sometimes it is a simple reaction to foods that aren’t healthy, or perhaps an unsettled emotional conflict.

This is just what I do, and I hope it might offer some insight, and is not meant to be medical advice. If you are worried, and you know your child better than anyone, then by all means seek advice from your Naturopathic or medical health practitioner. Whatever the issue, keeping a little medicine chest of Homeopathic Remedies, Bach Flower Remedies, healing Herbals like Echinacea, garlic, slippery Elm Bark, etc., and Essential Oils with a companion guide is so helpful here. The better informed we are, the more empowered we feel.

Shannon Shakaya Breeze Leone

Summer Camp Souvenirs–Natural Solutions for Head Lice

Sunday, August 30th, 2009 by Tera

nitcombLast week the kids finished summer day camp, and along with some memories and new friends, they picked up head lice. I’ve spent the last several days passing hours and hours preening and plucking and nit-picking. Tea tree oil and persistence got us through this round! Here in Montreal, if you do not treat with the toxic chemicals, you can’t send your children to school. Frightening to think of it, but I thought I would include a couple of the recommendations we were given, and post this with the hope that a few of you might have other ideas and suggestions to contribute.

Conditioner: The idea is to comb conditioner into dry or slightly damp  hair, use lots of conditioner. Comb it in well so that the whole head is covered and the hair right down to the roots. Then you use a nit comb to get them all out. The conditioner helps to slow down the lice so that you are able to catch them all and it also helps to loosen the nits. Do this every day for a week and you should have got them all out.

hairbrushBrush like crazy: This breaks the little pests legs so they can’t run away from you…. it also means they won’t survive because they won’t be able to feed.

Vinegar: Works in the same way as a toxic chemical or the tea tree oil. The vinegar stuns them and helps to kill the eggs. Always use a nit comb.

Tea Tree Oil: Has a strong acidic odour like vinegar and works in the same way to stun the lice and kill the eggs. Don’t use every day.

Remember: If you do have unexpected visitors like these you must wash all the families clothing and bedding, if you can’t use  a hot water wash then add vinegar to the washing water it will help to kill any survivors. Don’t forget to vacuum the beds, and furniture too.

With a keen eye and persistence, I think we’ve managed to finally rid ourselves of these little devils. In the name of preventative measures, we’ll be adding a few drops of tea tree oil to all the shampoo bottles and doing a lot of creative hair braiding this year. When I was homeschooling this was something easily avoided. Now that the kids are in school, these are part of the joys of parenthood.

Hope these natural remedies for head lice come in handy!

If you would like more information and ideas on how to combat this problem there is a great site  http://www.headlice.org which has information, suggestions and reasons why you shouldn’t use chemicals.

Here’s to squeaky clean scalps,

Tera

6 Simple Stress-Busters to Help You Keep Your Cool This Summer

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009 by admin

by Sarah Womerstress

When nothing seems to go as planned and you’re doing your best to feign sanity, here are six ways to combat the inevitable stress that happens to the best of us:

1: BREATHE
Granted this is one of the more popular stress-busting techniques out there and with good reason: it works! By focusing on breathing you are not focusing on your problems. You are also oxygenating your body—an act imperative to function highly and intelligently (oxygen is brain food you know).  And, while I know this isn’t the main selling point, deep breathing isn’t as obvious and attention drawing as, say, doing a yoga pose in the middle of the office of a health practitioner. There are many other good reasons to try deep breathing but those are a few:  good for the body,  good for the mind,  good for the spirit,  and no one will notice a thing other than how amazingly calm you have remained despite it all.

2: SMILEStressed
Smiling is the last thing you want to do sometimes but it can really improve your mood.  Smiling automatically triggers the stimulation and production of happy receptors and hormones in the brain. When the muscles contract into a smile on your face serotonin and dopamine are released into your body which helps calm a person and elevate their mood. It’s a physiological response that will drastically improve your coping ability and all you have to do is fake a grin!  You might even be surprised to find that after a few seconds (try 10) you will really want to smile (it’s all a little funny isn’t it?).

3: LAUGH
And how can you smile without breaking into laughter? Well, I suppose it is possible if you are upset enough but laughter stimulates the same physical responses that smiling does. Maybe it will seem like you’re “cracking up” in a bad way but laughter can be contagious.  Sometimes it only takes one person laughing in a chaotic situation to get everyone else involved in a giggling fit! The sheer insanity or even just the stupidity of a situation can become crystal clear with the right change in emotion. If you’re really upset, force an annoyed laugh — the kind you would let out if you thought a joke was terrible— maybe a “HA HAAA” with little emotion behind it. Then add an extra “HA” for effect. Still nothing?  Keep faking until either you start really laughing or someone asks you just what it is you’re doing.  Then perhaps when you articulate it, you will realize just how silly the whole thing is and, barring a real laugh, release the anger.

4: YELL
Yelling doesn’t always work as a stress-buster — not something that should be attempted in the middle of a public place — but sometimes it can be so cathartic in such an instantaneous manner that it would be absolutely unfair not to mention it!  Of course there are many ways to yell but the kind that will help most is the completely incoherent really loud kind of yell. The best way to yell is to try and get everyone else involved in the chaos to yell with you. Try enlisting yelling buddies with a simple, “Let’s all just get it out — let’s yell as hard as we can RIGHT NOW.”  Then contort your face and stick out your tongue and use as many facial muscles as possible, pump the volume up as high as can go and go wild!  Either you will feel relief from just letting it out or realize how silly it is you got frustrated enough to want to make such a ridiculous face and yell really loud that you will not even want to be stressed any longer. It doesn’t matter if you choose to yell alone or with others around, it’ll help either way.

5: SING
Hum a tune, sing a song — just make some music with your mouth. You can make up a song about what is frustrating, you can pick a song you know all the lyrics to, you can just hum a tune that makes you happy, or any other happy thing that may occur to you!  Music is healing whether it is hardcore punk rock or soft and soothing classical Beethoven. Use this healing to your advantage and sing a song — loudly if you like, quietly if you must,  but sing it nonetheless.   Like deep breathing, this is taking your focus off of whatever is frustrating and putting it into the creation of music. Additionally, music is soothing and pleasant to the mind,  so it helps create the representative physiological state in the body!

6: TOUCHhyper
Touch doesn’t have to mean tactile — it can mean emotional as well. When things are really frustrating, you can help make them better by asking for a hug, kiss, or maybe just a hi-five. You can extend a compliment, a thank you, or an“I Love You.”   Tensions can get so high and interactions so competitive that depending on the person and the relationship, it is good to break the escalation with touch! If it is between child and parent, a hug can instantly melt the ice growing. If it is between siblings, an “I Love You” can shock the argument to a standstill.  A personal favorite is to stop and say, “I feel like we got off on the wrong foot here — can I give you a hug?”  Even if the person disagrees about the footing, most can’t resist a hug (or aren’t cruel enough to turn you away) 

When we’re at home in our element, figuring out what coping mechanism will help is much easier — we can leave the room and find some solitude, we can cry, write, throw up our hands in frustration or anything, really.  But when we are out in public places, the harsh judgments of others can make some of our methodologies catch scornful glances or critical remarks—the last thing you need when you’re stressed.

Stress happens. Instead of stuffing it down, most of the simple tools listed above will be employable at any time in any place.  Find your place of peace amidst the trials and tribulations of life.  May your stress levels subside and your life become easier by the smile.

How I Became a Raw Foodist OR Did I Really Have to Feel Like I Was Dying Just to Change My Diet?

Wednesday, August 5th, 2009 by Ann Meredith

By Ann Meredith

If you would have told me a year and a half ago that I would be eating primarily a raw food diet, I would have looked at you in complete disbelief. I was 42 years old , well-educated (law degree and MBA) and ate, what I thought and knew at the time, was a reasonably well-balanced healthy diet. I ate meat, dairy, grains (breads, pasta and rice), fruit and vegetables. I did not eat fast food or junk food and didn’t drink soda.

AnnMeredith-1I believed that if a person ate a well-balanced moderate diet they would be healthy. In my mind, people who followed and changed diets weekly based on the most recent best-selling diet book were gullible. And vegetarians were weird characters from the 60’s or wannabes who longed for that era, and they were a pain to eat with because they always questioned everything on the menus at restaurants (”Is the vegetable soup made with chicken broth?”).

However, at that point in my life I felt horrible. I had been struggling to recover from Chronic Fatigue and Adrenal Fatigue for a few years and I had an extra 25 lbs that I struggled to lose after I had my baby. I was tired all the time and couldn’t get out of bed, even though I would sleep for 12 hours. I was stiff and achy, like I was beat up or in a bad car accident. My inability to concentrate left many started and unfinished projects and my memory wasn’t sharp. My immune system was compromised. I was constantly getting colds that would last for 8 weeks at a time. My throat was constantly sore and lymph nodes swollen.

Finally after various blood tests, a CAT scan, MRI, heart tests, and visits to several conventional and alternative medical practitioners, I was referred to a naturopath who, I was told, could help me. After a very lengthy and detailed consultation with him, he simply said to me, “Well, the first thing I’m going to ask you to do is change your diet.”

I looked at him in surprise. “THAT WAS IT?” I thought. I couldn’t believe it. I was a bit offended. After all, I felt like I was dying. Changing my diet seemed too benign of an approach to treat my health issues. I felt like he wasn’t taking me or my condition seriously. But, by this time, after a year and a half of trying various treatments, I was desperate. My ego had been beaten down, and my willpower to question and argue was subdued. I was open to anything.

“Just tell me what to do,” I said resignedly. I felt I had nothing left to lose. My naturopath suggested a blood type diet. Since I have type A blood, I am supposed to eat a more vegan type of diet (no red meat and no dairy). After 2 weeks, I surprisingly had 50% more energy and I felt like a fog lifted from my brain. (Do you hear “Let the Sunshine In” playing in the background?) After three months, my energy was even better and I lost 15 lbs.

AnnMeredith-2Emboldened by my progress, I did a 30-day supervised cleanse. By the end, I was juicing and eating primarily raw fruits and vegetables. And that was the turning point for me. I felt SO GOOD. I felt light and clear-headed. I felt like I was vibrating. And, I had great energy. People would compliment me on everything – my energy, my eyes, my skin – and I could confidently wear the bikini I wore on my honeymoon. By the end of the cleanse, I didn’t want to put any processed foods in my body. I asked my cleanse consultant, “Now what? How do I feed myself now that I’m done?” And that’s when I discovered the raw food diet - eating foods (mainly fruit, vegetables and nuts) that are uncooked.

That was a year ago. Since then, I’ve been eating primarily raw food. My only exceptions are Ezekiel tortillas, the occasional pizza or cupcake at a birthday party for my son or one of his friends, and other foods that I may nibble on in social settings. I also eat various super foods and take a few supplements. I’m happy with my progress, the state of my health and the knowledge I’ve gained.

But, I keep wondering, why didn’t I know about eating raw food before? And, why did it take me to get sick and spend a few years and so much money to discover a very simple approach to regain my health? I know that every body is different, and what works for one person may not work for another, but people are sharing their stories with me about how their health or that of a loved one improved dramatically after changing or modifying their diet. As the United States discusses how to revamp our health care system, maybe we need to pay some attention to the basics: diet re-education.

A Little Gift to Get You Grounded! (Feedback needed…)

Friday, August 22nd, 2008 by Penny

I’ve recently been struck with the desire to help women feel grounded and put that extra step…that little extra pep in their days via a brief daily tune-in. This tuning-in exercise would include finding a quiet spot at the start of the day to focus on the breath and be lovingly and lightly guided through an audio meditation of sorts with a few powerful affirmations to help set the tone for that day.

I know, I know…….there is nothing new under the sun, and neither is this! However, when we take those not-so-new things and fuel them with new energy loaded with love and passion, well, they turn out to be new on some level, don’t they? For some, they become a breath of fresh air.

After sampling the rough draft of this idea I have in mind, Zoe Desmond from PurelyRaw.com and TheLighthouseWebWorld.com, commented:

“That was AMAZING! The words you said were so simple, but because I could hear your voice and feel your energy and emotion behind it, I just felt so filled up with Love and Energy from this. Even though I do this a few times a day on my own, this was a completely different experience. And when you said at the end that you Pray that I have a lovely day, I felt that so much in my heart that tears came into my eyes. It is so right that you intend this for women to listen to every day. We need this support, we need to hear someone else giving us words of support, because we are always doing that for everyone else. It just doesn’t have to be complex or long, just simple words of Love and support like those really can shift a lot. If I feel stresses at all today, I will play it again. Just knowing that makes me feel so supported. Listening to this has made me decide to put one of my best dresses on today, instead of just jeans and a shirt!! Please, please make 365 of these every year!!”

I would love to eventually create “365 of these every year” as Zoe generously requested, but perhaps I better start out slowly and build up from there.

And, by the way, if you don’t get to do the exercise in the morning, it would still work at night, as was the case with TJ, a home-schooling mom of three. She said: “This would have been THE PERFECT way to start my day, but still felt great doing the exercise this late (10 pm). I will have a nice, peaceful sleep.”

So, Raw Mom readers, I’d love to get some feedback from you, too.

~ Would something similar to thisbut one that includes background music and a higher quality voice message — interest you?

~ Do you feel that having something like this available on a fairly regular basis would help jumpstart your day? If so, how much time would you set aside to “tune in” this way…..5 minutes or less, or more?

~ Would you rather listen to it on your computer or MP3?

Thanks for your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you.

Peace & Love,

Penny

Save Yourself! – The Second of a Three-Part Blogging Series on Money

Tuesday, March 18th, 2008 by stacey

Right, the girls are all set up with their Money-Ed boxes (for more, see my blog from last week). Check. And as part of my ongoing quest to be an inspiration to my children, not just a good example, my own finances are in order. Check.

But honey, I’m tellin’ ya that it’s been a long and bumpy ride on the road to financial serenity. It’s only in the last few years that I’ve figured most of it out. I didn’t receive pocket money as a wee bairn, so when I got my first part-time job in Grade 11, I went a little crazy. OK, a lot crazy.

Heady on the power of this marvellous thing called money, which was mine, all mine! Mwuh ha ha ha!

If I recall correctly, my very first paycheck was spent on sumptuous cherry liqueur chocolates (it’s the alcohol that made them naughty, as I was underage) from a department store called Myer. I was then suckered into applying for a Myercard, and promptly found myself living as a Leo truly should – in luxury. Top-end skincare and make-up, gorgeous clothes, more cherry liqueur chocolates, the latest LPs (yeah, this was a few years ago)…life was good. Until that blasted bill came at the end of each month.

When I look back now I could just kick myself, thinking of the money I wasted. I could have spent far less while still treating myself, investing most of the money and becoming a squillionaire by now! But hey, life is for learning.

“Breathe Jo, breathe.”

What is it with (many) women and money?

We’re empowered in so many areas of our lives, yet oftentimes the thought of sorting out our finances leads us to curl up in the fetal position, sticking thumb in mouth and allowing a look of abject terror to sully our ’til-then blissfully serene faces.

It really, really, really doesn’t have to be this way.

We just have to have the courage to face our relationship with money. It reveals much about the way we live in other areas of our lives – for example, if we fritter away our money, then it’s highly likely we also fritter away our time. For me, at least, that was true, and sometimes it still can be.

I’ve read many books over the years, searching for the best ways to get my finances in order. Being a fairly organized person, I was always good at drawing up budgets, but I tended to over budget for ‘extras’ and not budget enough for long-term savings.

Most books gave me a pretty good grounding in investment strategies, ways to generate money, etc, etc., but then along came a book that gave me one of those good old ‘a-ha’ moments – The Energy of Money by Maria Nemeth, PhD. Wow! Powerful stuff. Maria quotes Joseph Campbell, who said ‘Money is congealed energy, and releasing it releases life’s possibilities’.

Although Maria is a psychologist, this was the first book I’d read that really linked money and spirituality, and that showed how to clear yourself to receive energy and support. You definitely have to face up to your patterns and beliefs, and to ’fess up to sometimes painful past money mistakes.

It’s so liberating to do that!

But you also have to have compassion for yourself. Maria even makes the link between ‘ism’ issues – such as workaholism and perfectionism – and how we allow these issues to avoid facing our realities. If you’re feeling brave, I’d highly recommend getting your hands on a copy of this life-changing book. It helps you see how the use of money’s energy can help bring you in alignment with your life’s intentions.

Another winning book, published more recently, is by the unstoppable force that is Suze Orman – Women & Money: Owning the Power to Control Your Destiny. She gets it. She knows that money can be a tough issue for women, and that we’d rather put our heads in the sand than face this far-reaching area of our lives.

I so love her intention with this book – she wants to empower women so that they will teach their daughters, and they their daughters… Of course we can be good with money! Of course we can have that power!

This book gives you heaps of straight-talkin’ nuts-and-bolts information about the importance of having a will, of having eight months’ salary saved, of not relying on a partner always being there, of how to invest for your retirement, and so much more – and it even, generously, includes an access code to information on her website, with more-detailed resources.

I love her chapter ‘Eight Qualities of a Wealthy Woman’, and that she offers ‘Cleanliness’ as one of these qualities – meaning that you should respect your life and your money (even arranging the latter neatly in your purse).

So, the Money-Ed boxes are in place. The girls have a good start. They also have me as their inspiration, and so will hopefully avoid some of those mad money moments that plagued my youth.

That is, as long as I can keep them away from cherry liqueur chocolates.


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