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Like Mother, Like Daughter. . .

Friday, October 30th, 2009 by admin

by Karen Schachter

bakingWe moms have a tough path to walk as we help our daughters navigate the sometimes choppy waters of growing up girl.  It’s our job to protect our children and do our best to keep them safe and healthy, yet we also have to allow them to grow, stretch and learn from their own mistakes. It’s a fine line between letting them be who they are and wanting to “tweak” them just a little bit so they don’t suffer from the same mistakes or struggles that we did.

When it comes to healthy eating and a positive body image, this fine line can feel fragile and confusing, particularly if you struggle with these issues yourself.

When I teach workshops or work individually with moms, I am always asked some of the same questions: Should I let my kids have desert every day? How do I deal with their love of sweets?  How can I help her stop eating when she’s not hungry anymore?  How can I help her lose weight without making her feel bad about her body?  How can I help her feel good about her body, no matter what its size? How can I help her feel good about herself and treat herself with respect?

Although I can give concrete “answers” to many of these questions, the truth is, there is no one “right” answer that works for everyone, all the time. There is no “magic bullet” to self-esteem, to body confidence, to self-care, and to inspiring good health in our daughter.

However, there is one piece of the puzzle that is so important, one KEY asset that is SO valuable, and one action that IS within our control…that is more powerful than anything we can say or anything we can feed them.

YOU.

As her mom, the only thing you really have control over (especially as she gets older) is who YOU are BEING and how YOU are negotiating your own health, your own eating, your own body image and your own self –esteem.  Are you embodying the actions and feelings that you want her to learn?

Here’s a little food for thought to get you going:

  • Next time you notice yourself betwixt and between about an eating habit of your daughter’s, go ahead and check in with yourself: Is there something about that behavior that reminds you of one of your own struggles? (Go ahead and address it in YOURSELF first).
  • Imagine that your daughter develops a delicious, nourishing and healthy relationship to food, eating and her body – what will that look like?  Go ahead and try out some of those self-nourishing actions for YOURSELF.
  • What if food,  eating and body image weren’t a concern, for you or for your daughter?  What if you had true freedom and peace with these things?  What would your energy and attention be focused on instead? (Go ahead and give it a try).

Here’s the thing:  Our daughters learn how to live in their bodies and care for themselves with food and in their lives from MANY sources, including the media, their peers, their families, and from all the women in their lives.  

I am on a mission – and I invite you to join me – to help change the “face” of what the next generation of girls are learning – and I believe we must first BE THE CHANGE we wish to see in them.   (When moms set their minds to something, there is no telling what could happen…)


*** Karen Schachter is a licensed clinical social worker, certified health counselor, and founder of “Dishing With Your Daughter ,” which offers a variety of programs for girls and women.   As a psychology of eating expert, Karen is especially passionate about helping the next generation of girls experience nourishment, peace and deliciousness in food, eating and their bodies so they can live a healthy, authentic life. Enough of the angst and struggle!  Karen believes in the value of the mom-daughter relationship as a powerful vehicle for creating this change.

Ask *Raw Mom*. . . Your questions.

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009 by admin

Each Wednesday we will be answering questions from our readers. If you have a question for *Raw Mom* send it to Ask *Raw Mom*

Q: Hi ladies,

I have been interested in your new dessert book and the lunchbox book, but because I am overseas things like coconut meat and the variety of fresh berries and interesting fruits is limited. Not to mention cacao butter costs the bomb - are many of your recipes dependent on exotic foods?  ( I would have a minimal to moderate amount of superfoodage going on )

In Gratitude,
Julia

A: Hi Julia,

cacaoThe HEALTHY LUNCHBOX recipe book contains no hard to find or exotic ingredients; even the cacao recipes call for the substitution of carob if cacao isn’t an option. Where coconut water is used, the recipe mentions and does just as well with plain water or nut mylk, so its really interchangeable, as all good, user-friendly recipes are.
Chia seeds and goji berries show up a couple times, but they are not difficult to find anymore, and of all the superfoods, I feel they are mostly economical because a little goes a long way.  Goji berries are costly, however, so raisins, currants or other dried fruits acan be substituted if need be.

I appreciate the whole Superfood movement and recognize its value, yet as a mom I mostly relate to the struggle moms have just getting real food into their children… so I have kept it all pretty real.  The 2 recipes that have jicima, which is a root vegetable that tastes between a potato and an apple, and the few that contain coconut buttter (olive oil would work too) are kind of nice and refreshing because I feel and made the statement in the opening of the book that it is good to try new things, and be open.  Good nutrition almost depends on it.

So its mostly common ingredients with a few surprises thrown in to keep it interesting.
I very much hope you will enjoy it!

Blissings,
~Shakaya
Shannon Shakaya Breeze Leone

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Q: Dear Raw Mom,

1. How do you transition your child(ren) from SAD to raw?

2. How long did it take to get them to eat healthy?

3. How do you prepare your child(ren) to deal with social situations, such
as birthday parties, where there will be lots of unhealthy SAD food there?

A: It’s all in the DOING!

It starts with the AWARENESS of what is possible…of the importance of proper nutrition on our children’s young bodies, minds and spirit.
I personally recommend ppl start by

  • REMOVE ALL JUNKFOOD from the diet i.e. refined sugar and flour use fruit, honey and other natural sweeteners and create or buy natural and less processed treats.
  • ADD IN GREEN SMOOTHIES daily- read GREEN FOR LIFE.
  • GO RAW ALL DAY UNTIL DINNER.

angelapastaFill up in the day with fresh fruit, veggies and dips, raw soups and flax crackers, raw trail mixes, raw puddings and cereals, salads and garden burgers and zucchini pasta and cabbage burritos and manna bread avocado, tomato, lettuce, cucumber sandwiches or peanut butter/almond/cashew butter with banana.

Green Smoothies and/or Green Juices and/or Nut milks and/or Herbal Teas, with superfoods and supplements such as SPIRULINA/HEMP SEEDS/CHIA SEEDS/BEE POLLEN~ all great protein sources.

Then serve whatever is comforting and wholesome for dinner: soups, stews, steamed veggies, non-gluten grains such as MILLET, QUINOA, AMARANTH, BUCKWHEAT, RICE

Here is where you would have your meat or fish or other cooked foods.

The key here is HEALTH.

HOWEVER long it takes to do this, which could be as fast and quick as you like, its up to each family to go at their own pace.

At social events, bring fruit platters and raw desserts, and big salads and fill-up ahead of time with green smoothies and bring trail mix for the car; and then let go a bit and enjoy the festivities.  My rule is no meat, no junk food.  If they want to try something, I let my kids now, (when they were younger than 9 I just created their plates with the best choices I could find - now that they are 10 and 11, they do this themselves)
And the next day, we are raw and simple and ‘detoxing’ so its all good!

I hope this helps!
Just follow your heart and for some inspiration check out my HEALTHY LUNCHBOX e-book and/or my DVD RAISING CHILDREN RAISES US at the rawmom.com site

Blissings,
xoxoxShakaya

Choices. . .

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009 by admin

by Mary Delasantos
strawberriesYesterday I picked up my daughter, Kim, and granddaughter Hannah, and brought them over to our house for a visit.  Just like any other grandma (or mom), my first thought was that they must need to eat; so on the way to our house we stopped at the grocery store to pick up a few things. We went to the produce department first and Hannah picked out a pint of bright red strawberries for her snack. As we browsed the rest of the store she held on to her treat.  Later when it was our turn at the cash register Hannah would not release the package and protected it as if her life depended upon it.  The cashier had to walk around to the cart where Hannah was sitting so she could scan the price label.

When we got to the house, Kim washed and sliced about half of the strawberries for Hannah.  Hannah was completely enjoying her brightly colored, sweet and juicy snack until Kim and I joined her at the kitchen counter with our snacks.  I offered Kim tortilla chips to go with some very yummy fresh made salsa that Dan had whipped up a few minutes earlier and I had a handful of raw sundried spiced olives. As soon as we sat down Hannah pushed away the strawberries and wanted some of Kim’s chips.  We told her that she could have a chip after she finished all of her strawberries.  Two year old Hannah retrieved her bowl and continued eating.  When Hannah took her last slice of strawberry she slipped off her stool and walked away having forgotten all about the chips.

This made me think about the way most of us eat.  We have tendencies to go for the less nutritious processed foods such as chips and crackers because they are so readily available to us.  If we learn to keep the fresh and nutritious items in our line of site we too, just as Hannah did, will truly enjoy those choices as well.  And, we will feel better for making those choices both mentally and physically.

Happy Eating!

Mary Delasantos
voiceofthevegan.com

Take it easy….

Monday, October 26th, 2009 by admin

by Kemi Nekvapil
As mothers we are very blessed to be able to take on the role as healers in our families. Sometimes this means holding our children when they are hurt, physically or emotionally. Sometimes it means holding ourselves and our partners in the same circumstances.
But there is also the role of healer in the food we choose to nourish our families with.
If like me you are part of the green smoothie revolution, and you are enjoying the pure nectar on a regular basis, you know how it makes you feel.

What if, though, your family is not joining you?

greensmoothieMy husband Emrys may even love them more than me. My daughter Ella, will have a whole blender full, if you turn your back, your breakfast is gone!
My son Benji started to be a little ‘something’ about the texture of his drinks. He would gobble down any variety of freshly juiced fruit and veg, but when it came to a green smoothie he would always try, and sometimes ask for a cup of it, but would never really have any.

So I kept making them, as did my husband. Three of us were drinking but one was not. I was not too worried because I thought “he eats such great food and if he does not get into green smoothies, the world would not end, would it?”
And then one day it happened!

Ella was ill and she did not have an appetite all day, so later on I asked her if she wanted a little soup or a green smoothie, she choose the smoothie. I then had the idea of having a smoothie soup and bingo, I thought “I will add more texture!’’
soup_broccoliSo Benji and Ella tucked into their green smoothie soups with finely chopped fruit salad on top.
Benji  then looked and me and said ‘’Mum, can I have some more please?’’ Benji had three helpings of soup!

It made me realise that we can have the knowledge to nourish and heal our families. But if we can take it easy, be patient, and offer life-giving foods, then they can heal themselves .

Making Love in the Kitchen!

Tuesday, October 20th, 2009 by admin

by Jody Power

I would like to share with you one of my favorite blogs, well, obviously besides the Raw Mom and Raw Diva’s sites, it’s called Making Love in the Kitchen.  It is a blog by Meghan Telpner, who is a certified nutritionist and holistic lifestyle consultant.  Her blog is very informative, but don’t worry it is definitely not dry – I’m hoping you already figured this out based on the blog name.  Whatever subject Meghan decides to tackle she does it in a fun, entertaining and sometimes quirky manner, which will keep you coming back for more! 

For you transitioning mom’s and dad’s out there she also has a wealth of great recipes which are focused on whole food goodness which you’ll want to check out and add to your recipe arsenal to slowly wean your kids off that processed food.  For you raw mom’s and dad’s you’ll still find a wealth of information and some raw recipes.

Just so you can get to know Meghan a little bit better below is the interview she agreed to do for us.

JP: What lead you to become a certified nutritionist and holistic lifestyle consultant?

MT: Like many people in this field, I had encountered a personal health challenge that was not being resolved by conventional medicine. After university, I went to travel in Africa where I became quite ill. I came back from that trip, began a career in advertising, all the while suffering terribly from digestive dis-ease. Going from doctor to doctor, I was desperate to find a solution. Three and a half-years and 19 doctors later, I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. Rather than taking the conventional approach (surgery and medication) I chose a completely holistic approach that included acupuncture, yoga, meditation, herbs and natural, clean, whole foods. In a relatively short time, I was essentially healed of the symptoms that had plagued me for all those years and so inspired that I decided to go back to school to study nutrition. Three years later, I remain 100% symptom-free from an ‘incurable’ disease, and now work to inspire others that they too can take control of their health and empower them to heal through easy, simple and health supportive eating and living.

JP: When you were trying to heal yourself what made you decide to go the holistic route?

MT: The doctors hadn’t done much for me by that point, aside from make me feel fairly foolish for being so persistent. My mother has always been a big proponent of taking responsibility for our own health, so I suppose that was ingrained in me. The only options the doctor gave me were medicines that would likely have to take the rest of my life with the possibility of having a section of my intestines removed. The acupuncturist I met said that he could help me put the disease in remission. Of all the ‘experts’ I sought, he was the only person who gave me confidence that this was not a life sentence. The decision, at that point, was pretty easy.

JP: How do you ensure you maintain a balanced lifestyle when things get hectic?

MT: This is an increasing challenge as I get busier, but I also know that health must come first. I never compromise my diet. That is my main sticking point. I would hate to do something that would bring the disease back into my life, that is always somewhere at the back of my mind, so I am pretty good about checking in with how I feel physically. I am a workaholic. I love what I do with such passion that I often have a hard time taking a step back from it and stop taking care of everyone else, all my clients and students, and focus on my own health. I have now learned that if I am really going to keep things balanced, I need to schedule that time in. I do go for regular early morning bike rides by the water or long walks in the park, often before the sun is even up, I go to yoga a couple times a week, and will book weeks off here and there that are not to be used for work, just for fun. I have maintained my twice-daily meditation practice which is vital to me. This biggest lesson in maintaining balance has been learning to say no to things.

JP: What is the one biggest mistake you see people making in their diets?

MT: People worry about it all way too much. The stress we put on ourselves over what to eat, getting the right proportions or calories, getting enough protein or eating too much carbs. Trying to eat all raw, or all vegan, or all macrobiotic or whatever the chosen diet may be, is just incredibly stressful. This stress and worry around food is a greater challenge to our good health than what we are actually eating. I educate people on how to avoid foods that have had to pass through a processing factory or chemistry lab, to avoid foods that come in boxes with health claims. I try and inspire people to simply eat good, whole, natural, unprocessed foods as much as possible. If we stick to a whole foods and predominantly plant-based diet, the counting and balancing is removed and the joy comes back in to the dining experience. We can reclaim a connection to our food as our fuel, the people who grew it and the goodness it provides in our lives. There is just no need to bring any feelings of guilt into the kitchen and trying to achieve any kind of dietary perfection or fit into a specific dietary category, following all the rules to a tee, does just that.

JP: What is your favorite kitchen gadget(s)?

MT: I wish I could be original for this, but is there anyone who owns a VitaMix and doesn’t love it to bits? I use a magic bullet regularly to grind up nuts and seeds. A sharp knife and a bamboo cutting board are my essentials. I think a grain grinder will be my next kitchen gadget acquisition.

JP: Do you believe in incorporating superfoods in your diet?  If so which superfoods are your favorite and why?

MT: I sure do! I love superfoods and was even more inspired after spending a weekend with David Wolfe. I don’t eat all raw through the winter, far too cold in Toronto for that. So I like to think up creative ways to enjoy raw superfoods in some cooked meals. The staples in my pantry are whole cacao beans, goji berries, golden berries and coconut oil. I have recently fallen head over heals for maca which I’ll add to smoothies or mix in to oatmeal and sprinkle on to salads. Spirulina is my fave source of easy protein and again- a great one to add to smoothies, and to boost up juices. Chaga mushroom is the newest addition to my superfood collection which is an amazing booster for the immune system and grows on trees up near my cottage. Other superfoods I keep on hand include hemp seeds, golden berries, and always have sprouts sprouting. I suppose, now that I think about, I am a bit of a superfood junkie. As David Wolfe says, why wouldn’t I want to eat the best food ever? I do!

JP: I know you don’t have kids but do you have any tips on how incorporate healthy foods into a child’s diet.

MT: Hide them! That would be the easy way, mix some hemp seeds into their cereal, sprinkle some ground flax on their salads, or in sandwiches, mix some spirulina into their drinks. That’s the easy way. It would be ideal to start kids off on a healthy eating life, but if they are older and you are transitioning, transition them with you, though at a bit of a slower pace. Junk food should be removed from the home and never ever ever used as a reward for anything. Rewarding good behaviour with sweets is a nasty habit to form. The other suggestions are the basics, sit down and eat with them, they’ll eat what we eat, bring them in to the kitchen to help prepare and educate them on the food. Carrots make our eyes shine bright and powerful, almonds help our bones grow strong, kale builds muscles… Educate them on the positives of the healthy food without bringing stress, calories or any of that nonsense into it.

JP: Can you share with us one of your favorite recipes that is also kid friendly?

MT: Sprouted Nori Rolls are a great hands on recipe to get the kids in on the action. Have them grow the sprouts themselves. It’s a great little project for them to learn about the growing of food with the task of rinsing the sprouts each day as they grow. The rolls with the sprouts are great as mom or dad can slice up a variety of vegetables, the kids can choose from and use the sprouts they grew themselves. This gives them a sense of ownership and individuality over their creation. And it’s healthy!

Nori Rolls with Ginger Sunflower Pate

Ginger Sunflower Pate

  • 1 cup sunflower seeds, soaked overnight
  • 1 clove garlic
  • 1 tbs  lemon juice
  • 1 inch  fresh ginger, grated
  • Salt or tamari, to taste

Blend until smooth in food processor.


Topping Options

  • Sprouts (any kind will do)
  • avocado
  • carrots, sliced long
  • cucumber, sliced long
  • cabbage, shredded
  • cilantro
  • bell pepper, sliced long
  • pickled ginger, chopped
  • Tamari for dipping (optional)

Rolling Nori

Place Nori down on the bamboo mat. Typically, the shinier side is put face down.
Layer filling in neat row, leaving about half an inch of space at the edge of the nori closest to you.
Rub a bit of warm water on the edge farthest from you. This will help the two sides of nori stick together
Holding the closest edge of the bamboo mat, roll the away from you.
Tighten the roll as you go, the same way you would a rug to minimize excess space. Be careful not to make it too tight, however, or fillings may start to fall out.
Once tightened, you should be able to unwrap the bamboo without the roll coming apart.
Cover your roll with the bamboo mat and press your hands over it to further pack the roll.
Move your full roll to a cutting board. Slice it first down the middle with a very sharp or serrated knife. From there you can cut it into sixths or eighths, whichever you prefer.

JP: Anything else you want to share with our readers?

MT: We have enough in our lives to worry about, so why not bring some fun into something we have to do everyday, at least three times a day. The kitchen should be a room of joy, warmth and community. What goes on in that room is the shared responsibility of every member of the family and it is a great way to incorporate more time together. Better in the kitchen than in front of the TV. If we can establish healthy eating and a healthy attitude towards food in our children when they’re young, though they may not fully appreciate it at the time, we are building a solid foundation and understanding that will be with them through life.

 

Breast feeding hints and tips…

Tuesday, October 13th, 2009 by admin

by Ruth Hofer

Navaho tradition has it that when a mother is careful about what she eats and does, the child will drink in this quality of carefulness along with her milk. He will get a taste of responsibility.  This is the reason, they say, that a breastfeed child is more willing to listen to the elders of the tribe than a bottle-fed child and why he is more likely to become a responsible member of his culture.  This means that for a Navaho mother, being careful about her diet while breastfeeding is an expression of love and concern on many levels.

-Hiilary Jacobson, p32 Mother Food

 

breastfeeding

I used to see an acupuncturist skilled in fertility, pregnancy and post partum during my first pregnancy.  Close to my due date she gave me a seemingly unrelated list of foods to avoid for the first six weeks post partum, along with the instruction to gradually reintroduce them one at time, observing the baby’s reaction to the new flavour in my milk.

The idea was primarily to avoid the dreaded colic and keep the baby mellow. Furthermore, following this protocol would (hopefully) ensure a child that grows up allergy free and with an impeccable digestive system that works to the best of its potential.  An extra bonus being that by holding off for these early weeks you might be able to freely eat said foods down the track in your nursing relationship.  Whereas by indulging in it now might mean a baby who is always going to have a sensitivity to that particular food.  She swore by it, telling me stories of her three children, whom with the last-born she caved in and ate berries everyday.  He is the only one of her children to now suffer food sensitivities and digestive upsets while traveling, not to mention the diarrhoea and stomach pains he suffered as a new born.

Thinking that 5000 years of practice meant that traditional Chinese medicine (otherwise know as TCM)  might have worked out a thing or two (besides, I actually enjoy the idea of restricting my diet) I wholeheartly accepted her advice.

 

Foods to avoid for first six weeks postpartum

  • Onions, garlic, leek, chives
  • brassica family: cabbage, broccoli, kale, cauliflower, brussel sprouts
  • stone fruit: peaches, plums, apricots, mangos
  • melons
  • berries (goji berries are okay)
  • coffee, chocolate, tea
  • peanuts
  • tomatoes
  • citrus (lemons and limes being okay in small quantities)
  • chili
  • vinegar

Avoiding stimulants is pretty straight forward, and it’s already somewhat common knowledge that cabbage and onions in the nursing mother’s diet can play havoc on the babies digestive system. The other foods on the list aren’t as straight forward without looking at it from a TCM perspective.  And as I’m not a TCM doctor myself I can’t go into any great detail, except to say it’s worked for me.  Also, I later found out, at the magical six weeks mark a lot of the baby’s digestive system kicks in for the first time, before that it was still developing.  At two weeks, apparently, there is also a major change.

Personally, I have found this advice to work really well. I liked the way it keeps me totally connected to my baby as I nourish them.  I found that I was really aware of how what I ate affected them.  By keeping my diet neutral I could tell immediately if something novel affected my baby is any way.  I personally liked the way it reset my palate, all flavours became more intense as I began to try them again.  My eldest is nearly three, and she has awesome digestion. As a baby in Bali she would eat with local families, constantly putting things in her mouth from off the floor and never once got sick. The only foods I could never eat, until she began eating solid food herself, were watermelons and oranges. Both those fruit in my milk would give her instant diarrhoea, but as soon as she ate other things besides breastmilk, watermelon and oranges were her two of her favourites!

So now your next question to me is probably going to be, well what can I eat?

There are tons of super nourishing, milk supporting raw foods that also tonify the baby’s digestion. Dates, spinach, all sprouts (especially sprouted grains), papayas, fennel, celery, cucumbers, pears, coconut, beets, chard, dill, basil, cilantro, carrots, almonds, cashews, pumpkin seeds, dandelion, sweet potato, avocados, tahini, nettles, cardamom, cinnamon, ginger, cumin seeds, caraway seeds, anise seeds.  These foods help ‘build your blood’ which is then turned into milk, ensure that you milk is full of all the necessary fatty acids, and soothe your baby’s stomach.

 

DO YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO IF YOUR KIDS GET SICK?

Saturday, October 3rd, 2009 by Lisa

Hmmmm, does the very thought make your heart beat a little faster?
None of us relish the thought of our little lovebuds getting sick, but knowing exactly what to do really helps. I have found since we are high-raw for 8 years now, this isn’t even an issue. It is soooo rare to see my kids less than bubbling little energy balls! Both my sons have only been sick a couple of times in their entire lives, and judging by friends and family, they are experiencing unprecedented health. It is not all about the food, but the food is the foundation and actually helps to create other little changes here and there which also add to the increased quality of health in a big way. This is a fundamental drive of mine- to just allow them a childhood of freedom from pain and illness as much as possible so they can always remember what real health feels like, as most people no longer know for themselves…

I myself was always sick as a kid, became a very sick teenager, and had bottomed-out before I was 30. Now, in my mid-forties, I feel so strong and healthy, and its an incredible feeling to have never worrying about my health anymore.

Here are my tried and true tips for preventing issues, or maintaining superb health.

AT FIRST SIGNS

shannon-son-1Whether you notice a runny nose, little cough, or just red eyes, these are all signs that your angel might be coming down with something. I have never taken my children’s temperature other than with the palm of my hand on their face, yet as soon as I feel a fever coming on, or any sign that they might be run-down, I stop everything for a moment and think about the last few days, what has been happening in their reality. Have they been staying up late, getting behind in sleep? Has there been celebrations and other functions where they have been eating differently than usual? Has there been any emotional stresses for them lately? Maybe ther is something going onthat they are anxious about…Just reflecting about their SLEEP, DIET and EMOTIONS gives me just about everything I need to know to understand what has been the catalyst for their physical symptoms.

liam-and-leopy-smallI do not give any fever medication as I know the fever is ‘burning off’ any little critters and is actually a sign their immune system is functional. To thwart this natural response by giving ‘fever medication’ only serves to reduce the SYMPTOMS and their discomfort, but doesn’t strengthen the body. I like the discomfort! Otherwise, they are still running around when what they obviously need is rest. There are natural ways to keep a fever in check, and still allow the body to let Nature take its course; a cool cloth to the forehead, a cool bath in the tub or sponge bath, wearing wet woollen socks that have some lemon juice or lemon essential oil in the water wrapped in a towel while lying in bed, all these methods work to help the fever stay in safe range while it is doing its work.

TAKE ACTION

shannons-drinksStep 1:
The next thing I do is create a space with my child for some mama-and-me time, where we can sit and ‘chat’. I ask them how they are feeling, and let them tell me all about what is going on with them, how it all feels for them. I just be there and just create a cozy moment with them, gathering essential details before rushing in with any talk or solutions. They feel heard and met, and their healing has already begun.

Step 2:

I know the body needs rest when it is unwell- illness is Nature’s command for silence and stillness, gentleness and peace. I create an environment either in the living room or their bedroom where they can rest which is tranquil and beautiful- clean and clutter-free, aired out, fresh flowers or even a little vase with a pretty little branch of leaves or tall grasses, and/or a candle. I always keep essential oils on hand for my cleaning, skin-care and even raw culinary preparations, and my favourite is always Lavender for an anxious or sick child. It is so soothing and relaxing and healing. Another I love is Clary Sage as it is ultra soothing when one is not feeling well. Just find one you like that is not over stimulating. However, if there is flem or infected sinuses or congestion, then Rosemary or Eucalyptus or Ravensara are great. The main idea here is to create an atmosphere of calm and comfort.

Step 3:

Serve only water, lemon/ginger tea, or fresh juices- usually cucumber with some fresh orange juice or apple- something simple and sweet so they will drink some. They may not want any, but to avoid dehydration, especially with fevers or flu, getting regular sips into them is important.

Avoid eating food as it takes a lot of energy needed for healing. Unless they are really hungry, then fruit, fresh or mashed up is great, or a healing broth of veggies and garlic and onions and herbs. The main thing here is not to clog up the system and forestall healing.

Step 4:

Avoid over-stimulation- which is one of the reasons they may be under-the-weather already. This means, no media TV/video games/computer time. Lots of rest, eyes closed, laying down, will help rally their vital forces and speed up healing. With really young kids I would suggest you take little naps with them or create lots of opportunity for ‘cuddle time’ with a book or story just to get them still, and that will often induce peaceful sleep, or at least rest. A little Classical music, or just humming/singing quietly to our little lams, is soothing and healing. Short walks to get some fresh air is really good as long as it doesn’t over-tax them, or at least, keep a window open. Offering to massage their feet or rub their back, or stroke their hair may be really appreciated.

SORE THROATS

Could be Strep Throat which is caused by bacteria called Streptococcus or a sign that chicken pox or the measles might be on the way. If you do feel it is worth taking an anti-biotic for, ensure to give the child plenty of Probiotic capsules in his food or drinks to replace his good bacteria that will be killed off.
A scratchy, sore throat is soothed with the following:

- warm drinks: lemon/ginger and honey tea

- fresh juices: a simple mixture of ¼ greens and the rest fresh orange, apple,   pear or pineapple juice

- chewable zinc lozenges with Vit C

- Slippery Elm Bark powder- take 1T and dissolve into hot water with some honey for a really soothing tea to the inflamed throat

- Keep a little pot of boiling water in the room if you don’t have a humidifier to add steam into the air (maybe with a few drops of Eucalyptus) and help moisten the dry tissues of throat and nose

- Herbal Honey- by the teaspoon or in teas: add a drop of essential oils (must be organic, pure and food grade) SAGE, EUCALYPTUS, MINT to a couple teaspoons of honey and mix thoroughly before giving to your child

COLDS

The main thing here is to avoid further congestion of the liver or bowels as the system is already clogged up, so avoid:

- eating and especially over-eating

- cooked starches, flesh foods, sugar, dairy

- keep a little pot of boiling water in the room if you don’t have a humidifier to add steam into the air (maybe with a few drops of Eucalyptus) and help moisten the dry tissues of throat and nose

- Get lots of fluids into kids, and maybe some nice warm garlic laden vegetable broths

- Gargle with warm salt water with a drop of Oregeno Oil

- use a Netti Pot (most children won’t do this)

- put a little cocnut butter or sesame oil in the inside of the nostrils

- Homeopathics: Belladonna; Arsenicum; Aconite; Antimonium tartaricum.

EARACHES

I have had the experience when I was a nanny for a house with 6 kids of being woken in the middle of the night to screams from little ones suffering from intense ear pain. Here is what works like a charm and its best if you have this on hand so you don’t have to keep your child waiting while you make it:

Garlic Oil - put a few cloves of peeled garlic into a few ounces of Olive Oil and let infuse for a week. Then remove the cloves and place the oil into fridge. All you need to do is warm up the whole jar by placing it into hot water for a couple minutes and then when it is liquid again and warm (not hot! Make sure to test before putting into your child’s ear) take a teaspoon full of the oil and have the child lie down on her side with a towel under her head, and slowly tip the oil into her ear. Have a cotton ball ready to catch the excess.

If you haven’t this on hand and an earache strikes, do this:

Peel a clove of garlic and juice it then put into a few Ounces of Olive oil and stir around. Put about ½ a teaspoon into your child’s ear as above.

You can buy in the Health Food store a little dropper bottle of a preparation already made up with garlic, oil and Lobelia herb which works too and is convenient.

- Homeopathics include Aconite, Hepar Sulph

STOMACH UPSET

It seems obvious that the body is trying to tell us not to eat right now. It needs a rest. Simple, easily digested nourishment and calm is mostly needed here. Replenish fluids if vomiting or diarrhea.

MOST IMPORTANTLY

Whatever ails your child, what helps them the very most is if you are calm and centered, content and secure. This will set a mood and will reassure them that everything will soon be back to normal again and before they know it they will be all better. Walk and talk gently and calm, and keep your voice hushed and relaxed. It’s a time of quietude and healing and your presence will support that more than anything else.

Let’s teach our kids how our bodies speak to us…and that any pain, illness or discomfort is our body’s way of getting our attention and letting us know what we need. Sometimes, getting sick is our way of creating a time of rest, or a space of love for ourselves. (ILL=I lack love) Sometimes it is a simple reaction to foods that aren’t healthy, or perhaps an unsettled emotional conflict.

This is just what I do, and I hope it might offer some insight, and is not meant to be medical advice. If you are worried, and you know your child better than anyone, then by all means seek advice from your Naturopathic or medical health practitioner. Whatever the issue, keeping a little medicine chest of Homeopathic Remedies, Bach Flower Remedies, healing Herbals like Echinacea, garlic, slippery Elm Bark, etc., and Essential Oils with a companion guide is so helpful here. The better informed we are, the more empowered we feel.

Shannon Shakaya Breeze Leone

‘Green’ Camping! (No plastic allowed!)

Saturday, September 12th, 2009 by Jamie Abrams

Recently I went on a five day camping adventure in North Yorkshire with my boy of sweetness and my best friend. We were camping-out with other families and writers from Veronika Robinson’s hugely inspiring magazine The Mother. It was a very ‘green’ camp with composting toilets, a vegan ethos and lots of families parenting with the Continuum Concept paradigm. jami-camping2

One of the golden rules of camp was to NOT bring any plastic toys. At first glance I thought no problem. My babe is totally enraptured with cars, so most of his toys are metal. But as I began packing his small toy rucksack, I couldn’t believe how many of his vehicles have plasticy bits on them. Actually, I was a bit mortified by all of the plastic that had crept into his tiny three years of existence! However, I did manage to pull together some items for him, but I did feel a little nervous at the prospect of not taking some of his preferred favourites.

Obviously upon reflection it was a ridiculous worry. Our camping area was a lush haven of unexplored possibilities. Even though the weather was far from brilliant (as any of you that live or have visited the north of England can tell you) Zenchai was completely absorbed by the nature that surrounded us. There were way too many sticks, forest trails, streams, mud, hills, sunflower valleys and fires to build to even think about his toys. He even lucked out by finding some rusty buckets (rotting cars / tractors etc.), which he quickly adopted as his own. In the end he never opened his rucksack.jami-camping1

Although we live a fairly simple life for a family residing in London our rural outing really showed me how far from nature we really are. All of the countryside recreation was so pure and magical. I can’t wait for the time when fresh air and nature are our daily staples!


A Clutter-Free Kitchen (Better for you, and your child’s I.Q.)

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009 by Lisa

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Ahhhhhh, the carefree frolic that is summer is closing in… for some of us busy moms September means BACK TO SCHOOL for the kidlets and back to productivity for US. I’ll miss those perfect lazy reading/painting/ hiking/ biking/ friend’s visiting/ lollygagging/ beach days…Well, everything has its season, and we are into gearing up for a new one..! What if I told you investing just 3 hours could translate into time and money savings, stress-reduction and even making your kids smarter…Would you be curious? It’s a fact that a clean and clutter-free environment reflects a logical and clear mind. I devote a section to this in my DVD RAISING CHILDREN RAISES US Studies show that just streamlining workspace increases productivity. It stands to reason that if we allow extraneous ’stuff’ to accumulate around us in our homes, cars, desks etc., that we will be wasting effort either dealing with it, or avoiding dealing with it. This is stressful and undermines us whether we are conscious of this or not. Below are 3 simple steps anyone can use to empower themselves and their family. Let’s start with the kitchen TODAY! Systematically we can work each room of the house eventually getting to every drawer and surface. INSTANT GRATIFICATION- You’ll see!

STEP 1~ Approximately 1 HOUR

SEARCH AND DESTROY

The kitchen is the Heart of the Home and is such a hub of activity it is natural to need some shaping up once in a while. Start with the fridge and food cupboards, and then work to the dishes cupboards, drawers and under the sink. With a large garbage bag for what gets tossed on one side and a box for what gets passed on, decide on what stays by keeping only what you actually USE.

Free yourself of unwanted, unnecessary stuff and let the rest go!

HAPPY RAWMOM USEFUL TIP: ORGANIZATION CREATES INSPIRATION!

STEP 2~ Approximately 1 HOUR

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DON’T LET YOUR MESS MESS WITH YOU Already the process of establishing who is in control has begun here and you will notice the ecstasy of being Master of the Mess…It is similar to the ‘runner’s high’! LOL With excess stuff gone its time to wipe all the areas clean with hot soapy water and nicely arrange what is left. Next, deal with all the extra dishes and appliances, table linens and accessories. I used to entertain my husband’s large family a lot and they influenced how I set up my home…But over time, I realised it wasn’t really my style…we don’t just own our things- they OWN US because it takes time and effort managing it all. I believe the woman sets the tone in her relationship with her man and in the home, and she needs to feel gooood! Being a wife and mom and homemaker is sacred work, and she needs to set her workspace up in a way that creates FLOW and EASE. So I got rid of ALL that excess stuff and paired it all down to a few extra dishes for company, and our 4 wooden bowls, plates and cutlery that my family normally uses. I let my kids know that they each have 1 fork, spoon, cup, bowl and plate and that they ‘get’ to take care of it because it is theirs. So they wash and dry and put their dishes away after using them and PRESTO! Waaaaaaaay less work for me!

HAPPY RAWMOM USEFUL TIP: USE YOUR IMAGINATION AND SENSE OF DISCOVERY

ORGANISE AND BEAUTIFY TO YOUR HEART’S CONTENT

I’ll admit I was NOT organised and on top of things before having children; my husband’s efficient and tidy ways have rubbed off! I recall the panic I routinely created for myself in my single days like for instance when I was moving to HONG KONG for a year and packed the night before! Sheesh. Needless to say I was up all night looking for things last minute, left a huge mess behind, actually missed my flight- I was a disaster! I have found it is much less stressful to take bits of time and energy here and there to cultivate a ‘place for everything and everything in its place’ than constantly flying by the seat of my pants. If I can do this, ANYONE CAN! And don’t get me wrong, I still enjoy and seem to need some chaotic and random outlets for my creative juices to flow…now I allow that in my art and writing and adventures with the clan~ not my work spaces. Once you have pared down and retained only what is truly useful and necessary, it is time to organise yourself in a way that is not only functionally but aesthetically pleasing to you. Beauty elevates the spirit and that is what we need in our kitchen, office and laundry room or any place a lot of WORK happens. You will feel these areas are more inviting and pleasing to work in without all the draining mess and clutter. And for goodness sake, don’t be a Martyr -  ask your tribe to pitch in; they are great at sorting and filling jars and tossing stuff- in fact they can be really helpful in assisting you because they are less attached to the stuff and will encourage you to ‘just chuck it!’. Plus, they will feel great about contributing!

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HAPPY RAWMOM USEFUL TIP: KEEP THINGS YOU NEED ACCESSIBLE AND IN VIEW

I have found after being RAW for so long now, certain chaos and sabotaging habits just fall away. As much as we want to ‘cleanse and purify’ our bodies, this naturally starts to happen in our environments around us too. A little trick I picked up along the way is to store food in glass so not only can I see what is there, its not porous like plastic is and is easier to keep my cupboards tidy and uniform. I make GREEN SMOOTHIES, GREEN JUICES, HERBAL INFUSIONS and SALADS everyday, so I organize my kitchen in a way which facilitates all that. My BLENDER and JUICER and knifes and cutting boards are always on the countertops within easy access; so is my CD player so I can enjoy music while I work. However YOU prepare your family’s meals is up to you and so only YOU know what you need your kitchen to look like for you to feel happy and productive there. Take a little time to set yourself up for long-term success; save time and money and effort, cut down on waste, allow yourself to think clearly and work unfettered by creating the space you want to work in~ IN-JOY!

COLLECTING NATURAL SPRING WATER

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009 by Lisa

I have never met Daniel Vitalis, but I feel I know him.  I was fortunate to interview him for this blog months back, and then again for the RAW MOM SUMMIT, and his warmth, passion and sincerity are palpable.  He is a wealth of great information and ancient knowledge; I would even say wisdom.  If you haven’t already, you can youtube his name and see his videos.  They are always inspiring.  And of course, check out the incredible work of Dr Masaru Emoto and his beautiful water crystals that  react to the words like GRATITUDE.

He has a lot to say about raw food, air, barefeet connections, and health sovereignty.  He is especially known for his insights on WATER.  He only ever drinks Spring water that he has collected himself.  He has also set up a site called FIND A SPRING so everyone can post any Spring they know of so others can find one close to them.

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I can’t believe that I am in my mid-forties and have never done this before!  I just ‘trusted’ bottled water.  Now after being nearly 8 years RAW, I am finally realizing that as important as my raw diet is, it just isn’t complete without good quality water.  Water makes up 70-80% of our being, and our planet.  Daniel feels water is even MORE critical than food and he is correct because we can survive longer on water and would perish faster without water.

After talking with Daniel I was determined to find a Spring.  I put the word out to everyone in my neighbourhood.  Finally, a herbalist named Tamara WhiteWolfe told me of one about an hour away so I packed up the kidlets and my huge glass bottles (that I purchased from a wine store) and off we went hunting for this water!  Alas, we couldn’t find it…As disappointed as we all were, I knew this was a temporary set-back.  I was showing my husband one of Daniel’s vids (my husband has little time so I hold up my lap top while he is shaving or dressing and ensure he gets up to speed on these things LOL) and suddenly he noticed a side-video that had the name of a town close to us.  So sure enough, it was the one Tamara was referring to.  My husband drove us there that day as we happened to be heading out of town ‘coincidentally’ (of course there are no coincidences) and we FOUND IT!

lovely spring11The really strange thing was that it smelled.  Reeeeeeally bad.  I spoke to the people in line there collecting their water, and many of them had been going to this Spring for 10-20 years!  Apparently the town tests the water regularly too.  So despite the awful sulphur smell (rotten eggs) I filled a bottle and took a sip.  It tasted weird.  I took two more sips, trying to get in tune with the water.  But my stomach said ‘stop’.  I just couldn’t drink this water!

How sad.  Well, there must be another one that doesn’t have this peculiar odour and taste, and I just know we will find it.  We will be guided…

mama and sumac22I noticed my hubs talking with a homeless man who was collecting his water in a small plastic water bottle that looked really worn.  He had dark, sun-leathered skin, and twinkly blue eyes that were just beautiful.  My husband and son were handing him some money.  I saw his face light-up and tears well in his eyes.  I went over and asked him how he liked the water and we got to talking…and then I said to him ‘You must know this area pretty well…any other Springs around here?’

He seemed to relish my question and jumped on his bike and told us to follow him in our car.  Within 10 minutes he led us to another Spring!  And guess what??? NO smell.  No funny taste.  This water was super COLD!  And DELICIOUS!

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What a gem he was!  Blessings on your journey Mr Blue Eyes…

I asked my friend Wayne Gendel who is a water specialist and raw fooder for over 15 years to test the water and it is amazingly clean.  I figured as much,  as the temperature alone must keep bacteria count down.  Daniel told me these Springs are connected to underground Aquifers which could be thousands of years old and are pure and pristine.

This water is all my family drinks now.  I make all my HERBAL INFUSIONS and GREEN SMOOTHIES with it too, and even wash my hair and face in it.

It’s such a blissing.  Really magical…Whatever water you are drinking, please bless it with your prayers and intentions because LOVE is the Universal solvent and will transform everything!

Shannon Shakaya Breeze Leone


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