Posts Tagged ‘organization’

Today, The World Suddenly Got Alot Smaller

Monday, March 8th, 2010 by admin

To all the multi-tasking mamas who are the peacemakers, the boo-boo kissers, the tear wipers, the lull-a-bye singers, the grocery shoppers and menu makers, the domestic engineers and working Wonderwomen, the visionaries who see the best in our children and work tirelessly, invisibly…the list of our titles and duties goes on and on…

wish-banner-slimTODAY is International Woman’s Day! And I invite you to join with me and about 10,000 other women around the world, in a celebration of our womanhood! We are gathering like women have done since time immemorial to tell our stories, share our collective wisdom and concerns, offer support and solutions, and have communion- united communication in the spirit of building community.

Tera and I have been excitedly working together to produce the biggest, most world-class event of its kind to celebrate Women’s Day. It’s called WISH Women’s International Summit for Health.

If you enjoyed the raw Mom Summit you are going to love this!

We have included over 40 of the world’s most sought after speakers for this, in and outside of the raw community including Marianne Williamson, Dr Mercola, David Wolfe, Janet Attwood, Tonya Zavasta, Marci Shimoff, Victoria Boutenko, and many, many more!

We discuss all the things on the minds of modern women today: Finances, Health, Beauty, Relationships, Self-Worth, Parenting, Sustainability, Spirituality etc etc and yes, it is available for FREE over the next 10 days.

WISH Women’s International Summit for Health

They say it takes a village to raise a child, well, the global village just got smaller because we are bringing a stellar line up of world speakers right to you. With this online banquet of delicious topics and speakers, all made with love for you to be lavished with and enjoy, my hope is that you feel as I do, that the world is getting smaller and that women are getting closer. Our connection regardless of our physical proximity is enhanced when we can come together in the spirit of celebration and empowerment, and that is what WISH is all about.

christine_aruyloThese people I interviewed and their contributions just opened my world to so many things, it is truly a gift that will keep on giving as I continue to assimilate everything I learned. For example, I’ll leave you with this teaser which came from one of the calls that just blew me away that will be made available as a BONUS~

One of the key distinctions I became aware of just this week which has actually CHANGED MY LIFE came as I interviewed Christine Arylo who wrote the book Choosing Me Before We- It is that Self-Esteem is NOT the same thing as Self-Love…Do YOU know the difference? Overwhelm and exhaustion are sure signs you may not…Please post your answers below.

Happy Women’s Day!

xoShakaya

Making Love in the Kitchen!

Tuesday, October 20th, 2009 by admin

by Jody Power

I would like to share with you one of my favorite blogs, well, obviously besides the Raw Mom and Raw Diva’s sites, it’s called Making Love in the Kitchen.  It is a blog by Meghan Telpner, who is a certified nutritionist and holistic lifestyle consultant.  Her blog is very informative, but don’t worry it is definitely not dry – I’m hoping you already figured this out based on the blog name.  Whatever subject Meghan decides to tackle she does it in a fun, entertaining and sometimes quirky manner, which will keep you coming back for more! 

For you transitioning mom’s and dad’s out there she also has a wealth of great recipes which are focused on whole food goodness which you’ll want to check out and add to your recipe arsenal to slowly wean your kids off that processed food.  For you raw mom’s and dad’s you’ll still find a wealth of information and some raw recipes.

Just so you can get to know Meghan a little bit better below is the interview she agreed to do for us.

JP: What lead you to become a certified nutritionist and holistic lifestyle consultant?

MT: Like many people in this field, I had encountered a personal health challenge that was not being resolved by conventional medicine. After university, I went to travel in Africa where I became quite ill. I came back from that trip, began a career in advertising, all the while suffering terribly from digestive dis-ease. Going from doctor to doctor, I was desperate to find a solution. Three and a half-years and 19 doctors later, I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. Rather than taking the conventional approach (surgery and medication) I chose a completely holistic approach that included acupuncture, yoga, meditation, herbs and natural, clean, whole foods. In a relatively short time, I was essentially healed of the symptoms that had plagued me for all those years and so inspired that I decided to go back to school to study nutrition. Three years later, I remain 100% symptom-free from an ‘incurable’ disease, and now work to inspire others that they too can take control of their health and empower them to heal through easy, simple and health supportive eating and living.

JP: When you were trying to heal yourself what made you decide to go the holistic route?

MT: The doctors hadn’t done much for me by that point, aside from make me feel fairly foolish for being so persistent. My mother has always been a big proponent of taking responsibility for our own health, so I suppose that was ingrained in me. The only options the doctor gave me were medicines that would likely have to take the rest of my life with the possibility of having a section of my intestines removed. The acupuncturist I met said that he could help me put the disease in remission. Of all the ‘experts’ I sought, he was the only person who gave me confidence that this was not a life sentence. The decision, at that point, was pretty easy.

JP: How do you ensure you maintain a balanced lifestyle when things get hectic?

MT: This is an increasing challenge as I get busier, but I also know that health must come first. I never compromise my diet. That is my main sticking point. I would hate to do something that would bring the disease back into my life, that is always somewhere at the back of my mind, so I am pretty good about checking in with how I feel physically. I am a workaholic. I love what I do with such passion that I often have a hard time taking a step back from it and stop taking care of everyone else, all my clients and students, and focus on my own health. I have now learned that if I am really going to keep things balanced, I need to schedule that time in. I do go for regular early morning bike rides by the water or long walks in the park, often before the sun is even up, I go to yoga a couple times a week, and will book weeks off here and there that are not to be used for work, just for fun. I have maintained my twice-daily meditation practice which is vital to me. This biggest lesson in maintaining balance has been learning to say no to things.

JP: What is the one biggest mistake you see people making in their diets?

MT: People worry about it all way too much. The stress we put on ourselves over what to eat, getting the right proportions or calories, getting enough protein or eating too much carbs. Trying to eat all raw, or all vegan, or all macrobiotic or whatever the chosen diet may be, is just incredibly stressful. This stress and worry around food is a greater challenge to our good health than what we are actually eating. I educate people on how to avoid foods that have had to pass through a processing factory or chemistry lab, to avoid foods that come in boxes with health claims. I try and inspire people to simply eat good, whole, natural, unprocessed foods as much as possible. If we stick to a whole foods and predominantly plant-based diet, the counting and balancing is removed and the joy comes back in to the dining experience. We can reclaim a connection to our food as our fuel, the people who grew it and the goodness it provides in our lives. There is just no need to bring any feelings of guilt into the kitchen and trying to achieve any kind of dietary perfection or fit into a specific dietary category, following all the rules to a tee, does just that.

JP: What is your favorite kitchen gadget(s)?

MT: I wish I could be original for this, but is there anyone who owns a VitaMix and doesn’t love it to bits? I use a magic bullet regularly to grind up nuts and seeds. A sharp knife and a bamboo cutting board are my essentials. I think a grain grinder will be my next kitchen gadget acquisition.

JP: Do you believe in incorporating superfoods in your diet?  If so which superfoods are your favorite and why?

MT: I sure do! I love superfoods and was even more inspired after spending a weekend with David Wolfe. I don’t eat all raw through the winter, far too cold in Toronto for that. So I like to think up creative ways to enjoy raw superfoods in some cooked meals. The staples in my pantry are whole cacao beans, goji berries, golden berries and coconut oil. I have recently fallen head over heals for maca which I’ll add to smoothies or mix in to oatmeal and sprinkle on to salads. Spirulina is my fave source of easy protein and again- a great one to add to smoothies, and to boost up juices. Chaga mushroom is the newest addition to my superfood collection which is an amazing booster for the immune system and grows on trees up near my cottage. Other superfoods I keep on hand include hemp seeds, golden berries, and always have sprouts sprouting. I suppose, now that I think about, I am a bit of a superfood junkie. As David Wolfe says, why wouldn’t I want to eat the best food ever? I do!

JP: I know you don’t have kids but do you have any tips on how incorporate healthy foods into a child’s diet.

MT: Hide them! That would be the easy way, mix some hemp seeds into their cereal, sprinkle some ground flax on their salads, or in sandwiches, mix some spirulina into their drinks. That’s the easy way. It would be ideal to start kids off on a healthy eating life, but if they are older and you are transitioning, transition them with you, though at a bit of a slower pace. Junk food should be removed from the home and never ever ever used as a reward for anything. Rewarding good behaviour with sweets is a nasty habit to form. The other suggestions are the basics, sit down and eat with them, they’ll eat what we eat, bring them in to the kitchen to help prepare and educate them on the food. Carrots make our eyes shine bright and powerful, almonds help our bones grow strong, kale builds muscles… Educate them on the positives of the healthy food without bringing stress, calories or any of that nonsense into it.

JP: Can you share with us one of your favorite recipes that is also kid friendly?

MT: Sprouted Nori Rolls are a great hands on recipe to get the kids in on the action. Have them grow the sprouts themselves. It’s a great little project for them to learn about the growing of food with the task of rinsing the sprouts each day as they grow. The rolls with the sprouts are great as mom or dad can slice up a variety of vegetables, the kids can choose from and use the sprouts they grew themselves. This gives them a sense of ownership and individuality over their creation. And it’s healthy!

Nori Rolls with Ginger Sunflower Pate

Ginger Sunflower Pate

  • 1 cup sunflower seeds, soaked overnight
  • 1 clove garlic
  • 1 tbs  lemon juice
  • 1 inch  fresh ginger, grated
  • Salt or tamari, to taste

Blend until smooth in food processor.


Topping Options

  • Sprouts (any kind will do)
  • avocado
  • carrots, sliced long
  • cucumber, sliced long
  • cabbage, shredded
  • cilantro
  • bell pepper, sliced long
  • pickled ginger, chopped
  • Tamari for dipping (optional)

Rolling Nori

Place Nori down on the bamboo mat. Typically, the shinier side is put face down.
Layer filling in neat row, leaving about half an inch of space at the edge of the nori closest to you.
Rub a bit of warm water on the edge farthest from you. This will help the two sides of nori stick together
Holding the closest edge of the bamboo mat, roll the away from you.
Tighten the roll as you go, the same way you would a rug to minimize excess space. Be careful not to make it too tight, however, or fillings may start to fall out.
Once tightened, you should be able to unwrap the bamboo without the roll coming apart.
Cover your roll with the bamboo mat and press your hands over it to further pack the roll.
Move your full roll to a cutting board. Slice it first down the middle with a very sharp or serrated knife. From there you can cut it into sixths or eighths, whichever you prefer.

JP: Anything else you want to share with our readers?

MT: We have enough in our lives to worry about, so why not bring some fun into something we have to do everyday, at least three times a day. The kitchen should be a room of joy, warmth and community. What goes on in that room is the shared responsibility of every member of the family and it is a great way to incorporate more time together. Better in the kitchen than in front of the TV. If we can establish healthy eating and a healthy attitude towards food in our children when they’re young, though they may not fully appreciate it at the time, we are building a solid foundation and understanding that will be with them through life.

 

A True Story: How I Left My Family for 5 Days… And How They Survived

Tuesday, October 6th, 2009 by Lisa

molmI always do everything. I plan the meals, buy the food, prepare the dishes. I also do all the cleaning, all the bills, and generally just keep the family running. I do it all. My family could not survive without me.

Well, o.k. They help a bit. … But I do most of it.

So, when I decided to go to the Raw Spirit Fest in DC for 5 days, I came up with a plan of action to ensure that my husband and 12-year-old daughter could make it through this rough spot.

Step 1. Panic
Panicking is an important tool in every mother’s toolbox. If you start with panicking at the outset, then it doesn’t need to be done later. Just get it out of the way right at the beginning. Make sure to envision every possible thing that could go wrong, every accident, every poorly-combined meal, every dish left uncleaned. Fill your mind with visions of returning home to 3 inches of dust and dirt, with family members crawling helplessly around the floor, calling your name in desperation and sadness. Imagine the dog emaciated and dehydrated and the gerbils clawing at the walls of their cage. … OK. Got that in your mind? Good. Now let’s move onto Step 2.

Step 2. Emergency Preparedness
Does your family have enough Band-Aids, toilet paper, fruits, veggies, and other consumables? Do they have raw food recipe websites bookmarked? Are all the emergency numbers posted in the appropriate places? Are family members familiar with dish soap and toothpaste? Think through each crisis and make sure that resources are in place to avert any and all disasters. Talk often with each family member about your what-if fears and make sure that your fears become their fears. Wonder why your family is talking about you in hushed tones when you’re out of the room. Go to Step 3.

Step 3. Travel… with Multiple Daily Check-Ins
After completing Step 2, you can feel good that your family is well-prepared for any emergency that may arise. Try to breathe and enjoy your travels. Check-ins morning, noon, and night are recommended. Notice their voice inflections during each check-in: Are they trying to hide their sadness? Are they telling you everything? How are the gerbils and dog? How will you truly know if they’re doing well? Building in little surprise questions throughout the conversations help to test their survival and coping skills. Some examples could include: “So, what did you end up having for breakfast?… Uh-hungh. Hmm… And did the GERBILS enjoy their breakfast, too?” … or… “So, did you have that spinach with your dinner last night?… What?! You DIDN’T eat any GREENS?!?” Little reminders like these will be much appreciated throughout your time away from home. Proceed to Step 4.

Step 4. The Return Home
When you return home, brace yourself for all the chaos envisioned in Step 1, but act cool and casual as you walk through the door, reminding yourself that your family’s fragile self-esteem is in your hands. As you set down your bags, nonchalantly inspect each and every corner of the house, the weight and demeanor of the dog, the liveliness of the gerbils, and the contents of the fridge. Thank your family for their willingness to accept this trial by fire with open minds and hearts and… wonder how they learned to survive without you.

Author’s Note: When I got home, I did indeed follow Step 4 and have to tell you honestly that what I was greeted with was an enthusiastic dog, a father and daughter that got some good bonding time in, and a fridge that was empty of all the raw vegan food I purchased. The house was surprisingly clean and nothing was ruined or out of order. The author is now looking into a 3-week trip to India… by herself.

**Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt is a raw foods chef and teacher and owner of Rite Food and Company , which offers workshops on intentional and joyful eating. Lisa Marie and her homeschooled daughter, Mo, record a weekly podcast – called Sweet Peas Podcast – chronicling their raw foods journey together.


Handy Tips when using Plastic…

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009 by admin

By Jodie Power

It’s back to school time which is a great time ensure your kids lunch containers are safe.  At home we try to use glass whenever possible, but that’s not going to work for school.   My kids are tough enough on plastic never mind trusting glass in their clutches at school.  Stainless steel containers are another option.  I don’t have any experience with stainless steel containers so I cannot comment on how practical or how well they hold up.

A good article to check out if you do need to go the plastic route was put out by the Environmental Working Group, a non profit organization, .

If you have time I would suggest spending a little time poking around on this site – you are bound to find other useful information on a number of other subjects ranging from the dirty dozen fruits and vegetables, to the best (and worst) cell phones.

Basically some of the key points from this article, as well as from a couple of other articles:

Stay away from anything marked 7 or PC, 3 or PVC and 6 or Styrofoam.

Plastics marked with 1, 2, 4 or 5  do not contain BPA, and are considered better choices.  But beware, some say 1 is okay for single use only.  You’ll find a lot of the bottles you get your water in marked 1.    Other sites also note that plastics marked 5 are okay but can be hazardous in production.

On most plastics you can find the number in the recycle sign that is usually on the bottom of the container.

A couple of other points, which will not be an issue for those of you whose kids are all raw:  It is best not to put hot items in plastic, let them cool first.

Never microwave plastic. I’m definitely anti-microwave - ours got the boot a couple of years ago.

I’m not telling you to throw out all your plastic containers,  as I know replacing things can be expensive,  just be aware of what you have and which ones are preferable, especially as you buy new ones.

Remember,  in the world we live in what’s safe today may not be tomorrow, especially when it comes to anything man made.  So whenever you want to take another inventory of what containers are the best, make sure you have the latest research.

Try it!

celery-rootIf you read my last article I mentioned a game of “Try It”.
We’ve started this up again and this week we tried Celery Root (aka Celeriac).   Celery Root is high in dietary fiber,  manganese,  magnesium,  potassium,  thiamin,  vitamin B6 and vitamin C.  These are all good things, but you also need to keep in mind that it’s high in sodium and sugar.

I’m not sure if the Celery Root I purchased was bad,  as we’ve never had this before, but it got 4 thumbs down.  Maybe it’s meant more as an addition to a dish than as the main star?
If you’ve had success with celery root let me know.

Take care,
Jody

** Jody is a Mom transitioning from Cooked to Raw and sharing her joys and tribulations with us.  Keep watching for further stories from the Transitioning Mom….

Rethinking the Raw Budget

Thursday, September 10th, 2009 by Lisa

by Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt

smoothie3We’ve recently had a shift in our finances. This shift spurred a family conversation about ways to rethink our food-buying and food-prepping habits. I’m a firm believer in including children in discussions about money. Many parents don’t do this – either out of fear of vulnerability or not feeling their kids will “get it.” Money only has as much power as we give it, so discussing finances with kids is a great way to rethink how money affects us individually and as a family.

Also, being up front with our kids about our financial situation helps them understand current limits, encourages creativity around ways to save and spend, and, most importantly, keeps family communication open. Children usually approach the subject of finances unburdened and can offer some solutions from angles we’d never considered.

During our conversation on rethinking our food habits, all three of us contributed ideas. We came up with some new ones, but also realized that we were already doing quite a bit to cut costs. Below are a few of our favorite recommendations.

• Buy quality kitchen gear

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What kitchen gear do you use the most? A blender? A knife? A juicer?
If you’re using a low-end blender, for example, chances are you’re going to burn
it out making smoothies soon. A friend of mine went through 3 $30 blenders in one year before finally deciding to invest in a high-end blender. Though the initial cost may be daunting at first, you’ll end up with an appliance that will give you years of service without the hassle. Start with the most-used piece of equipment and replace that one first and then move to the next.

• Simple meals salad

When my family first started transitioning to a rawfood diet, we made tons of lovely gourmet meals. We soon found that we couldn’t keep up financially – not to mention the indigestion we were experiencing from all that rich food! We then began to transition to less gourmet and more simple: salads, soups, smoothies, puddings, and veggies with dip. One thing I noticed was that I was enjoying the food more; it was just me and that mango as opposed to the mango being disguised as some faux SAD food.
Reclaim your food! It doesn’t have to be made into something else. Appreciate it for what it is.

• Buy local

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On our way to the spring the other day, my husband and I stopped at our local health food store to restock our honey. As we looked more closely at the label, we realized that this particular apiary was right down the street from the spring we were going to. My husband called them to see if we could stop by and they said yes. What a treat this was! We spent some time with the owner and learned how he processes his organic raw honey. And the prices! We’ve been buying our 6-pound jar of honey at the health food store for about $30. Buying it from the beekeeper directly only cost us $18! In Maine, there is a local foods association http://www.eatmainefoods.org that has information on who’s selling what. I would assume every state has something like this. Do some tooling around on the web. It’s definitely worth the time spent and the money saved.

• Buy in bulk

I search around on the Internet constantly for the best prices on foods. I also order bulk items through my local health food store. When you do this, it saves them on repackaging and they will usually give you a nice discount. Think about the items that your family consumes the most. Are they items that will keep well if ordered in bulk? Do you have the storage space for them? If so, then buying in bulk may be for you. If the initial price is daunting, order with a friend and split the costs. I can’t order tons of bulk items at a time, so I’ll do a rotation: one month I’ll get chia seeds, another month, cacao butter and cacao powder, etc. Getting on a good rotation so that I always have what I need took me about a year or so, so you’ll need to be patient with this process.


• Make your own convenience foods and comfort foods.

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My kid and I used to find ourselves at friend’s houses or out running errands without food. Or we would be at home, moaning about how “there’s nothing to eat” and would end up going out. We never really thought about it at the time, but those all add up to big money-drainers. Now we make sure that we always carry food with us and that it’s food we love (that’s very important). We pack things like crackers and nut or seed butters, chocolates, juicy fruits, cut-up veggies, and plenty of drinks. This way, we don’t get caught out with nothing but our wallets to feed us.
I’m a big advocate for revisiting your food-buying and food-prepping habits often. In many instances we get into habits that may have worked for us in the past, but are now no longer applicable. Feeling comfortable with the process will ensure that should we encounter a financial shift, we won’t immediately go into panic mode and feel compelled to make drastic changes that will bring us outside our comfort levels.

Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt is a raw foods chef and teacher and owner of Rite Food and Company, which offers workshops on intentional and joyful eating. Lisa Marie and her homeschooled daughter, Mo, record a weekly podcast – called Sweet Peas Podcast – chronicling their raw foods journey together.

A Clutter-Free Kitchen (Better for you, and your child’s I.Q.)

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009 by Lisa

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Ahhhhhh, the carefree frolic that is summer is closing in… for some of us busy moms September means BACK TO SCHOOL for the kidlets and back to productivity for US. I’ll miss those perfect lazy reading/painting/ hiking/ biking/ friend’s visiting/ lollygagging/ beach days…Well, everything has its season, and we are into gearing up for a new one..! What if I told you investing just 3 hours could translate into time and money savings, stress-reduction and even making your kids smarter…Would you be curious? It’s a fact that a clean and clutter-free environment reflects a logical and clear mind. I devote a section to this in my DVD RAISING CHILDREN RAISES US Studies show that just streamlining workspace increases productivity. It stands to reason that if we allow extraneous ’stuff’ to accumulate around us in our homes, cars, desks etc., that we will be wasting effort either dealing with it, or avoiding dealing with it. This is stressful and undermines us whether we are conscious of this or not. Below are 3 simple steps anyone can use to empower themselves and their family. Let’s start with the kitchen TODAY! Systematically we can work each room of the house eventually getting to every drawer and surface. INSTANT GRATIFICATION- You’ll see!

STEP 1~ Approximately 1 HOUR

SEARCH AND DESTROY

The kitchen is the Heart of the Home and is such a hub of activity it is natural to need some shaping up once in a while. Start with the fridge and food cupboards, and then work to the dishes cupboards, drawers and under the sink. With a large garbage bag for what gets tossed on one side and a box for what gets passed on, decide on what stays by keeping only what you actually USE.

Free yourself of unwanted, unnecessary stuff and let the rest go!

HAPPY RAWMOM USEFUL TIP: ORGANIZATION CREATES INSPIRATION!

STEP 2~ Approximately 1 HOUR

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DON’T LET YOUR MESS MESS WITH YOU Already the process of establishing who is in control has begun here and you will notice the ecstasy of being Master of the Mess…It is similar to the ‘runner’s high’! LOL With excess stuff gone its time to wipe all the areas clean with hot soapy water and nicely arrange what is left. Next, deal with all the extra dishes and appliances, table linens and accessories. I used to entertain my husband’s large family a lot and they influenced how I set up my home…But over time, I realised it wasn’t really my style…we don’t just own our things- they OWN US because it takes time and effort managing it all. I believe the woman sets the tone in her relationship with her man and in the home, and she needs to feel gooood! Being a wife and mom and homemaker is sacred work, and she needs to set her workspace up in a way that creates FLOW and EASE. So I got rid of ALL that excess stuff and paired it all down to a few extra dishes for company, and our 4 wooden bowls, plates and cutlery that my family normally uses. I let my kids know that they each have 1 fork, spoon, cup, bowl and plate and that they ‘get’ to take care of it because it is theirs. So they wash and dry and put their dishes away after using them and PRESTO! Waaaaaaaay less work for me!

HAPPY RAWMOM USEFUL TIP: USE YOUR IMAGINATION AND SENSE OF DISCOVERY

ORGANISE AND BEAUTIFY TO YOUR HEART’S CONTENT

I’ll admit I was NOT organised and on top of things before having children; my husband’s efficient and tidy ways have rubbed off! I recall the panic I routinely created for myself in my single days like for instance when I was moving to HONG KONG for a year and packed the night before! Sheesh. Needless to say I was up all night looking for things last minute, left a huge mess behind, actually missed my flight- I was a disaster! I have found it is much less stressful to take bits of time and energy here and there to cultivate a ‘place for everything and everything in its place’ than constantly flying by the seat of my pants. If I can do this, ANYONE CAN! And don’t get me wrong, I still enjoy and seem to need some chaotic and random outlets for my creative juices to flow…now I allow that in my art and writing and adventures with the clan~ not my work spaces. Once you have pared down and retained only what is truly useful and necessary, it is time to organise yourself in a way that is not only functionally but aesthetically pleasing to you. Beauty elevates the spirit and that is what we need in our kitchen, office and laundry room or any place a lot of WORK happens. You will feel these areas are more inviting and pleasing to work in without all the draining mess and clutter. And for goodness sake, don’t be a Martyr -  ask your tribe to pitch in; they are great at sorting and filling jars and tossing stuff- in fact they can be really helpful in assisting you because they are less attached to the stuff and will encourage you to ‘just chuck it!’. Plus, they will feel great about contributing!

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HAPPY RAWMOM USEFUL TIP: KEEP THINGS YOU NEED ACCESSIBLE AND IN VIEW

I have found after being RAW for so long now, certain chaos and sabotaging habits just fall away. As much as we want to ‘cleanse and purify’ our bodies, this naturally starts to happen in our environments around us too. A little trick I picked up along the way is to store food in glass so not only can I see what is there, its not porous like plastic is and is easier to keep my cupboards tidy and uniform. I make GREEN SMOOTHIES, GREEN JUICES, HERBAL INFUSIONS and SALADS everyday, so I organize my kitchen in a way which facilitates all that. My BLENDER and JUICER and knifes and cutting boards are always on the countertops within easy access; so is my CD player so I can enjoy music while I work. However YOU prepare your family’s meals is up to you and so only YOU know what you need your kitchen to look like for you to feel happy and productive there. Take a little time to set yourself up for long-term success; save time and money and effort, cut down on waste, allow yourself to think clearly and work unfettered by creating the space you want to work in~ IN-JOY!

Summer Camp Souvenirs–Natural Solutions for Head Lice

Sunday, August 30th, 2009 by Tera

nitcombLast week the kids finished summer day camp, and along with some memories and new friends, they picked up head lice. I’ve spent the last several days passing hours and hours preening and plucking and nit-picking. Tea tree oil and persistence got us through this round! Here in Montreal, if you do not treat with the toxic chemicals, you can’t send your children to school. Frightening to think of it, but I thought I would include a couple of the recommendations we were given, and post this with the hope that a few of you might have other ideas and suggestions to contribute.

Conditioner: The idea is to comb conditioner into dry or slightly damp  hair, use lots of conditioner. Comb it in well so that the whole head is covered and the hair right down to the roots. Then you use a nit comb to get them all out. The conditioner helps to slow down the lice so that you are able to catch them all and it also helps to loosen the nits. Do this every day for a week and you should have got them all out.

hairbrushBrush like crazy: This breaks the little pests legs so they can’t run away from you…. it also means they won’t survive because they won’t be able to feed.

Vinegar: Works in the same way as a toxic chemical or the tea tree oil. The vinegar stuns them and helps to kill the eggs. Always use a nit comb.

Tea Tree Oil: Has a strong acidic odour like vinegar and works in the same way to stun the lice and kill the eggs. Don’t use every day.

Remember: If you do have unexpected visitors like these you must wash all the families clothing and bedding, if you can’t use  a hot water wash then add vinegar to the washing water it will help to kill any survivors. Don’t forget to vacuum the beds, and furniture too.

With a keen eye and persistence, I think we’ve managed to finally rid ourselves of these little devils. In the name of preventative measures, we’ll be adding a few drops of tea tree oil to all the shampoo bottles and doing a lot of creative hair braiding this year. When I was homeschooling this was something easily avoided. Now that the kids are in school, these are part of the joys of parenthood.

Hope these natural remedies for head lice come in handy!

If you would like more information and ideas on how to combat this problem there is a great site  http://www.headlice.org which has information, suggestions and reasons why you shouldn’t use chemicals.

Here’s to squeaky clean scalps,

Tera

In the Groove and Back to School

Thursday, August 27th, 2009 by Tera

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It’s hard to believe that I’ve actually been looking forward to getting “back in the rhythm” of things and greeting the arrival of autumn. The randomity of summer holidays brings with it a certain unpredictable chaotic beat to life that I find exhilarating, at first.

After a few weeks of it, though, I feel restless and anxious to get back into a groove of getting things done and feeling on track.

This restless feeling is a reminder for me of the importance that rhythms serve in our lives.

Just like the sun rises and sets and the tide moves in and out, we thrive with somewhat of a rhythmic predictability in life.

What rhythms guide you and your family?

What about yourself and your personal rhythms?

What little morning rituals can you establish for yourself to help you feel your best?

“I don’t have enough time” rolls off the tongues a few more times than we’d like to admit. One of the solutions to not being able to get it all done in a day, is efficient planning and organization. Even just 10 minutes of de-cluttering every morning will bring HUGE changes by the end of the month. 10 minutes spent reading, meditating, writing or cuddling your niblets can make a huge difference in how you feel about your productivity in these areas of your life.
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Some people keep their squirt bottle under the sink and every morning do a quick spritz and blitz of the bathroom sink to keep it looking great every day! What a great way to avoid having a messy bathroom, by handling it every morning in a jiffy.

If you find that you’re having trouble making time for exercise, reading, research and organizing your clutter, find a way to include 10-15 minutes of these tasks into your daily or weekly routine and you’ll be surprised what you manage to pull off.

Here’s to the ebb and flow of your beautiful life, my dear!

Let us know what rhythms guide you and your family by leaving a comment below.

Until next time…

Dancing to the rhythm,

Tera

P.S.

I am SOOoooooOOOOo excited about our upcoming raw mom release. This is something we’ve been working on for over a year. You’ll be hearing a LOT more about it as we get closer to its release. Raw Mom, Joanne Newell wrote an uncook book for kids and it is G O R G E O U S and ready to roll off the e-shelves!

Stay tuned! Exciting things are brewing around here!

P. P. S.

Ooooh! More exciting things are that we have a NEW LOOK for the Raw Mom site. For the last couple years it’s been just a cozy brown blog, but we’re moving into a big, bright website and can’t wait to hear what you think of it! More soon, Sunshine!!

6 Simple Stress-Busters to Help You Keep Your Cool This Summer

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009 by admin

by Sarah Womerstress

When nothing seems to go as planned and you’re doing your best to feign sanity, here are six ways to combat the inevitable stress that happens to the best of us:

1: BREATHE
Granted this is one of the more popular stress-busting techniques out there and with good reason: it works! By focusing on breathing you are not focusing on your problems. You are also oxygenating your body—an act imperative to function highly and intelligently (oxygen is brain food you know).  And, while I know this isn’t the main selling point, deep breathing isn’t as obvious and attention drawing as, say, doing a yoga pose in the middle of the office of a health practitioner. There are many other good reasons to try deep breathing but those are a few:  good for the body,  good for the mind,  good for the spirit,  and no one will notice a thing other than how amazingly calm you have remained despite it all.

2: SMILEStressed
Smiling is the last thing you want to do sometimes but it can really improve your mood.  Smiling automatically triggers the stimulation and production of happy receptors and hormones in the brain. When the muscles contract into a smile on your face serotonin and dopamine are released into your body which helps calm a person and elevate their mood. It’s a physiological response that will drastically improve your coping ability and all you have to do is fake a grin!  You might even be surprised to find that after a few seconds (try 10) you will really want to smile (it’s all a little funny isn’t it?).

3: LAUGH
And how can you smile without breaking into laughter? Well, I suppose it is possible if you are upset enough but laughter stimulates the same physical responses that smiling does. Maybe it will seem like you’re “cracking up” in a bad way but laughter can be contagious.  Sometimes it only takes one person laughing in a chaotic situation to get everyone else involved in a giggling fit! The sheer insanity or even just the stupidity of a situation can become crystal clear with the right change in emotion. If you’re really upset, force an annoyed laugh — the kind you would let out if you thought a joke was terrible— maybe a “HA HAAA” with little emotion behind it. Then add an extra “HA” for effect. Still nothing?  Keep faking until either you start really laughing or someone asks you just what it is you’re doing.  Then perhaps when you articulate it, you will realize just how silly the whole thing is and, barring a real laugh, release the anger.

4: YELL
Yelling doesn’t always work as a stress-buster — not something that should be attempted in the middle of a public place — but sometimes it can be so cathartic in such an instantaneous manner that it would be absolutely unfair not to mention it!  Of course there are many ways to yell but the kind that will help most is the completely incoherent really loud kind of yell. The best way to yell is to try and get everyone else involved in the chaos to yell with you. Try enlisting yelling buddies with a simple, “Let’s all just get it out — let’s yell as hard as we can RIGHT NOW.”  Then contort your face and stick out your tongue and use as many facial muscles as possible, pump the volume up as high as can go and go wild!  Either you will feel relief from just letting it out or realize how silly it is you got frustrated enough to want to make such a ridiculous face and yell really loud that you will not even want to be stressed any longer. It doesn’t matter if you choose to yell alone or with others around, it’ll help either way.

5: SING
Hum a tune, sing a song — just make some music with your mouth. You can make up a song about what is frustrating, you can pick a song you know all the lyrics to, you can just hum a tune that makes you happy, or any other happy thing that may occur to you!  Music is healing whether it is hardcore punk rock or soft and soothing classical Beethoven. Use this healing to your advantage and sing a song — loudly if you like, quietly if you must,  but sing it nonetheless.   Like deep breathing, this is taking your focus off of whatever is frustrating and putting it into the creation of music. Additionally, music is soothing and pleasant to the mind,  so it helps create the representative physiological state in the body!

6: TOUCHhyper
Touch doesn’t have to mean tactile — it can mean emotional as well. When things are really frustrating, you can help make them better by asking for a hug, kiss, or maybe just a hi-five. You can extend a compliment, a thank you, or an“I Love You.”   Tensions can get so high and interactions so competitive that depending on the person and the relationship, it is good to break the escalation with touch! If it is between child and parent, a hug can instantly melt the ice growing. If it is between siblings, an “I Love You” can shock the argument to a standstill.  A personal favorite is to stop and say, “I feel like we got off on the wrong foot here — can I give you a hug?”  Even if the person disagrees about the footing, most can’t resist a hug (or aren’t cruel enough to turn you away) 

When we’re at home in our element, figuring out what coping mechanism will help is much easier — we can leave the room and find some solitude, we can cry, write, throw up our hands in frustration or anything, really.  But when we are out in public places, the harsh judgments of others can make some of our methodologies catch scornful glances or critical remarks—the last thing you need when you’re stressed.

Stress happens. Instead of stuffing it down, most of the simple tools listed above will be employable at any time in any place.  Find your place of peace amidst the trials and tribulations of life.  May your stress levels subside and your life become easier by the smile.

Stressing New Patterns

Saturday, August 8th, 2009 by Lisa
by Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt

When my 12-year-old daughter, Mo, and I adopted a raw vegan diet, we were anticipating some changes. Some changes. One of the things we didn’t anticipate was that this “diet” would become a “lifestyle” - meaning,  it was originally about new recipes and appliances, but it quickly turned into a series of choices and changes.

MoLMWhen we began to incorporate more raw foods into our diets, we were consciously changing our bodies on a cellular level. And when we change the input, we must, by necessity, anticipate a different output. In other words, when we began feeding our bodies raw vegan foods, we found that we were becoming different people. We were experiencing the world through different eyes – literally and figuratively.

We got into veganism out of compassion and into raw veganism out of a desire to minimalize. Could we live on less? Were there simpler ways of acquiring, preparing, and ingesting our foodstuffs? What we found along the way was that this minimalist approach also played out in our emotional development. We began to recognize
patterns in our thoughts and actions that were inefficient and, well, downright destructive.

Pretty heavy claim, eh? But go with it for a minute. Here’s what we found when we started looking at stress. We talked about what stress felt like, how we responded to it, some of the things that trigger it, and our odd desire to hold onto certain types of it.

We decided to break down our old patterns of dealing with stress into the following categories:

  • Eating foods that alter how we feel: When we felt stressed, we noticed that we would gravitate towards certain foods to numb that feeling. The foods we usually craved were breads, sugars, and savories. Foods that triggered, chemically, those things we wanted to feel – calm, happiness, and comfort.
  • Drugs: Now, of course, Mo never did these things, but I did my fair share for years. Though I quit smoking years ago, I would, ironically, think about it every time I got stressed. I noticed, too, that friends of mine would want to take me out for a drink when I’d had a particularly difficult day. Sometimes I would go; sometimes not. On a gut level, I was always wary about alcohol, which I find telling.
  • Raging: When Mo and I felt overwhelmed, we’d rage. We’d just explode and start an emotional avalanche that would cascade over anyone in its wake. I remember someone confronting me about this and I responded, “Look. I’m just ranting. I’ll get over it.” I was very invested in not being accountable for
    my actions and wanted very much to play the victim. Raging justifies the stress in an oddly backwards way; when you rage, it’s because you’re stressed and your stress gets validated.
  • Sleeping: When it doubt, sleep it out. We noticed that when we were stressed, we’d just get exhausted. It took a lot of energy to keep up that mindset! We had to rest! Of course, when we woke, we never really dealt with the source of the stress, but at least we could get recharged for round two!
  • Validating grudges: Mo and I were talking about grudges and we both agreed that we didn’t hold them because we saw no utility in it. But, upon closer inspection, we realized that we did “short-term grudging”: when you’re stressed over a particular person or incident, you play it over and over, finding
    different ways to justify it. Doing this ensures that you’ll be holding onto this stress for a lot longer than necessary. But again, this is oddly backwards. Replaying this over and over is an investment for you and no one wants to let go of anything they’ve invested so much time and energy into. So we’d find ourselves stuck with snowballed situations and then we’d really get stressed!

After listing all of these out, we realized that stress comes from perspective. Originally, humans have all that adrenaline for our fight-or-flight response, for emergencies only. If we’re viewing our lives as a series of mini-emergencies, we’re setting ourselves up for illness and, ultimately, self-destruction. We also questioned the patterns we saw. First of  all, we were rejecting our own accountability and, therefore, our own power. Secondly, we noticed that we had a lot of fear around resolution and worried a lot about the other parties involved. And, lastly, that we were using food as a tool for comfort instead of fuel for our body; we’d given our food power over our emotions.

So, we reworked our mindset. Below are the new tools and patterns we’re currently developing and instituting.

  • Eating foods that alter how we feel: We believe that a raw vegan diet can dramatically alter how we feel. We”re stripping away all those layers of protection built by years of consuming SAD (Standard American Diet) foods. Of course, we found that this left us feeling vulnerable, which has its
    disadvantages and advantages. If you choose to do this, you have to allow yourself to deal with these new feelings, this new you. And, yes, we still eat some foods for comfort, but now we recognize it. For example, whenever Mo is feeling sad or stumped about some problem, I stick her in a warm bath and give her a couple of pieces of my raw vegan chocolate and let those work their magick. We’re using food now for its medicinal properties and are making more conscientious choices about where and when that’s appropriate.
  • Grounding outside: We got totally turned onto this idea by David Wolfe. Go outside every day and stick your feet or hands on the Earth. This  e-establishes connection with the energies of the Earth. (Google David’s work on this subject for more info.) When we get angry or frustrated, we’ve found this practice to be centering and calming.
  • Prevention: If our desire is to change our perspective to enable us to change our responses, then we need to have a prevention plan. Some of the techniques we’ve brought more to the fore are deliberate deep and focused breathing, daily exercise, prayer, and, of course, a raw vegan diet. One last idea that we thought was interesting was that we are both avid game players. We’ve noticed that when we play competitive games with each other, we can let go of some of our aggression safely.
  • Recognizing patterns: What are your patterns? Doing this exercise with someone you live with is incredibly eye-opening and healing. If you live by yourself, I would strongly recommend you try doing this with a close friend. Sometimes they see things in you that you don’t.
  • Let ourselves be loved: Mo came up with this one. I said, “What’s the most important thing you can think of that’s missing from our list?” She said, “Let yourself be loved.” I said, “Whoa. OK. Why?” She said, “Because then it’s all worth it.”

Nuff said.

* Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt is a raw foods chef and teacher and owner of Rite Food and Company, which offers workshops on intentional and joyful eating. Lisa Marie and her homeschooled daughter, Mo, record a weekly podcast – called Sweet Peas Podcast – chronicling their raw foods journey together.


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