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“Do you feel special?” Bring out your raw inner sparkle!

Thursday, May 27th, 2010 by Fiona

by Fiona Hollis

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I was out shopping the other day, and found a gift card I got for Christmas in my purse. I was near the shop and experienced that rush of excitement, which, is no stranger to us women! Adding to the child-like wonder of this mystical retail-therapy voucher - I didn’t know how much it was for.

As soon as I entered the shop, I saw an earring and necklace set that sparkled and made me smile. As I held them up and looked in the mirror, I thought how special they would be if they were real diamonds… but I was happy I could treat myself to something pretty - so made my way to the cashier to find out if the mystical gift card would cover them.

As I skipped out of the shop, swinging my bag, I remembered shopping in that same shop with my mom as a child. How good it felt to be shopping with my mom and be bought a gift. Gifts made me feel loved, appreciated, and special.

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Apportioned Guidance

Sunday, February 14th, 2010 by admin

by Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt

“Mo, you just had a salad an hour ago! Why are you eating again?!”

Mo, whose face was shoved in the fridge, now turns to me. Her eyes are ablaze with a look she has crafted over the past year. This look is intended to shoot laser beams and make me question my self-worth. A couple of days, this look has worked; most days I just respond with exasperation.

“Mom! Gah! Duh! Because I’m hungry! Hel-LO! Isn’t that why most people eat?!”

OK, the attitude was annoying, but what was even more annoying was that she was making a valid point. Why was I questioning her hunger? Why do I never ask her to validate her thirst? Where was this coming from? Was I reiterating some old programming taught to me by my gramma? I grabbed some chocolate, got a pen and paper, and went into my room to do some thinking.

What were some of the messages I received as a kid around food consumption?

  • My food was doled out to me by the adults and I was expected to clean my plate. If I didn’t get enough to eat, I couldn’t have seconds or I’d get fat. If I was still hungry after dinner, I offered to clean the kitchen so I could munch on leftovers.
  • Dinner was eaten with the family – no matter if I was hungry or not.
  • If I was hungry, I couldn’t eat until the appointed meal time.
  • Snacks were only eaten in the mid-afternoon and could only be an apple or an orange.
  • Dessert was only eaten at special occasions and/or only after dinner. Other sweets were eaten in secret.
  • Drinks of any variety (i.e., Coke, sweet tea) could be consumed at any time.

In other words, adults determined when I was hungry and what I could eat. My “job” was to do as I was told… and then rebel and eat in secrecy. For me, these messages bred a break in communication between me and my body – something I’ve been working to re-establish for years. These messages also reiterated the power-over dynamic adults often used with children. Food is the ultimate weapon for many adults; withholding as punishment or rewarding with “treats” is a common theme in this culture. So, what would happen if I took the emotions out of play? What would happen if my job was simply to provide a house full of healthy food and let her make decisions around her food consumption? Could I trust that all my education and nurturing had actually sunk in?

Armed with my new experiment, I began the trial the next day. Here was my first observation: Mo went to the fridge and started rifling through, looking for a snack. I bit my tongue and didn’t ask what she was doing or make a snarky comment about her wasting electricity by keeping the door hanging open. I also didn’t say anything about the fact that we’d just finished lunch a half hour ago. I continued doing the dishes. Eventually, she asked me what she could have as a snack.

“What does your body say it needs? A drink or something to eat?” I asked casually.

She did the pre-teen sigh and said, “I don’t know.” And then she closed the door and said, “I think I’m just eating because I’m bored. Maybe I should just make a hot tea. Would you play Uno with me?”

Inside, I was jumping up and down with joy and excitement – for her and for myself. Outside, I said, “Yeah, sure. What kind of tea you want?”

As I was making our cups of tea, I realized that a lot of energy went into worrying about Mo. Have I done enough? Given her the right tools? Been a good enough example? And I think I’m done with putting all that energy into doubting. Today I trusted and today the results were good. And if on some days they aren’t, then I have to trust that we’ll be able to work through it… because I think the education and nurturing has sunk in… for both of us.

Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt is a raw foods chef and teacher and owner of Rite Food and Company (www.ritefoodandcompany.com), which offers workshops on intentional and joyful eating. Lisa Marie and her homeschooled daughter, Mo, record a weekly podcast – called Sweet Peas Podcast – chronicling their raw foods journey together.

Like Mother, Like Daughter. . .

Friday, October 30th, 2009 by admin

by Karen Schachter

bakingWe moms have a tough path to walk as we help our daughters navigate the sometimes choppy waters of growing up girl.  It’s our job to protect our children and do our best to keep them safe and healthy, yet we also have to allow them to grow, stretch and learn from their own mistakes. It’s a fine line between letting them be who they are and wanting to “tweak” them just a little bit so they don’t suffer from the same mistakes or struggles that we did.

When it comes to healthy eating and a positive body image, this fine line can feel fragile and confusing, particularly if you struggle with these issues yourself.

When I teach workshops or work individually with moms, I am always asked some of the same questions: Should I let my kids have desert every day? How do I deal with their love of sweets?  How can I help her stop eating when she’s not hungry anymore?  How can I help her lose weight without making her feel bad about her body?  How can I help her feel good about her body, no matter what its size? How can I help her feel good about herself and treat herself with respect?

Although I can give concrete “answers” to many of these questions, the truth is, there is no one “right” answer that works for everyone, all the time. There is no “magic bullet” to self-esteem, to body confidence, to self-care, and to inspiring good health in our daughter.

However, there is one piece of the puzzle that is so important, one KEY asset that is SO valuable, and one action that IS within our control…that is more powerful than anything we can say or anything we can feed them.

YOU.

As her mom, the only thing you really have control over (especially as she gets older) is who YOU are BEING and how YOU are negotiating your own health, your own eating, your own body image and your own self –esteem.  Are you embodying the actions and feelings that you want her to learn?

Here’s a little food for thought to get you going:

  • Next time you notice yourself betwixt and between about an eating habit of your daughter’s, go ahead and check in with yourself: Is there something about that behavior that reminds you of one of your own struggles? (Go ahead and address it in YOURSELF first).
  • Imagine that your daughter develops a delicious, nourishing and healthy relationship to food, eating and her body – what will that look like?  Go ahead and try out some of those self-nourishing actions for YOURSELF.
  • What if food,  eating and body image weren’t a concern, for you or for your daughter?  What if you had true freedom and peace with these things?  What would your energy and attention be focused on instead? (Go ahead and give it a try).

Here’s the thing:  Our daughters learn how to live in their bodies and care for themselves with food and in their lives from MANY sources, including the media, their peers, their families, and from all the women in their lives.  

I am on a mission – and I invite you to join me – to help change the “face” of what the next generation of girls are learning – and I believe we must first BE THE CHANGE we wish to see in them.   (When moms set their minds to something, there is no telling what could happen…)


*** Karen Schachter is a licensed clinical social worker, certified health counselor, and founder of “Dishing With Your Daughter ,” which offers a variety of programs for girls and women.   As a psychology of eating expert, Karen is especially passionate about helping the next generation of girls experience nourishment, peace and deliciousness in food, eating and their bodies so they can live a healthy, authentic life. Enough of the angst and struggle!  Karen believes in the value of the mom-daughter relationship as a powerful vehicle for creating this change.

Ask *Raw Mom*. . . Your questions.

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009 by admin

Each Wednesday we will be answering questions from our readers. If you have a question for *Raw Mom* send it to Ask *Raw Mom*

Q: Hi ladies,

I have been interested in your new dessert book and the lunchbox book, but because I am overseas things like coconut meat and the variety of fresh berries and interesting fruits is limited. Not to mention cacao butter costs the bomb - are many of your recipes dependent on exotic foods?  ( I would have a minimal to moderate amount of superfoodage going on )

In Gratitude,
Julia

A: Hi Julia,

cacaoThe HEALTHY LUNCHBOX recipe book contains no hard to find or exotic ingredients; even the cacao recipes call for the substitution of carob if cacao isn’t an option. Where coconut water is used, the recipe mentions and does just as well with plain water or nut mylk, so its really interchangeable, as all good, user-friendly recipes are.
Chia seeds and goji berries show up a couple times, but they are not difficult to find anymore, and of all the superfoods, I feel they are mostly economical because a little goes a long way.  Goji berries are costly, however, so raisins, currants or other dried fruits acan be substituted if need be.

I appreciate the whole Superfood movement and recognize its value, yet as a mom I mostly relate to the struggle moms have just getting real food into their children… so I have kept it all pretty real.  The 2 recipes that have jicima, which is a root vegetable that tastes between a potato and an apple, and the few that contain coconut buttter (olive oil would work too) are kind of nice and refreshing because I feel and made the statement in the opening of the book that it is good to try new things, and be open.  Good nutrition almost depends on it.

So its mostly common ingredients with a few surprises thrown in to keep it interesting.
I very much hope you will enjoy it!

Blissings,
~Shakaya
Shannon Shakaya Breeze Leone

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Q: Dear Raw Mom,

1. How do you transition your child(ren) from SAD to raw?

2. How long did it take to get them to eat healthy?

3. How do you prepare your child(ren) to deal with social situations, such
as birthday parties, where there will be lots of unhealthy SAD food there?

A: It’s all in the DOING!

It starts with the AWARENESS of what is possible…of the importance of proper nutrition on our children’s young bodies, minds and spirit.
I personally recommend ppl start by

  • REMOVE ALL JUNKFOOD from the diet i.e. refined sugar and flour use fruit, honey and other natural sweeteners and create or buy natural and less processed treats.
  • ADD IN GREEN SMOOTHIES daily- read GREEN FOR LIFE.
  • GO RAW ALL DAY UNTIL DINNER.

angelapastaFill up in the day with fresh fruit, veggies and dips, raw soups and flax crackers, raw trail mixes, raw puddings and cereals, salads and garden burgers and zucchini pasta and cabbage burritos and manna bread avocado, tomato, lettuce, cucumber sandwiches or peanut butter/almond/cashew butter with banana.

Green Smoothies and/or Green Juices and/or Nut milks and/or Herbal Teas, with superfoods and supplements such as SPIRULINA/HEMP SEEDS/CHIA SEEDS/BEE POLLEN~ all great protein sources.

Then serve whatever is comforting and wholesome for dinner: soups, stews, steamed veggies, non-gluten grains such as MILLET, QUINOA, AMARANTH, BUCKWHEAT, RICE

Here is where you would have your meat or fish or other cooked foods.

The key here is HEALTH.

HOWEVER long it takes to do this, which could be as fast and quick as you like, its up to each family to go at their own pace.

At social events, bring fruit platters and raw desserts, and big salads and fill-up ahead of time with green smoothies and bring trail mix for the car; and then let go a bit and enjoy the festivities.  My rule is no meat, no junk food.  If they want to try something, I let my kids now, (when they were younger than 9 I just created their plates with the best choices I could find - now that they are 10 and 11, they do this themselves)
And the next day, we are raw and simple and ‘detoxing’ so its all good!

I hope this helps!
Just follow your heart and for some inspiration check out my HEALTHY LUNCHBOX e-book and/or my DVD RAISING CHILDREN RAISES US at the rawmom.com site

Blissings,
xoxoxShakaya

Choices. . .

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009 by admin

by Mary Delasantos
strawberriesYesterday I picked up my daughter, Kim, and granddaughter Hannah, and brought them over to our house for a visit.  Just like any other grandma (or mom), my first thought was that they must need to eat; so on the way to our house we stopped at the grocery store to pick up a few things. We went to the produce department first and Hannah picked out a pint of bright red strawberries for her snack. As we browsed the rest of the store she held on to her treat.  Later when it was our turn at the cash register Hannah would not release the package and protected it as if her life depended upon it.  The cashier had to walk around to the cart where Hannah was sitting so she could scan the price label.

When we got to the house, Kim washed and sliced about half of the strawberries for Hannah.  Hannah was completely enjoying her brightly colored, sweet and juicy snack until Kim and I joined her at the kitchen counter with our snacks.  I offered Kim tortilla chips to go with some very yummy fresh made salsa that Dan had whipped up a few minutes earlier and I had a handful of raw sundried spiced olives. As soon as we sat down Hannah pushed away the strawberries and wanted some of Kim’s chips.  We told her that she could have a chip after she finished all of her strawberries.  Two year old Hannah retrieved her bowl and continued eating.  When Hannah took her last slice of strawberry she slipped off her stool and walked away having forgotten all about the chips.

This made me think about the way most of us eat.  We have tendencies to go for the less nutritious processed foods such as chips and crackers because they are so readily available to us.  If we learn to keep the fresh and nutritious items in our line of site we too, just as Hannah did, will truly enjoy those choices as well.  And, we will feel better for making those choices both mentally and physically.

Happy Eating!

Mary Delasantos
voiceofthevegan.com

Take it easy….

Monday, October 26th, 2009 by admin

by Kemi Nekvapil
As mothers we are very blessed to be able to take on the role as healers in our families. Sometimes this means holding our children when they are hurt, physically or emotionally. Sometimes it means holding ourselves and our partners in the same circumstances.
But there is also the role of healer in the food we choose to nourish our families with.
If like me you are part of the green smoothie revolution, and you are enjoying the pure nectar on a regular basis, you know how it makes you feel.

What if, though, your family is not joining you?

greensmoothieMy husband Emrys may even love them more than me. My daughter Ella, will have a whole blender full, if you turn your back, your breakfast is gone!
My son Benji started to be a little ‘something’ about the texture of his drinks. He would gobble down any variety of freshly juiced fruit and veg, but when it came to a green smoothie he would always try, and sometimes ask for a cup of it, but would never really have any.

So I kept making them, as did my husband. Three of us were drinking but one was not. I was not too worried because I thought “he eats such great food and if he does not get into green smoothies, the world would not end, would it?”
And then one day it happened!

Ella was ill and she did not have an appetite all day, so later on I asked her if she wanted a little soup or a green smoothie, she choose the smoothie. I then had the idea of having a smoothie soup and bingo, I thought “I will add more texture!’’
soup_broccoliSo Benji and Ella tucked into their green smoothie soups with finely chopped fruit salad on top.
Benji  then looked and me and said ‘’Mum, can I have some more please?’’ Benji had three helpings of soup!

It made me realise that we can have the knowledge to nourish and heal our families. But if we can take it easy, be patient, and offer life-giving foods, then they can heal themselves .

Breast feeding hints and tips…

Tuesday, October 13th, 2009 by admin

by Ruth Hofer

Navaho tradition has it that when a mother is careful about what she eats and does, the child will drink in this quality of carefulness along with her milk. He will get a taste of responsibility.  This is the reason, they say, that a breastfeed child is more willing to listen to the elders of the tribe than a bottle-fed child and why he is more likely to become a responsible member of his culture.  This means that for a Navaho mother, being careful about her diet while breastfeeding is an expression of love and concern on many levels.

-Hiilary Jacobson, p32 Mother Food

 

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I used to see an acupuncturist skilled in fertility, pregnancy and post partum during my first pregnancy.  Close to my due date she gave me a seemingly unrelated list of foods to avoid for the first six weeks post partum, along with the instruction to gradually reintroduce them one at time, observing the baby’s reaction to the new flavour in my milk.

The idea was primarily to avoid the dreaded colic and keep the baby mellow. Furthermore, following this protocol would (hopefully) ensure a child that grows up allergy free and with an impeccable digestive system that works to the best of its potential.  An extra bonus being that by holding off for these early weeks you might be able to freely eat said foods down the track in your nursing relationship.  Whereas by indulging in it now might mean a baby who is always going to have a sensitivity to that particular food.  She swore by it, telling me stories of her three children, whom with the last-born she caved in and ate berries everyday.  He is the only one of her children to now suffer food sensitivities and digestive upsets while traveling, not to mention the diarrhoea and stomach pains he suffered as a new born.

Thinking that 5000 years of practice meant that traditional Chinese medicine (otherwise know as TCM)  might have worked out a thing or two (besides, I actually enjoy the idea of restricting my diet) I wholeheartly accepted her advice.

 

Foods to avoid for first six weeks postpartum

  • Onions, garlic, leek, chives
  • brassica family: cabbage, broccoli, kale, cauliflower, brussel sprouts
  • stone fruit: peaches, plums, apricots, mangos
  • melons
  • berries (goji berries are okay)
  • coffee, chocolate, tea
  • peanuts
  • tomatoes
  • citrus (lemons and limes being okay in small quantities)
  • chili
  • vinegar

Avoiding stimulants is pretty straight forward, and it’s already somewhat common knowledge that cabbage and onions in the nursing mother’s diet can play havoc on the babies digestive system. The other foods on the list aren’t as straight forward without looking at it from a TCM perspective.  And as I’m not a TCM doctor myself I can’t go into any great detail, except to say it’s worked for me.  Also, I later found out, at the magical six weeks mark a lot of the baby’s digestive system kicks in for the first time, before that it was still developing.  At two weeks, apparently, there is also a major change.

Personally, I have found this advice to work really well. I liked the way it keeps me totally connected to my baby as I nourish them.  I found that I was really aware of how what I ate affected them.  By keeping my diet neutral I could tell immediately if something novel affected my baby is any way.  I personally liked the way it reset my palate, all flavours became more intense as I began to try them again.  My eldest is nearly three, and she has awesome digestion. As a baby in Bali she would eat with local families, constantly putting things in her mouth from off the floor and never once got sick. The only foods I could never eat, until she began eating solid food herself, were watermelons and oranges. Both those fruit in my milk would give her instant diarrhoea, but as soon as she ate other things besides breastmilk, watermelon and oranges were her two of her favourites!

So now your next question to me is probably going to be, well what can I eat?

There are tons of super nourishing, milk supporting raw foods that also tonify the baby’s digestion. Dates, spinach, all sprouts (especially sprouted grains), papayas, fennel, celery, cucumbers, pears, coconut, beets, chard, dill, basil, cilantro, carrots, almonds, cashews, pumpkin seeds, dandelion, sweet potato, avocados, tahini, nettles, cardamom, cinnamon, ginger, cumin seeds, caraway seeds, anise seeds.  These foods help ‘build your blood’ which is then turned into milk, ensure that you milk is full of all the necessary fatty acids, and soothe your baby’s stomach.

 

A True Story: How I Left My Family for 5 Days… And How They Survived

Tuesday, October 6th, 2009 by Lisa

molmI always do everything. I plan the meals, buy the food, prepare the dishes. I also do all the cleaning, all the bills, and generally just keep the family running. I do it all. My family could not survive without me.

Well, o.k. They help a bit. … But I do most of it.

So, when I decided to go to the Raw Spirit Fest in DC for 5 days, I came up with a plan of action to ensure that my husband and 12-year-old daughter could make it through this rough spot.

Step 1. Panic
Panicking is an important tool in every mother’s toolbox. If you start with panicking at the outset, then it doesn’t need to be done later. Just get it out of the way right at the beginning. Make sure to envision every possible thing that could go wrong, every accident, every poorly-combined meal, every dish left uncleaned. Fill your mind with visions of returning home to 3 inches of dust and dirt, with family members crawling helplessly around the floor, calling your name in desperation and sadness. Imagine the dog emaciated and dehydrated and the gerbils clawing at the walls of their cage. … OK. Got that in your mind? Good. Now let’s move onto Step 2.

Step 2. Emergency Preparedness
Does your family have enough Band-Aids, toilet paper, fruits, veggies, and other consumables? Do they have raw food recipe websites bookmarked? Are all the emergency numbers posted in the appropriate places? Are family members familiar with dish soap and toothpaste? Think through each crisis and make sure that resources are in place to avert any and all disasters. Talk often with each family member about your what-if fears and make sure that your fears become their fears. Wonder why your family is talking about you in hushed tones when you’re out of the room. Go to Step 3.

Step 3. Travel… with Multiple Daily Check-Ins
After completing Step 2, you can feel good that your family is well-prepared for any emergency that may arise. Try to breathe and enjoy your travels. Check-ins morning, noon, and night are recommended. Notice their voice inflections during each check-in: Are they trying to hide their sadness? Are they telling you everything? How are the gerbils and dog? How will you truly know if they’re doing well? Building in little surprise questions throughout the conversations help to test their survival and coping skills. Some examples could include: “So, what did you end up having for breakfast?… Uh-hungh. Hmm… And did the GERBILS enjoy their breakfast, too?” … or… “So, did you have that spinach with your dinner last night?… What?! You DIDN’T eat any GREENS?!?” Little reminders like these will be much appreciated throughout your time away from home. Proceed to Step 4.

Step 4. The Return Home
When you return home, brace yourself for all the chaos envisioned in Step 1, but act cool and casual as you walk through the door, reminding yourself that your family’s fragile self-esteem is in your hands. As you set down your bags, nonchalantly inspect each and every corner of the house, the weight and demeanor of the dog, the liveliness of the gerbils, and the contents of the fridge. Thank your family for their willingness to accept this trial by fire with open minds and hearts and… wonder how they learned to survive without you.

Author’s Note: When I got home, I did indeed follow Step 4 and have to tell you honestly that what I was greeted with was an enthusiastic dog, a father and daughter that got some good bonding time in, and a fridge that was empty of all the raw vegan food I purchased. The house was surprisingly clean and nothing was ruined or out of order. The author is now looking into a 3-week trip to India… by herself.

**Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt is a raw foods chef and teacher and owner of Rite Food and Company , which offers workshops on intentional and joyful eating. Lisa Marie and her homeschooled daughter, Mo, record a weekly podcast – called Sweet Peas Podcast – chronicling their raw foods journey together.


“Watch Out! Mom’s Hungry!”

Tuesday, September 29th, 2009 by Lisa

by Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt

molmHunger was never acceptable.
For me, hunger was always equated with lack of, with less than, with fear, with need, with urgency. Hunger meant some part of me was being denied. If I had even a hint of a hunger pang, I dropped everything I was doing, saying, and thinking, and ran to the fridge… or the nearest restaurant… or the nearest convenience store. I could not stand to feel that for more than a few minutes. I could feel panic rising in my chest, my jaws start to clench. I would begin to get angry – at everything and everyone that stood in my way of food. It became a running joke with my family and friends that “whenever Lisa Marie’s hungry, watch out!”

How did this behavior come about?
Is this the kind of body relationship that I want to teach my kid? That I want to foster within myself? Why did I encourage this pattern? Why did my friends’ accept it and even joke about it?

I am a recovering food addict.
I know this now. I came to this understanding while working through Angela Stokes’ book, Raw Emotions. Upon introspection I realized that I obsessed over food. At first I rationalized it; I mean, I’m a chef! It makes sense. But as I looked deeper, I found I was using this obsession as a front: there were other things buried beneath and this rationalization was an excuse to not delve deeper.

I’ve been transitioning to a raw diet since February 2008. In April I decided to bump up my raw percentage to about 90-95%. Since April, I’ve lost 35 pounds, going from 232 to 197. I expected the weight loss and wasn’t really attached to it one way or another. I’ve been accepting of my size for most of my life… or so I thought. Looking back, I’m see now that I didn’t immediately go 100% raw because, quite frankly, I don’t think I could have handled it emotionally.

Angela Stokes calls weight loss “releasing“. Initially, I rolled my eyes at this word choice because it seemed like such a minor point semantically. But as the weeks have passed and the weight has dropped (been released), I’m finding that the word is more than apt – and even necessary. Toxins are stored in fat. As fat is released, so are the toxins. Everyone experiences this toxic “flood” differently. Some people get headaches, others are lethargic. Dealing with the emotional toxins, however, are unique to the person who stored them initially.

I have found that some days I am an emotional wreck.
I cry and rage and feel unbelievably vulnerable. The next day I will feel light and confident and centered. And this seems to yo-yo as I continue on this journey. Some days I feel like I can’t take another emotion coming to the fore, another old wound coming up and rearing its ugly head… and I want to reach for food, for something chocolate, for something warm and reassuring. I want my grammy’s roast beef, some cheesy pizza, a submarine sandwich – anything to dull these newly-resurfaced emotions.

And then the moment passes. My husband (who should be sainted) has listened to me rant and watched me fold under my own old weight. He’s talked me down from the ceiling and kept my hands out of the proverbial cookie jar. Well… it’s not really him that’s doing this. It’s me. I’m the one who has ultimately had to believe in another version of myself, this smaller-bodied, more open-hearted woman.

I think it’s getting easier. The more raw foods I ingest, the more toxins are released. And the amount of raw foods I eat a day is in direct proportion to the amount of fear and anger and doubt and insecurity I can handle for a day. And I’m OK with this. I have to be. I’m all I’ve got.

So, now when I’m hungry, the questions are different. Instead of asking myself where to eat and what to eat, I stop and listen. What am I feeling? Am I craving a certain thing? And, if so, is there an emotion tied to the craving? And I sit on it, sometimes 10 minutes, sometimes 2 hours. When I let myself experience this old pattern, it’s not as loud and ends up sounding more like a wounded child than a raging maniac.

And I guess this has become my new hungerme.

** Lisa Marie Lindenschmidt is a raw foods chef and teacher and owner of Rite Food and Company, which offers workshops on intentional and joyful eating. Lisa Marie and her homeschooled daughter, Mo, record a weekly podcast – called Sweet Peas Podcast – chronicling their raw foods journey together.

A Parable For The Heart…

Saturday, September 26th, 2009 by Jamie Abrams

wo-smallA couple of nights ago I had the luxury to sit uninterrupted and read my book Reconnective Healing by Dr. Eric Pearl. I had just finished the section of the book where he tells an abridged version of Lee Carroll’s The Parable Wo and the Suitcase from his channeled Kyron writings. If you have never read this parable I strongly urge you to do so. Its message is so simple and beautiful.

That same evening my little whippersnapper asked for me to tell him a story rather than read him one from a book. Generally speaking I don’t think of myself as a storyteller, but I know how exciting it is for him to hear me tell him a magical tale. As I couldn’t think of anything, I decided to tell him a kiddy version of Wo and the Suitcase. To my delight he loved it and has repeatedly asked for me to tell him it. So this is our version of Wo and the Suitcase:

Once upon a time there was a little being named Wo. He was neither a boy nor a girl, but for the sake of the story I will refer to Wo in the masculine. Wo was getting ready to embark on a very long adventure and needed to pack his suitcase.

But Wo was not very good at packing. He wasn’t very organized and had no idea what to pack. So Wo went to his wardrobe, opened his suitcase and emptied his ENTIRE wardrobe into his suitcase. He packed everything! Wo had bovver boots, skirts, trousers, sunhats – the whole lot in his suitcase. And Wo’s suitcase was bulging! As he tried zipping his bag up he had bits of underwear and socks poking out. In the end he managed to zip his suitcase up.

Then Wo thought he would need to take some books for the journey. But once again Wo couldn’t decide which ones to pack. So Wo went to his bookcase with another suitcase and emptied his entire bookcase into his suitcase. Once again Wo’s suitcase was bulging! He had packed every book imaginable – recipe books, car books, how-to books. As Wo tried to zip his suitcase up, he had book corners bulging out the sides, but in the end he managed to close his bag.

Wo looked at his two very large heavy suitcases and realized he still needed to pack some food for his journey. Wo got out a third suitcase and went into his kitchen. He opened his refrigerator and couldn’t decide what to pack, so emptied his entire refrigerator into his suitcase. And as if that weren’t enough, he emptied his cupboard into his bag, too. Once again Wo’s suitcase was bulging. When he tried zipping his bag up he had cucumbers and apples rolling out of his suitcase, but in the end he was able to tightly fasten the bag.

Suddenly, Wo realized he hadn’t packed any toys, games or puzzles for his journey. Wo got a fourth suitcase and went to his toy box. As he stared at all of his gleaming toys, he realized once again he didn’t know what to pack. He said a little prayer and then began tipping all of his toys, games and puzzles into his suitcase. For a fourth time his bag was bulging. As he tried zipping up his suitcase he had cars roaring out and puzzle pieces dropping out, but in the end he managed to close his bag.

Wo stood up and looked at the sight of his four bulging heavy suitcases, when who should appear but the Angel of Packing. She was a glorious looking angel with long locks, a shimmery gown and big, colourful wings.

Wo greeted the Angel of Packing with such relief. The Angel saw all of Wo’s bulging bags and asked how she could help him. Wo said “Oh Angel of Packing I am going on an adventure and I had no idea what to pack. So I packed everything. I want to make sure I am prepared for whatever comes my way.” The Angel of Packing looked lovingly at Wo and replied “Yes, I see you have made sure that you’ll never be unprepared. But Wo do you know you don’t actually need any of those things in your suitcases? You see everything you will EVER need is right there in your heart. You will always be provided for. Just look into your heart.”

Wo thought deeply about this and understood. He thanked the Angel of Packing and said goodbye to her. Then Wo left for his adventure with only himself, leaving all of his suitcases behind knowing everything was already within his heart.


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