Even though I have been running rawmom for quite a while behind the scenes already, now that I am officially the owner, it feels like a thrilling but daring adventure, and I feel excited and nervous! I do not consider myself a business woman. I identify with one role, my calling, being a mom. However, I’ve have heard that people born under my sign in both the Western and Chinese horoscopes make good leaders and can lead successful enterprises, and as my children are growing up, it’s the perfect time for me to gradually transition back out into the world…I’d like to believe I can learn what I need to, and attract people to help me. If am to grow to the corners of my potential as a fully realised woman, as well as facilitate my mission to make a difference, I must have courage. I feel alot of changes coming…it started with changing my name from Shannon to Shakaya, and even endowing myself with a second name, one of the elements, Breeze. I didn’t consciously choose these names, they seemed to just find me.
The archetypal images of the Goddess come to mind. When I interviewed Susun Weed for WISH, I asked her which Goddess archetype she most identified with and she said for a long time it was Artemis, autonomous Goddess of the Hunt, Nature, Birth, a protector plants and animals and a Super Sexy Virgin who never bowed to the rule of any man. Powerful! I have always been fascinated by Goddess archetypes since reading ‘Goddesses in Every Woman’ when I was in my 20’s and later work by Caroline Myss. Here are some of the archetypes as described by Myss whom I have identified with- perhaps you will see yourself in some of these- and some others whom I feel the desire to connect more deeply with so as to draw from their well for my growth and expansion that I feel is needed now:
HERA: The Companion
This stereotype is loyal, tenacious and unselfish in their service to a more authoritive figure. In this relationship she provides the emotional and practical support to enable her partner to concentrate on his mission. This was long considered the traditional role of the wife. Hera is the Goddess of marriage and birth.
Sacred Animals: Her beautiful big eyes led her to be linked with cows, and lions.
Sacred Birds: Peacocks, cuckoo’s and ducks.
Sacred Plants: Apples of immortality, Gaia gave her a garden of these golden fruit as a wedding present. The pomegranates which is a symbolism of marriage. Iris, oranges and willow are also linked to the Queen of the Greek Gods.
Strengths: Leadership and a loyal wife. Despite her husbands affairs she stays with him and rules by his side.
Weaknesses: Vindictiveness, vanity and jealousy.
She often misused her position and powers to punish the Zeus’s lovers. Her retribution was also extended to the women’s children. When Antigone boasted that her hair was more beautiful than Hera, the Goddess became so enraged that she transformed the long locks of hair into snakes.
DEMETER: The Mother
The Earth Goddess and Mother Archetype is a life-giver and the source of nurturing, devotion, patience and unconditional love. The ability to forgive and provide for her children and put them before herself is the essence of a good mother.
Sacred Animals: Pigs. Snakes were symbols of this Goddess as her chariot was pulled by two winged serpents.
Sacred Birds: The screech owl.
Sacred Plants: In addition to the grains wheat and barley the penny royal, a type of mint and the poppy were sacred to this Goddess. The mint was part of a drink consumed at her temple in Eleusis where her priestesses wore poppies as her emblem. The chaste tree, frankincense, myrrh and sunflowers are also linked to this Goddess.
Strengths: Loving mother, persistence and empathic.
Weaknesses: Depression, lived her life through her daughter.
ATHENA: The Warrior
This Archetype represents physical strength, and the ability to protect and fight for your rights and those of others. Natural Teacher.
Sacred animals: Snakes form part of her famous statue.
Sacred birds: The owl is linked with Athena the Greek Goddess as it represents wisdom and watchfulness.
Sacred plants: Mulberry, oak and olive trees.
Strengths: Rational, intelligent, a powerful defender and arbitrator.
Weaknesses: Too ruled by her head and out of touch with her emotions and femine side. Unapproachable and lacking in compassion.
HESTIA: The Nun
The Nun is characterized by her intense devotion and dedication to her path. Their work requires great focus and includes not only spiritual paths but artistic and business pursuits. HESTIA is the domestic Goddess of the hearth domesticity, hospitality and family life.
Never shown in human form, she was usually symbolized by a sacred flame or a circle which represented the hearth fire.
Sacred Animals: Cows
Strengths: Modesty, welcoming, pacifying and dedication to her job.
Weaknesses: Self-sacrificing and unsociable.
APHRODITE: The Lover
Represents passion and selfless devotion to another person. It also extends to the things that make our hearts sing, like music art or nature. The Greek Goddess Aphrodite was the Goddess of love and beauty.
Sacred Animals: Dolphins.
Sacred Birds: Doves.
Sacred Plants: Wood anemones, apples, myrrh, quince, roses and lime trees.
Strengths: The ability to make men fall in love with her.
Weaknesses: She was Vain, bad tempered, jealous and unfaithful.
PERSEPHONE: The Maiden
The Maiden is one of your Archetypes if you are life still in touch with your childhood intuition and fantasies and have used these to fulfill your dreams. Hence you can still have this archetype at any time of life. PERSEPHONE is the Goddess of the underworld and goddess of spring and rebirth. The Maiden reminds you to take care of the magical child that lies within us all.
Sacred Animal: Bats
Sacred Plants: Grain, lily of the valley, spring flowers and pomegranates.
Strengths: Able to compromise, adaptable.
Weaknesses: Not able to escape the influence of an over protective mother. Torn by her loyalties she tries to please everybody.
There are other goddesses besides the Greek ones listed here, as well as Celtic, Egyptian, Nordic and Roman goddesses, plus fertility goddesses, moon and sun goddesses, and seasonal goddesses.
It’s helpful to dive into the waters of our sub-conscious to see our patterns clearer and examine them so they aren’t controlling us. I think it was Anthony Robbins who said an unexamined life is not worth living and Byron Katie says that to engage in inquiry brings us emotional freedom.
I hope you enjoy seeing which goddess archetype you have identified with. And if you want to see some modern day Goddesses, women who are making a difference in the world today, and even be able to listen in to carefully sculpted interviews with them about the contemporary issues of us Raw Mama Goddesses and women around the world, sign up here www.wishsummit.com for your free admission to this inspiring event!
Tomorrow I have the honour of interviewing Marianne Williamson for WISH.This is kind of a miracle to me as through her work she is the one who has mentored me most throughout the years since I lost my mom at 16. Her words of wisdom have always brought meaning and solidness to my life. I’ll leave you now with a few of my favourites, In-Joy! Shakaya
TEARS CAN BRING TREMENDOUS GIFTS- THEY CAN MELT THE WALLS AROUND YOUR HEART
GOD’S PLAN WORKS. YOURS DOESN’T. (LOL)
WE MUST BE FREE TO HAVE A DISPUTE OR EVERYONE IS HIDING.
IF YOUR’RE DEPRESSED THEN ON SOME LEVEL YOU KNOW YOU AREN’T DOING WHAT YOU CAME HERE TO DO.
LOVE ISN’T LOVE UNTIL IT’S UNCONDITIONAL.
FAITH ISN’T BLIND- IT’S VISIONARY.
LEARN TO TRUST THE POWER THAT HOLDS THE GALAXIES TOGETHER.
OUR WALLS ARE OUR WOUNDS.
THE PAST IS MERELY THOUGHTS. ALL THAT IS REAL IS THE LOVE WE GIVE AND RECEIVE- ALL ELSE IS ILLUSSION.
WHEN YOU MEET ANYONE IT IS A HOLY ENCOUNTER- YOU WILL SEE THEM AS YOU SEE YOURSELF.
WHEN WE THINK IN TERMS OF COMPETITION, STRUGGLE, LIMITATIONS WE ARE THINKING UNNATRUALLY.
LOVE IS WHAT WE ARE BORN WITH – FEAR IS WHAT WE LEARNED HERE.
MEANING DOESN’T LIE IN THINGS- MEANING LIES IN US.
WE LOVE THINGS THAT CANNOT LOVE US BACK.
WHAT IS NOT LOVE IS A CALL FOR LOVE.
THINK OF THE NEWS AS HUMANITY’S PRAYER LIST.
HOW WE REACT TO SITUATIONS AFFECTS OUR POWER TO TRANSFORM THEM.
THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DISAGREEMENT AND AN ARGUMENT.
FORGET THE IDEA THAT GOD HAS MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO DO THAN THINK ABOUT YOU. YOU WILL KNOW THAT TO GOD YOU ARE EVERYTHING WHEN GOD IS EVERYTHING TO YOU.
EVEN IF SOMEONE DOESN’T LIKE YOU THEY LOVE YOU WHETHER THEY KNOW IT OR NOT.
WE ARE PLACED HERE ON EARTH TO LOVE EACH OTHER’S PAIN AWAY.
WE LIVE IN A HOLGRAPHIC UNIVERSE WHICH MEANS THAT CONTAINED IN EVERY PIECE IS THE WHOLE AND VICE VERSA THEREFORE A HEALING IN ANY ONE OF US HELPS TO HEAL US ALL.
Wow! The first week in January of 2010. Into the New Year we go! Happy Happy Joy Joy! Holiday time can be very busy and sleep and dietary concerns are not my top priorities between all the raw parties and events, polar bear dips and barefoot hikes in the snow, night skating, tobogganing, visiting old friends and other festivities which included TV appearances, I really let things slip a bit. I am rather strict and disciplined 90% of the time, my diet is 90% raw, and come to think of it, my marks in school were that too… I leave a good 10 % for total spontaneity and adventure. Now it’s time to get back on track! I looooove the fresh start feeling of a clean slate before me to create upon, and I do make resolutions in the form of setting intentions. Speaking of which, I am still loving the Daylight Diet which I started in November that I promised to let everyone know how I am progressing. I have such a long way to go, yet I am encouraged by my progress already. I am making baby-steps and if I didn’t love and honour myself so much, I would think I was pathetic actually because of how slow I am going! Hahaha.
The Daylight Diet explains clearly why anyone who wishes to improve their health would do better to eat the biggest meal earlier in the day and completely cease eating after sundown. So I am getting closer to this goal. I have started the habit of making my green juice or smoothie earlier, around 10am, and although I am not totally consistent with this yet, I am getting there. I am also eating something in the afternoon to get some nourishment in so I won’t be hungry after my next and final meal at dinner. I find eating in the day really different for me being used to not stopping for lunch, and just being very productive. I now realise there is just no point keeping a beautiful home and making healthy meals for my family and working on my rawmom books and projects for my world-family if I am not taking time to properly nourish myself.
It’s a lot of habits I still wish to change… and it isn’t that I didn’t realise this before, its just that I was fooling myself into thinking if I was raw that I could get away with all this late eating and lack of sleep. I feel that as challenging as this is for me to make these changes, that the results will be worth it. I am already noticing that I am waking up more refreshed. And there is a slight euphoria that I cannot totally understand or describe… a physical sense in my body that something HUGE and exciting is happening. I just feeeeeel like my body is happier. And will continue to become happier still as I continue to progress through the stages of the Daylight Diet. Before I can move on to stage one or two or three, I need to really accomplish maintaining my food intake during the day and taper my last meal back from 6 pm to 5 pm before it gets dark.
Even though I was in reasonable shape when my breastfeeding career began, I was utterly surprised by how physically taxing breastfeeding could be on my muscles. In the early days, when my babe seemed to suckle for what felt like hours on end, I would wind up with achy arms, shoulders and back. My legs would feel restless like I had just been sat on an aeroplane for 12 hours without moving. I laugh now at my initial weakness of body.
For me this is where the ability to utilize yogic thinking truly ups the anti. My interpretation of the meaning of yogic thinking is just that it is another phrase for positive thinking and affirmations: believing in something greater, the law of attraction, meditation, mantra japa etc. Basically, if I remain calm, allow positivity to abound, it is the natural order of the Universe to sort the rest of it out. If I was really in a mental tizzy it is paramount for me to find a mantra to soothe my soul and begin deep yogic breathing. This would eventually bring me back to a euphoric equilibrium.
We moms have a tough path to walk as we help our daughters navigate the sometimes choppy waters of growing up girl. It’s our job to protect our children and do our best to keep them safe and healthy, yet we also have to allow them to grow, stretch and learn from their own mistakes. It’s a fine line between letting them be who they are and wanting to “tweak” them just a little bit so they don’t suffer from the same mistakes or struggles that we did.
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Fill up in the day with fresh fruit, veggies and dips, raw soups and flax crackers, raw trail mixes, raw puddings and cereals, salads and garden burgers and zucchini pasta and cabbage burritos and manna bread avocado, tomato, lettuce, cucumber sandwiches or peanut butter/almond/cashew butter with banana.
Yesterday I picked up my daughter, Kim, and granddaughter Hannah, and brought them over to our house for a visit. Just like any other grandma (or mom), my first thought was that they must need to eat; so on the way to our house we stopped at the grocery store to pick up a few things. We went to the produce department first and Hannah picked out a pint of bright red strawberries for her snack. As we browsed the rest of the store she held on to her treat. Later when it was our turn at the cash register Hannah would not release the package and protected it as if her life depended upon it. The cashier had to walk around to the cart where Hannah was sitting so she could scan the price label.
My husband Emrys may even love them more than me. My daughter Ella, will have a whole blender full, if you turn your back, your breakfast is gone!
So Benji and Ella tucked into their green smoothie soups with finely chopped fruit salad on top.
I always do everything. I plan the meals, buy the food, prepare the dishes. I also do all the cleaning, all the bills, and generally just keep the family running. I do it all. My family could not survive without me.







