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"What’s Fer-menting Tonight, Hun?": Food Remedies for the Autism Gut

Sunday, April 26th, 2009 by admin

“What’s Fer-menting Tonight, Hun?”

That’s a question my man always asks because more times than not my counter top’s full of sizzling mason jars spreading their sour stink throughout our poorly ventilated apartment.

More times than not my counter top’s full of sizzling mason jars spreading their sour stink throughout our poorly ventilated apartment. My hubby and I used to argue about “the way I eat” and how it would drive him bonkers. But he’s settled down ever since I started sneaking spoonfuls of it into his shakes.

We ferment all kinds of veggies and drinks in our home and we do it for the sake of gut healing. See, gut problems lead to indigestion and malnutrition — undigested foods turn into toxins, and organs malfunction and allow other toxins to grow and thrive. With my son, the label makers liked to call this autism. Autism usually comes with horrific gut issues. And, I learned, that by repairing the gut we allow for the whole body to heal.

We began our recovery with fermented young coconut water (coconut kefir). I am blessed to have found this. Because it was coconut kefir and coconut kefir alone that helped clear the terrain for deeper healing. Kefir brought back eye contact where there was none. Kefir helped him focus. Kefir changed the bacterial make up in his gut, and he began craving greener foods. Soon, he loved all of his green veggies. And, we all know that green is good! Green heals!

Once I had the kefir in my own system as well – I could see the light at the end of the autism tunnel and it was bright!

Soon, my motto for health through food became Green it, Blend it, Ferment it. I use Body Ecology controlled culture starters to ferment, and I highly recommend this if you or your children have severe digestive problems. You can ferment wildly like so many of our raw friends do. But, BED’s starters are very hearty and have been specifically formulated with bacterial strains to conquer candida, create vitamins, and assimilate nutrients from food and more.

When you ferment food you save the body time digesting. You make the nutrients more readily absorbant. You promote detox. The body begins to heal because it’s finally receiving the proper nutrition from every bite. So, even if your child lacks HCL (hydrocholoric acid) in the stomach and has a hard time digesting everything he eats – fermented foods take hold and share their love inside his body. That’s why it’s such a necessary step when trying to undo the autism mess. I advise my clients to begin with a tablespoon of coconut kefir each morning as a first step in the recovery journey. They can usually work their way up to a quart of the amazing drink within time.

Here’s my method of kefir making:

You’ll need:
1 box (9) young coconuts (which can be purchased most inexpensively at your local Asian market)
1 pack Kefir Starter
I glass pitcher
3-4 sterile quart sized mason jars
1. Begin with room temp (75 degrees or warmer) coconuts and starter pack
2. Open 3 coconuts (I just poke hole right below the tip with a screwdriver), and pour into glass pitcher. Make sure that the water is clear and not pink or brown.
3. Pour that liquid into one jar.
4. Add the kefir starter.
5. Lightly stir
6. Close the jar and let it sit out for 24-36 hrs.
7. Then, split that batch into 2 jars.
8. Add fresh coconut water from 3 more coconuts.
9. Close jars and let sit for another 24 hrs.
10. Repeat until you have used all of your coconuts.
11. Refrigerate.

When the coconut water ferments it becomes a bit cloudy, bubby and tastes a little like champagne, you may sense that it smells like bread or beer and that’s fine. Don’t toss it if it doesn’t smell like roses. Sometimes the jars talk, sizzle, make funky sounds and even vibrate and move on your counter top. Seriously! So, if there’s tons of action coming from a jar, I’d watch out. Tops do pop off. Handle this with komucha care. Every batch won’t ferment at the same pace. Too much bubbling could mean it’s done fermenting and you can take a drink. Each jar of kefir can ferment about seven more jars. So you will want to leave about a ¼ cup of this magic juice in each jar to start the next batch.

No need to go to fast when embarking on your fermentation journey. There’s plenty of time to experience the magic. Check out the recipe in this issue of Health in High Heels! Just promise me you’ll go slowly with the kiddos. This stuff is very detoxing and chances are that they’ll be releasing a lot. The detox will be amazing if you support it with colon therapy, skin brushing, spa baths, energetic and emotional reinforcement as well as good old fashioned sleep.

Reactions to probiotic foods like kefir are really as varied as our kid’s symptoms. Some kids get hyper for a while others disconnect. It’s generally a sign that the body is pushing out the old. The body really wants to heal. If you sense that embracing fermented foods as part of your autism healing plan is something you need to do for your child, then please don’t hesitate to contact me for help and support along the way. We can make healing easy if we do it together.

P.S.

The coconut meat can also be fermented with about a tablespoon of Kefir. This takes about 12 hours. You can do it overnight and wake up to a yummy raw yogurt in the morning!

Enjoy!

By Gina Laverde

Gina Laverde is a health conscious contributor to the www.RawMom site. In her efforts to address the autism-related conditions being faced by her son, she jumped on the healthy bandwagon and has been inspiring everyone ever since! You can learn more about her by visiting her websites www.certifiedorganicwoman.com and www.healartfully.com. Or by emailing gina@healartfully.com

Mama Knows Best

Saturday, April 25th, 2009 by Jamie Abrams

p20400051Wednesday I had a really intense emotional experience with the motive being ambiguous until after the event. Let me rewind a few months to give some background…

Back in December I started looking into playgroups for Zenchai to attend a couple times a week. With all the winter weather I felt like we were always cooped up. We were both getting bored, but in very different ways. I was feeling like I wanted to spread my wings a little and have a bit of space to myself. For him I had an inkling he might be ready for more stimulation and interaction with other children. I looked around at several groups, asked the opinions of some mothers I knew and did a little internet research.

Finally, I found a little Montessori group near to my house. We booked in a visit. Everything seemed nice enough on first appearances. But then after some more thought I sensed it might be better to wait a little longer. I had apprehensions over completely handing Zenchai’s care over to a stranger, plus we had some traveling planned in the New Year.

Okay so now fast forward to the near present moment…

p8130096A couple weeks ago there were two specific occurrences that made me see Zenchai in a whole new way. It was observing those two situations that made me know on a gut level that Zenchai was definitely ready to join a group. I approached the Montessori again. I got him registered and ready to go.

On Wednesday morning we set out for our first day of ‘school’. As part of his initiation I was able to slowly acclimate him by being present with him. The idea being with each session I would spend a little less time in the room until he was confident to be there without me.

Zenchai was at first unsure of what he could and could not play with, which of course is totally normal. But as more children came in (there were only six kids in total) the sickness in me became more palpable. I became aware of the tears lingering on the brims of my eyes. In the moment I just couldn’t rationalize my tremendous emotions. I really had to dig deep to not let Zenchai see I had lost my centeredness. I didn’t want my energetic disposition to rub-off on him.

As the morning progressed I just kept getting waves of red light signal afflictions. There was just something fundamentally wrong. I couldn’t put my finger on one thing, but recognized the environment was way off the mark.

My head was buzzing with disbelief. Every toy I saw was plastic with batteries to make it flash, sing or do whatever. There were even remote control cars (not that Zenchai minded!). This is of course not to say I have been totally able to escape having some plastic toys in our home for Zenchai. I think I have just been “spoiled” by the Steiner atmosphere of wholesome, natural toys. My mind kept wandering to the lush gardens and tree houses at our Steiner school only to be snapped back into the reality of seeing big plastic outdoor cars on a small patch of fake grass. My heart was rapidly breaking.

p1040005When we departed I was in such a disturbing tizzy. Acutely in my core I knew I was not going to be able to continue a relationship with the Montessori school. I drove to my mother-in-law’s around the corner. She took one look at me and wondered what had happened to shake me up so badly. I explained as much as I could to her. She totally supported my intuition. Then she handed me the phone so I could call Steiner school.

I have been taking Zenchai to our local Steiner school parent and child playgroup since he was six months old. I absolutely love it there. It has a purely magical atmosphere with heavenly fairy energies present. We have always said that if we still lived near the school when he became of age we would send him there. They don’t take children into the kindergarten level until 3 – 3 ½ . Zenchai is just short of three so I had thought he wouldn’t be able to start there until September.

I made the phone call and much to my relief all going well he should be able to attend at the start of June after their midterm break when he is three.

Even though I had resolved the situation my spirit was so profoundly effected I remained on the brink of tears for the rest of the day. The mother in me had really been put to the test. I had two options: 1) ignore the colossal sensations that were coursing through me or 2) listen to my heightened discernment. Obviously I chose the latter.

p1010029Upon reflection I determined why I had been incredibly sensitive and perceptive in relation to this particular state of affairs. Unintentionally I had been eating very lightly, nearly fasting for a few days prior to this event. I had become so visceral emotionally without realizing it that my ethereal being had an almost vulnerable quality to it. My sixth sense had become brightly polished.

One could view this unconscious creating of clarity as a quirk. But personally I don’t believe in coincidence. To me the Universe guided me into sparse eating in order to help my motherly intuition blossom for this circumstance.

I love the way we are always taken care of!

PS. My eating has naturally returned to normal.

Water…More profound than even RAW FOOD!

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009 by Shannon

WATER- MORE PROFOUND EVEN THAN OUR RAW FOOD!

Daniel Vitalis is a raw foodist, Martial Artist/warrior who has a sacred and evolved understanding and relationship with water and shares with us some of his amazing insights.  I especially love the way he talks about our basic desire as moms to foster excellence in our children!  And also how he gives primal insight into what would actually motivate a man to change his dietary ways.  ONLY another man could really know…!  Thanks Daniel!  Also, he is NOT on the ‘vegan bandwagon’ and asks Moms to stay in our feminine wisdom and reclaim our sovereign right to learn and do what our ancestors have done as far as preparing for Birth, or feeding our children.  I appreciate Daniel’s appreciation of women, Nature and the basic intelligence of children who are raised with Nature…everything he said makes perfect sense and is extraordinary in his distinctions.  My children have enjoyed his fascinating youtube videos where he vortexes water into mini tornados.  I actually purchased a 2 inch cuplar from the hardware store to do my own water too, but have so far been unable to locate where to purchase 4L GLASS water bottles.  My husband is very interested in locating for us a Natural spring where we can gather our own water, and I know this will happen soon.  I encourage all moms to read this interview and begin thinking about WATER at least as much as we do about our children’s FOOD…

danielchefDaniel, I find your work to be enthralling and profound.  Also, your style of delivery is wonderfully clear, understandable and inspiring.  Can you give a brief background so our readers here at rawmom get a sense about you if they are not already familiar with your work.

Yes, and Thank You!

I have had the unique experience of having become involved with this level of nutritional awareness at a fairly young age, half my life ago, when I was 15 years old.  I spent many years exploring every aspect of nutrition that I could uncover, and experimented on myself  (with what now feels like reckless abandon!) for many years before I began to bring my personal philosophies to the forefront as a teacher.

Much of my work in this area was influenced by the chefs and teachers I met in my travels, and more than anything it has been nature that has informed my worldview.  Primarily it was the revelation that the “Elements” of Earth, Water, Air, and Fire are not just poetic and arcane principles of our ancestors, but very real and living energies that permeate our experience of reality.  My work in the raw community as a teacher began with my bringing awareness to a more complete and whole relationship to the Element of Water, and how we can, by interacting with it in a more sacred and alchemical way, increase our experience of vibrant living and environmental integration.

Being a rawfoodist makes it obvious after a while that the ‘food’ part of raw foodist is only the beginning and once the awareness kicks-in, it opens up passions and insights into seemingly unending pathways.

The chemical pollution affecting our land, air and water not to mention food chain, the mass extinction of species happening rapidly on the planet today, the climate crisis, corporate greed and psychotic-ness, the breakdown of every system from the family, marriages, education, personal responsibility, true health care, being in-tune with the Earth and its wisdom, the rape of Mother Nature, ALL this and more seems to be a SYMPTOM of a CRISIS OF CONSCIOUSNESS.  And as we know could be positively impacted by going raw…You have become the VOICE FOR WATER in our community.  Please tell us why WATER is your mission.

We interact, by accident or intention, with each of the Elements every day.  This is by design.  To me food, and particularly the kind of food we are talking about, is one way that we interact with the Element of Earth.  This is how we feed ourselves.  The quality of our food determines the quality of our relationship to Earth, or to the Earth.

Similarly, each day we interact with Water, and this is how we hydrate ourselves, or replace our solvent.  We are solvent based organisms (we are a liquid based design).

Just in the same way that our relationship to food reflects our relationship to the Earth, our daily Water intake determines to how we relate to Water in general.  Not just to the Water we drink, but also to the Water that covers 2/3rds of the globe.

This is significant when we look at the current water crisis facing our population.  It is really a reflection of our own personal water crisis.

You are wise to note that food is just the beginning.  We are waking up to the reality that we have been very much industrialized and domesticated. Our water comes from a tap or bottle, much in the way our cats and dogs get their water from a dish or tray.

This is really an issue of personal sovereignty, and a matter of waking up to our true power, right, and majesty as living beings and children of this eco-sphere.

Reclaiming our water is reclaiming our consciousness.  It is about recognizing where the source is.  In French the word for spring is “source”.  Our “Crisis Of Consciousness” as you called it stems from our own personal disconnection from the Source.  Reclamation of that connection is reclamation of personal power, dignity, and right to exist free and Sovereign!

Your blood is made directly from the water you drink.  When you drink doled out domesticated and chemically treated water, this is what your blood is made from.  This is what you are. When you drink well structured, healthy, living water from the source, this becomes your blood, the blood of the earth.  You become an ambassador of water.  You speak from the Source.

What do you want moms who are going raw raising their families to know about water.

More than anything else, I think Moms want to know how to create and foster the excellence that is inherent in their children.  Unfortunately this is not the prerogative of those who create legislature determining our municipal “Water Treatment”.  Much of the water coming from our taps, bottled beverages, restaurant foods and drinks, and now even bottled waters contain Sodium Fluoride.  This is not, as may of us were led to believe, good for our teeth, and in fact is very damaging.  Many experts have determined that Sodium Fluoride can reduce the IQ of a child by up to 20%! Lets put this in perspective.  If your child had an IQ of 100, exposure to tap water could reduce your child’s IQ to 80!

Also, in addition to the Fluoration of teeth and bones (which shows up as discolored patches on teeth, which you all have seen), Fluoride also targets the pineal gland, and more than any other tissue in the body!  Yes, this gland which is responsible for the production of melatonin, serotonin and a other important neurotransmitters, is the same organ that the Yogis refer to as the “Third Eye”.  The pineal gland literally becomes encrusted with Sodium Fluoride, hardening it and reducing its function.

And that is just the Fluoride, I will spare you the equally stunning information on Chlorine.

Many people have switched over to bottled water, which also presents a host of issues that could and probably should be addressed.  Most notably (assuming that the bottled water is really “spring” water and not just filtered tap water, which it often is) is the bottle itself.

Plastics as a whole tend to exhibit endocrine system disrupting molecular arrangements that we have come to call “zeno-estrogen’s”.  These estrogen mimics are coming more and more into the public awareness, though the media has done its job to downplay the seriousness of the effects.

You see, water is also known as the universal solvent.  This is because water has such strong solvent capabilities.  In other words, it dissolves things.  We use this to our advantage when we make a tea, dissolving the herbs we are using into the water.  The same thing happens with plastics, dissolving these zeno-estrogen plastic molecules into the water within the bottle, resulting in a “plastic tea”.  This is why you can taste plastic in the plastic bottled water.

This is leading to an epidemic in our environment and in our own bodies that has been deemed “estrogen pollution”, an endocrine system issue in nature that has lead to the loss of secondary male sex characteristics, female endocrine cancers (breast, uterine, ovarian, fibroid tumor, etc) as well as many of the associated emotional states that we have lumped under “Pre Menstrual Syndrome”, a fancy way of describing the psychological and emotive states that correspond to hormonal imbalance for woman.

Men are being equally effected, with sperm counts at an all time low, male bodies that are thin and feminine or big bellied with breast tissue.  It also effects the prostate and testicular tissues, leading to increases in cancers of these organs as well.

These are not easy topics to address, as they are not “politically correct” to discuss openly.  I think that we can all look around and see the obvious though, no matter how much our pop culture would like to remain in denial.

This is all rooted in our misuse, and misunderstanding of water, of our relationship to that water, and our embededness within a global if not galactic matrix of interconnected water molecules.  This may sound strange as we have not really been taught to see it this way, however this is in fact the obvious conclusion for anyone who has studied the science of water, and especially those who have been bold enough to couple this thinking with the more right brained understanding of water that was held by our ancestors.

My personal practice, which has eliminated my concerns about the health and safety of the water I drink, as well as reconnecting me to the sacred and ancient connection to the Water of the Earth, has been to gather my own Water from springs.

I have recently launched a project called www.findaspring.com which is dedicated to mapping springs all over North America.  It is a vision that I hold strongly to see all of those who are interested in this idea to be able to easily locate a spring in their area.  Please take a second to visit the site, which is still in its early stages, to find a spring near you, and to contribute a spring to the database if you know of one.

Dr Masuro Emoto did some ground-breaking work in Japan and wrote about it in MESSAGES IN WATER and his other books.  His message became popular through the movie WHAT THE BLEEP DO WE KNOW. Have you thought of being in touch with Dr Masuro to collaborate on a project together?

I feel a deep gratitude for the work he has done, and the influence it has had on me and so many others.  At this point we are both ambassadors of Water, and are sharing our message in different though complimentary arenas.  Perhaps there will come a day where the overlap brings he and I together.  This would be magick.

What can the average person who is living in a city in an apartment building or sub-division do to ensure the safety of their water that won’t seem to extreme as first steps (which could eventually lead to much bolder steps later on)?

elixircraftblog2Before I answer this, allow me a moment to set the stage.  You see, it is easy for us to get into a mindset that says “I am what I eat”.  There is truth in this, though it is minimal in relation to the statement “I am what I drink”.  Why?  Well we are optimally around 65-75% Water.  The “what we eat” part is relatively small in relationship to the “what we drink” part.  We are far less like a car, which is a solid object that runs on “fuel”, and much more like a fish tank, which is a Water based ecology.  We are very far behind, especially in our Western world, with regard to how we see our selves.

We are like an aquarium, an ecosystem that depends largely on Water.  Yes food is required, much like the food or “fish flakes” are required in an aquarium, though far more important to the health of the aquatic ecosystem is the health and quality of the Water.  Even the best food is useless if the fish are suspended in poor quality Water.

These “fish” are your cells and the microorganisms that dwell all over you (4 times more of them than you have cells!).  They thrive in high quality, well structured Water.

So, the first step would be to take an honest assessment.  To ask some real questions and be ready to honestly answer them.  Questions like “why am I putting so much time into what I eat, and not into what I am using as the basic solvent, or liquid that I run my “fish tank” on.

What is your Personal Water Strategy?  Is it to filter?  To buy bottled Water?

If you are filtering with a Carbon Block system, like a Pur or Britta filter it may be time time to get real with yourself.  Does this filter really remove Chlorine, or just the taste of Chlorine.  What about Fluoride?

Perhaps you are using something more serious like a Reverse Osmosis filter or a Distiller.  Ask yourself “does this Water really hydrate me, or does it taste lifeless and/or burned?

“Is there really a plastic counter top filtration unit that I can buy that can recreate what the Earths hydrological cycle is designed to do?”  ”Just what do I believe about human technology and its ability to replicate the functions of a living Earth?”

If you are choosing at this time to avoid accessing Water that you can source from within the Earth it may be time to look at why.  It may also be time to have a look at ideas around “Water restructuring” and using some kind of vortex, whether you make it yourself (see my youtube videos for more on this) or you purchase a commercial unit that does this for you (like the Vitalizer Plus).  Ultimately I feel that there is little in this world as gratifying as sourcing real, living spring Water.

If you have been using bottled Water it may be time to consider and research the effects of plastic on yourself and your children.  And due to the holographic and self similar patterning of reality, how the effects on us are similarly affecting the environment itself.  Bottled Water hurts us and hurts the Earth.  This option is less and less attractive to people everywhere.

There are a few exceptions, and while I am very much a proponent of Water gathered from springs, I have seen many great waters bottled in glass.  This can be a more sustainable and viable option for many people, especially those in the urban centers.

It does not ultimately solve the issues at hand, though it is a great movement towards better choices.  www.mountainvalleyspring.com is a great resource, and they deliver 5 gallon glass bottles of fresh spring Water to much of the country.  Check them out!  Find something similar!

What is most exciting is that any shift towards a better strategy will be accompanied by an increased sense of vitality and conscious awareness!

On a more personal note, talk to me about SLEEP- how much do you get, when, and how (mattress, floor, indoors or out, etc).

One of the things that I hear from so many people who choose to walk this road is “Since I began eating this way I only sleep 4 hours a night!”…

I have never really had that experience, except when fasting.  I enjoy sleeping, and feel that we would be best served by doing lots of it.  We are a stimulant loving culture, whether on a conventional diet or alternative, and most of us use artificial lighting after the sun goes down. We are losing touch with our natural circadian rhythm, and most peoples work schedules prevent them from getting to full recovery.

Sleep is a time to rebuild, and to dream travel.  Both are very important.

I have been careful to craft a lifestyle that rarely has need of an “ALARM” clock

When we miss sleep we build up a “sleep deficit”.  This is like a bill that we owe, and it will catch up to us eventually.  Beauty, muscle tone, and Chi are developed while sleeping.  There may be more advanced techniques for those who choose meditative and monastic lives, however that is not most of us.

Where I sleep has been described as “a prison camp bed”.  I like to sleep on a firm surface. My bed is about 8 inches tall and is a simple zen-style wooden platform.  The mattress is an unbleached Shiatsu futon that is about 1.5 inches thick.  This arrangement has served me for some time.

I am not a fan of traditional Western style sheets and pillows.  My pillow is buckwheat hull filled, and I have a simple, unfitted sheet atop the futon. Still, I like the simplicity and minimalism of my current sleep space.

How did you come to being raw and who was the biggest influence?

I first encountered “raw” at the age of 15 when a friend of mine intuited it. He began to eat this way by simple revelation.  Later that year my tattoo artist turned me on to a book called “The Grape Cure” which was a raw grape cleanse.  This was in the early days of the internet, before information and networking were so highly developed.  At that time rawfoods was dominated by the thinking of the Natural Hygienists.  So much has changed since then.

My early rawfood experiences were very dogmatic, and I lived for several years as a fruitarian, and for 10 years as a vegan.  Today I see both of these approaches as great ways to cleanse, both physically and Karmicly, though I would say (after 15 years of experience) that both approaches are dangerous long term.

We have seen many changes, and the introduction of so called “SuperFoods” is just one of these. The ideology has shifted significantly, both for better and for worse.  It is exciting to see so many folks making such wonderful strides towards better eating.  It is unfortunate to see it so dominated by eating disorders, confusion, empty utopian philosophies, and pseudo experts.

Rawfoodists would benefit from taking a step back from the frenzy and hype, and getting real about a few things.  Simply eating food that is not cooked will not bestow immortality, heal all ills, and produce spiritual enlightenment.  It is, in its modern form, not even a complete or well formed diet as of yet.

What is great about it is the way it gets us to look at food and ourselves, the opportunity to detoxify many of the Water soluble and fat soluble toxins that we have ingested and encountered, as well as taking us back to the basics so that we can restructure a diet that makes sense.

My sincere hope is to see this community shed the dogma and religiosity that has been dominating it.  Especially its unfounded and poorly thought through obsession with veganism and breatharianism.  I think these ideas are hurting us.  Again, I say this having met many of the “leading minds” in this “movement”, as well as the two most prominent ”breatharians”.

What do you feel moms need to be aware of when trying to transition their young families?

Great question.  This one is delicate, and as a man I appreciate the opportunity to share.  Everything I offer is from my heart, and I in no way can know what it is like to be a pregnant or developing mother, or to raise a family.

Here goes…Moms have a unique responsibility, in that they are not just experimenting with themselves, but also with their children and their families.  I would suggest, rather than looking to those whose dietary self experimentation comes from having read a few books and having a website, looking to our ancestors whose wisdom about sustainable reproduction was tested by thousands of years of tribal experimentation.

For instance, many tribal and indigenous peoples would prepare a mother-to-be nutritionally for at least a year or two before conception.  This was done to ensure that she could provide all she would need to for her developing child in addition to coming through healthfully on the other side. There was also a taboo on having a second child without a similar re-feeding process.

Mothers today are most often nutritionally bankrupted before and definitely after birth.  There are very essential nutrients that are passed from mother to child, and if these are missing in the diet (and usually are, raw or not) will be stripped off of the mothers nervous system.  This leads to emotional and physical issues after the birth.  We have names and diagnosis for this, though we seem as a culture to be unaware of how to address it.  Our ancestors understood this well, and took measures to compensate.  We would be wise to study their indigenous ways rather than trusting the newest theories or “superfoods” that hit the market or literature, alternative or conventional.

Moms, be sure to get enough long chain omega 3’s.  By this I am talking about DHA and EPA. Also know that circumcision is an ancient ritual marking and very traumatic and unnecessary.  It is an affront on male sexuality, and is no different to what we call “female circumcision” in some Muslim cultures.Also, there is no substitute for your breast milk.  Period.  Many wonderful mothers have come to find this out after the fact.  And this is ok.  Forgive yourself, and begin to take measures to feed your young one in ways to compensate.

Keep your children from the doctors and dentists.  If there is Mercury in any of your family members do the research and get it out.  Avoid pharmaceutical drugs and surgeries like the plague!  They are useless and harmful except in the rarest of emergencies.  This may seem extreme in the beginning but is the obvious conclusion over time and from experience.

There is so much to say here, but I think that we can draw conclusions by looking to our ancestors and to nature.

In transitioning your families and children it is key to remember that good food tastes better and is more satisfying.  Be careful not to set up a confrontational situation for yourself.  Go slow, and appreciate others rights to choose.

Know that schools will seem to work against you.  Be realistic.  And ask yourself, why are my kids in a school to begin with.  Maybe it is time to begin educating them at home!

Be well informed before trying to push children into veganism, and be sure that what you are feeding them has been time tested.  Become informed about what foods are most hazardous to their endocrine systems, including soy, flax, and many other seeds.  These phytoestrogens are just beginning to be recognized by our community and are reeking more havoc on children than adults.

Encourage relationships to nature for your children, and take them to springs and farms.  Children love to forage, so sign up for herb walks or get them out into the woods.

Are you trying to indoctrinate your children into a cult of diet, or are you looking to develop their communion with the natural world of health and healing.  This is an important distinction to make!

As a guy, do you have any tips for ladies trying to win-over their partners whom may not be all ‘raw, raw, raw’ over the idea of giving up their meat and potatoes?

Yes!  I think that there are a few things that can really help.  It is important to understand the underlying motivations of this archetypical “meat and potatoes” man you describe.

First, lets be honest, this man does not see the “new ideal” of the metro-sexual yogi vegetarian male as much to strive for.  Trying to push or persuade them with weight loss, cancer, anti-aging, etc are not very effective.

What is most important to this kind of man is his perceived masculinity and feelings of being an able provider.  It is his performance.

As I have been mentioning throughout this interview, veganism is not likely to be very attractive to this kind of male.  It might be wise to drop this from your approach and instead to guide by implanting ideas that lead towards an increased sense of maleness.

For instance…  If the average man understood that the hormone altering affects of many of the foods in his diet were leading him into premature andropause (ie, soy or vegetable oil, found in almost all processed foods) and therefore a loss of his precious sexuality and performance, he would likely begin to see things differently.

Also, what about the hops in beer?  They turn out to be one of, if not the most, estrogenic food substances consumed by humans…  This is why they create a physique that looks more like those ancient goddess statuettes than a chiseled Greek god!

That the hormone altering affects of plastics or the pharmaceuticals that are showing up in the municipal tap water are leading to a diminished production of androgens (male sex hormones) and causing them to lose their “edge”, their vigor, and their well…  Things get a bit flaccid if you know what I mean.

Your partner may get excited about herbalism when he discovers effective natural “viagra” like substances.  Yohimbe comes to mind.  Believe me, this one is effective.  Not just some claim like we hear about foods like maca… This one gets you there…  Like a rock.

It may pique his interest to know that herbs, like Ginseng allowed the Taoist sages to live long lives, beyond what modern man believes possible, and to have active sex lives even into their very late years!  Herbs like maca and nettle root can prevent prostate enlargement and keep serum testosterone from becoming estrogens!

Herbs like Pine Pollen actually contain Testosterone, and can be used much like a natural steroid!

He might want to know that de-mineralization will cause his hair to go grey early.

This is how you motivate a man.  Not by badgering, scolding, or trying to convince him to auto-emasculate through the consumption of flax crackers!  Men can sense this a mile away, and will run in the other direction…

Raw meats and eggs (look at ideas like the “primal-diet” or “instinctive eating”) can be just the thing that get him motivated and keep him vital.  It is likely that he is not seeing many role models within the rawfood world that are displaying what he would like to have!

And then there is the effect on the taste of his…………..

Like myself, I know you are into Martial arts.  Tell me a little about your discipline. What else do you do for exercise, say, outdoors?

Great question!

First let me say that what we are talking about here is making a serious and clear commitment to Survival.  No matter what.  Always.  That is the point of martial training.  It is the art of staying alive, of having what it takes to confront your moment of truth.

But, we throw around terms like “martial arts” pretty lightly in our culture.  Lets have a closer look. Martial comes from the word Mars, and Mars is the god of war and warfare.  Therefore “martial arts” are martian or war arts.  There are very few of these left, and most are sport versions of the arts that they stem from.  This is wonderful and timely.

It is not very good table conversation today, and especially in our subculture, to discuss war and its strategic application.  What I will say is that the martial studies exist in perfect balance to the study of healing.  My personal philosophy is that the study of war, which is destructive or disassembling in nature, better informs ones ability to understanding healing, which is constructive and assembling in nature.

The study of both, and the mastery of both is a worthy, albeit uncommon pursuit.  One issue that I think many of us perceive in modern exercise methods is that they are physical expenditures of energy that seem to have no purpose other than the tonifying of our bodies and burning away the food we have just spent our money and labor on.  Martial arts are fantastic forms of physical culture and purposeful learning.  They are functional, and do not (assuming one finds a valuable art) produce the mediocrity that treadmill types of exercise encourage.

I will keep my “art” personal and allow you to take a guess.  I will offer this…  Any true warrior art includes every aspect of physicality.  Therefore all experiences in nature feed back into the Way of the Warrior, whether walking through the forest or climbing a sheer cliff.  Swimming in the ocean or cartwheeling through a park…  All physical endeavors and experiences of nature are part of my training.  They are also part of my healing…  How perfect.  Remember that it is about training for Survival under any circumstance.

What kinds of training would you do if you were literally training to be prepared to Survive anything?  How much Fun would/could you have with this?

Also, a good friend and fellow Warrior/Healer once said to me “one who knows how to break a bone should also know how to heal one”…This is the way of the Warrior.  The Evolution of the Warrior Path is the Warrior~Mystic….  The Warrior~Mystic does more than simply Survive…  They SurThrive.  They know that they are the creators of the reality they experience, and therefore can Thrive no matter what the circumstance.  To me this duel path, the martial arts coupled with the healing arts, breeds the Warrior~Mystic…

How do you keep yourself motivated?  What is your spiritual practice?

The secret for me has been to understand what the source of motivation truly is.  It is Pleasure and Pain.  If we perceive something to be more pleasurable than painful we will continue forward with it.  If the pain becomes greater than the Pleasure we will discontinue.  We are really that simple.

I have learned (to some extent) to manipulate my behavior with this principle.  Lets imagine that you wanted to begin a new exercise regimen.  Likely the thing that has kept you from it was the perception that it would be painful..  Either boring, laborious, tiring, time-consuming, etc… The perceived pleasure is dulled by the perceived pain.

What if you could amplify the pleasure that you believed it would offer.  A better looking and feeling physique, a pain free body, looking better in and out of your clothes, self confidence and the feeling of more time in the day.  What if you amplified the perceived pain of not beginning this regimen?  The pain and discomfort you presently feel in your body, the little aches and pains.  The tiredness that comes from sedentary living.  Feeling the lack of tone and metabolic fire that comes from avoiding exercise.  The Fear of weight gain and its associated dis-eases.

The real secret to this is to feel the pain and pleasure.  Simply thinking of them will not work.  This must be felt and experienced.It works very well when attempting to eliminate a food that we may have had an addictive pattern with.

Who in the raw community is exciting to you and personally inspiring?

I am inspired by the integrity and wisdom of the new generation.  Those who have not yet picked up the mantle of teaching.  The generation before mine paved the way for me, and I and my generation are clearing the way for those to come.  They are far more real and integral than I can yet conceive.  They are the evolution of our ideas and response to the stimulus of our modern environment.  These are your children Moms!  The improved models!!!

Are you in a relationship?  Is she raw?  Would you ever be with someone who wasn’t raw?  Does she have to be as raw as you?  Any thoughts to how you will raise your children one day?

Hahaha.  Single White Male, Enjoys the Elements, Consciousness and Cacao Beans.

There are so many wonderful women, and I do not measure them by percentages of “rawness”. Any woman who would occupy that sacred space with me would have to have incredibly high standards about what she chooses to be built from.  Not just because I would want her to, but because to function with me at the level that I choose to, she would have to.

What type of woman interests and excites you?  What qualities do you look for?

What most entices and enthralls me are women who have tread a similar path.  Those who embrace their femininity and mastered their own bodies.  Those who understand their moon cycle and the magick of their intuitive ability.

I am not very attracted to mere mortals.  I appreciate goddesses, women who can embrace their full potential and independence.  I am most attracted to women who have learned to differentiate reality and possibility from the story book “find your value through your prince charming” fantasy stories of their childhoods.

I am not attracted to Barbie dolls and high heels.  I like natural Elven Princesses and Queens.  Those who know the herbs and animals and the power of their dreams.

What is your idea of a ‘perfect day for Daniel’?

Every day contains the possibility of enlightenment!  The days that I enjoy most are the result of remaining in the flow of creative energy and anabolic expression.  Perfect days are the result of loving myself and embracing the possibility of all I am capable of.  When days are less than perfect I know I am letting fear, futility, and contraction rule me.

It is less about “good days” and “bad days” and more about mastery of cycles.  Everything is cyclical.  The natural result of a high is a low, every  wave crest is followed by its trough.  The full moon is followed by the new, and the Summer Solstice is the balance of that of Winter.

What is more valuable than trying to stay “high” and avoid “lows” is to know the place, purpose, and usefulness of all things.  The pursuit of this kind of mastery is meta-fulfilling and, I feel, a very noble and worthy pursuit.

What does a ‘typical’ day look like for you in terms of your diet?

This is a loaded question…  So, I am excited to answer it!

First, let me be clear, there is no place that we ever “get to” with regards to what we eat.  This is, like so many other pursuits, an ever evolving and changing quest.  I remember attending a lecture, when I had been 16 times around the sun, with a prominent rawfoods educator.  He mentioned that he had been on his diet path for 14 years, and then proceeded to explain what he was “working on” with his nutrition approach.  I remember thinking “after 14 years you don’t have it nailed down yet???!!!

Today, after a decade and a half of intense nutritional education and experience, I am still always developing and shifting my approach.

I no longer subscribe to any one idea, so things like Veganism, Rawfoods, Superfoods, and the like no longer hold the powerful sway they once did.  I have come to understand that all approaches contain seeds of value, though each on has its inherent limitations, and can only take you so far.
Lao Tzu said that if you lean on any one idea too long it collapses.  I have found this to be consistently true (and I am sure it is true for this saying as well!).

My diet goes through cycles and changes.  Last year a typical day looked like fresh spring water in the morning, an Elixir in the early day, and a raw vegetable meal in the evening with seeds and nuts, and sea vegetables.  At that time I was eating a lot of my daily calories from sugars in the form of honey and agave. This winter my diet contained more steamed vegetables, quinoa, and raw, grass fed dairy products.  I also began a fairly intensive exploration of raw meats, and this allowed me to significantly reduce my sugar intake.

Right now I find a rhythm with spring water early in the morning, sometimes with MSM, shilajit, and other “supplements”.  I like to have some calories by noon, and this is almost always in the form of an Elixir.  This will often contain things like fresh teas made form herbs, medicinal mushrooms, barks, or flowers.  Added to it are things like coconut butter, chia seeds, cashews, spices like nutmeg, cinnamon, cardamom, etc…

I have been sweetening with powdered stevia leaf (not the extracted kinds) lately, and really reducing my consumption of mono- and di- saccharides.  I also like mesquite, different salts, cacao butter, chlorella, etc…Lots of berries (of all types), and of course cacao!  Nibs are my favorite for drinks, though powdered cacao is also on the menu.

These drinks are often half of my daily food intake.  I like to balance them with an evening meal of raw or steamed vegetables, with olive oil, salt, and lemon or vinegar, as well as herbs like rosemary, thyme, basil, sage, oregano, etc…  Often my evening meal will be raw meats, bone marrow, or other animal foods, either as is, or with a bit of spice, like salts, cayenne, peppercorn (a berry), chipotle, coriander, etc…  I tend not to mix animal and vegetable foods too often.

I also enjoy fermented condiments with my evening foods, often sour krauts, kim-chee, or kombucha…  These aid in digestion, lower stomach pH, and feed us abundantly with vital organisms that we call probiotics.  As I mentioned, this is ever changing, shifting, and evolving, just like me.  I hope that your approach does too!  Eating the same foods for too long leads to at best boredom and at worst allergy and malnourishment!  For many of those reading this, our diets have become a sort of “Hero’s Quest”.  This means that the pursuit of refinement is a purpose unto itself.  As it should be.

Anything else you would love to add, dear?

Just some closing words.  You are an expression of the infinite divine.  Both darkness and light emanate from the same source.  Embrace all that is, and know that you are projecting the reality you are experiencing.  If there are things you would like to change in your life, look within.  The source is there.  If you struggle to change the outside world you will be forever lost in illusion.

Change is the nature of all things.  This situation that we face today on Earth feels frightening and confusing.  It is a cycle of change so vast that we can barely conceive it.  Be patient and remember that you are here for self-mastery.  Even the ability to love and relate is born of self mastery.  Use this experience, this lifetime for all it is worth.  And embrace the change.  It is inevitable!  Thank you, Shannon.

Expect a Miracle

Monday, April 20th, 2009 by stacey

eam-cardJust like you, I’m a mother who tries to live her best life, knowing that this is the very best example I can give to my children.

Evie, Bella and I talk constantly about good choices, about listening to your heart, and about being kind to others.

So I was thrilled recently, when I came across this wonderful idea. An Australian man has created a PDF that you can download, and the PDF can be printed out on card and cut down into little cards.

The cards simply say “Expect a Miracle”.

Isn’t that beautiful? So simple - yet those very words could change the life of a person who reads them at just the right time.

I told my girls about these cards, and we printed off a sheet and they helped cut them into individual cards. I then tucked the cards into a small, zip-lockable bag, and popped it into my handbag.

We thought of all sorts of places we could use the cards, including at our local shopping centre (mall). Whenever we visit the mall toilets (restrooms), we come across rather sad advertising that’s directed at people with depression, ads that give such people a website and phone number for them to receive help. I don’t really like my girls seeing these ads and having the concept of depression imprinted on them at such a young age, but the ads are unavoidable, given that they’re usually in each cubicle.

So, we decided that sometimes we would randomly tuck these cards around the ads. We spoke of how someone who is feeling very sad might see the cards, and suddenly expect a miracle in their lives, and that their lives might just change right on the spot, just because they saw the cards! This idea was so exciting to the girls, and their beautiful little faces just lit up whenever we talked about how the cards could help somebody.

They then thought that we could sometimes tuck the cards under the windscreen wipers of cars in the carpark, and that we could drive by houses on the way home and just pick out a random house, popping a card into their letterbox if we felt that someone at that house might need this card to brighten their day.

If you’d like to download the cards (they’re free!), head to the Expect a Miracle website. If you have a spare 10 minutes, take a look around the site - it’s filled with heartwarming stories of miracles, and of people making positive change in the world.

I love the idea that I’ve been able to sow another seed in the fertile ground of my children’s consciousness, and can only imagine the impact that these powerful little cards could have on millions of people around the world.

Isn’t life just miraculous?

The Importance of the In-Arms Phase by Jean Leidloff

Friday, April 17th, 2009 by Tera

The Importance of the In-Arms Phase

by Jean Leidloff

continuum-concept-book-coverIn the two and a half years during which I lived among Stone Age Indians in the South American jungle (not all at once, but on five separate expeditions with a lot of time between them for reflection), I came to see that our human nature is not what we have been brought up to believe it is. Babies of the Yequana tribe, far from needing peace and quiet to go to sleep, snoozed blissfully whenever they were tired, while the men, women, or children carrying them danced, ran, walked, shouted, or paddled canoes. Toddlers played together without fighting or arguing, and they obeyed their elders instantly and willingly.

The notion of punishing a child had apparently never occurred to these people, nor did their behavior show anything that could truly be called permissiveness. No child would have dreamed of inconveniencing, interrupting, or being waited on by an adult. And by the age of four, children were contributing more to the work force in their family than they were costing others.

Babes in arms almost never cried and, fascinatingly, did not wave their arms, kick, arch their backs, or flex their hands and feet. They sat quietly in their slings or slept on someone’s hip - exploding the myth that babies need to flex to “exercise.” They also did not throw up unless extremely ill and did not suffer from colic. When startled during the first months of crawling and walking, they did not expect anyone to go to them but rather went on their own to their mother or other caretakers for the measure of reassurance needed before resuming their explorations. Without supervision, even the smallest tots rarely hurt themselves.

Is their “human nature” different from ours? Some people actually imagine that it is, but there is, of course, only one human species. What can we learn from the Yequana tribe?

Our Innate Expectations

Primarily, we can try to grasp fully the formative power of what I call the in-arms phase. It begins at birth and ends with the commencement of creeping, when the infant can depart and return at will to the caretaker’s knee. It consists, simply, of the infant having 24-hour contact with an adult or older child.

At first, I merely observed that this in-arms experience had an impressively salutary effect on the babies and that they were no “trouble” to manage. Their bodies were soft and conformed to any position convenient to their bearers - some of whom even dangled their babies down their backs while holding them by the wrist. I do not mean to recommend this position, but the fact that it is possible demonstrates the scope of what constitutes comfort for a baby. In contrast to this is the desperate discomfort of infants laid carefully in a crib or carriage, tenderly tucked in, and left to go rigid with the desire for the living body that is by nature their rightful place - a body belonging to someone who will “believe” their cries and relieve their craving with welcoming arms.

Why the incompetence in our society? From childhood on, we are taught not to believe in our instinctive knowledge. We are told that parents and teachers know best and that when our feelings do not concur with their ideas, we must be wrong. Conditioned to mistrust or utterly disbelieve our feelings, we are easily convinced not to believe the baby whose cries say “You should hold me!” “I should be next to your body!” “Don’t leave me!” Instead, we overrule our natural response and follow the going fashion dictated by babycare “experts.” The loss of faith in our innate expertise leaves us turning from one book to another as each successive fad fails.

It is important to understand who the real experts are. The second greatest babycare expert is within us, just as surely as it resides in every surviving species that, by definition, must know how to care for its young. The greatest expert of all is, of course, the baby - programmed by millions of years of evolution to signal his or her own kind by sound and action when care is incorrect. Evolution is a refining process that has honed our innate behavior with magnificent precision. The signal from the baby, the understanding of the signal by his or her people, the impulse to obey it - all are part of our species’ character.

The presumptuous intellect has shown itself to be ill-equipped to guess at the authentic requirements of human babies. The question is often: Should I pick up the baby when he or she cries? Or should I first let the baby cry for a while? Or should I let the baby cry so that this child know who is boss and will not become a “tyrant”?

No baby would agree to any of these impositions. Unanimously, they let us know by the clearest signals that they should not be put down at all. As this option has not been widely advocated in contemporary Western civilization, the relationship between parent and child has remained steadfastly adversarial. The game has been about how to get the baby to sleep in the crib, whether or not to oppose the baby’s cries has not been considered. Although Tine Thevenin’s book, The Family Bed, and others have gone some way to open the subject up of having children sleep with parents, the important principle has not been clearly addressed: to act against our nature as a species is inevitably to lose well-being.

Once we have grasped and accepted the principle of respecting our innate expectations, we will be able to discover precisely what those expectations are - in other words, what evolution has accustomed us to experience.

The Formative Role of the In-Arms Phase

How did I come to see the in-arms phase as crucial to a person’s development? First, I saw the relaxed and happy people in the forests of South America lugging around their babies and never putting them down. Little by little, I was able to see a connection between that simple fact and the quality of their lives. Later still, I have come to certain conclusions about how and why being in constant contact with the active caretaker is essential to the initial postnatal stage of development.

For one thing, it appears that the person carrying the baby (usually the mother in the first months, then often a four- to 12-year-old child who brings the baby back to the mother for feeding) is laying the foundation for later experience. The baby passively participates in the bearers running, walking, laughing, talking, working, and playing. The particular activities, the pace, the inflections of the language, the variety of sights, night and day, the range of temperatures, wetness and dryness, and the sounds of community life form a basis for the active participation that will begin at six or eight months of age with creeping, crawling, and then walking. A baby who has spent this time lying in a quiet crib or looking at the inside of a carriage, or at the sky, will have missed most of this essential experience.

Because of the child’s need to participate, it is also important that caretakers not just sit and gaze at the baby or continually ask what the baby wants, but lead active lives themselves. Occasionally one cannot resist giving a baby a flurry of kisses; however, a baby who is programmed to watch you living your busy life is confused and frustrated when you spend your time watching him living his. A baby who is in the business of absorbing what life is like as lived by you is thrown into confusion if you ask him to direct it.

The second essential function of the in-arms experience appears to have escaped the notice of everyone (including me, until the mid-1960s). It is to provide babies with a means of discharging their excess energy until they are able to do so themselves. In the months before being able to get around under their own power, babies accumulate energy from the absorption of food and sunshine. A baby therefore needs constant contact with the energy field of an active person, who can discharge the unused excess for each of them. This explains why the Yequana babies were so strangely relaxed - why they did not stiffen, kick, arch, or flex to relieve themselves of an uncomfortable accumulation of energy.

To provide the optimum in-arms experience, we have to discharge our own energy efficiently. One can very quickly calm a fussing baby by running or jumping with the child, or by dancing or doing whatever eliminates one’s own energy excess. A mother or father who must suddenly go out to get something need not say, “Here, you hold the baby. I’m going to run down to the shop.” The one doing the running can take the baby along for the ride. The more action, the better!

Babies - and adults - experience tension when the circulation of energy in their muscles is impeded. A baby seething with undischarged energy is asking for action: a leaping gallop around the living room or a swing from the child’s hands or feet. The baby’s energy field will immediately take advantage of an adult’s discharging one. Babies are not the fragile things we have been handling with kid gloves. In fact, a baby treated as fragile at this formative stage can be persuaded that he or she is fragile.

As parents, you can readily attain the mastery that comes with comprehension of energy flow. In the process you will discover many ways to help your baby retain the soft muscle tone of ancestral well-being and give your baby some of the calm and comfort an infant needs to feel at home in the world.

Copyright ©1991 by Jean Liedloff

Raw Kiddie Energy

Thursday, April 16th, 2009 by Jamie Abrams

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Everyone always talks about the boundless and robust energy children exhibit. But when we refer to raw children it is like experiencing a whole other kettle of fish. I am not referring to obnoxious, out of control or rambunctious energy. Raw kiddies have unimaginable endurance, focus and an unwavering supply of pure vigor. These raw moppets that overflow with zest require a ton of fresh air outdoors and mental stimulation (most children thrive on these and not just the raw ones).

In the raw world there is lots of chatter about how crucial exercise is to this lifestyle. The same theory applies to our dumplings. They already have an organic supply of vitality that compounded with a fresh, wholesome raw diet is explosive. If we don’t give our chicks an outlet for this dynamism then we are putting the writing on the wall for rowdy behavior.

Let me paint a picture for you from my experience. Zenchai is a very busy boy. He rarely sits still, is very involved in his car play and isn’t naturally the kind of boy that runs around (not yet any way). I kind of liken him to more of a mentally active child. But having said that he does have tremendous amounts of raw gusto to spread and expel.

As he doesn’t spontaneously run around (quite possibly due to lack of confidence from a couple of past falls down steps) he started to show some very aggressive and unacceptable behavior. His wee pot was bubbling over and he didn’t know what to do with it. He would become intensely frustrated and/or angry then lash out at us with head-butting, biting or hitting. As one can imagine, this was incredibly difficult to deal with. I started by reassuring him, letting him know that his BIG feelings are always allowed but the furious behavior was unacceptable. I tried having him draw pictures of how angry/sad/frustrated he felt. These things do work to some extent.

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The one thing that has made the chief difference to his use of unacceptable behavior has been having more exercise. For Christmas we bought him a lovely wooden bicycle without pedals, which at the time was just slightly too big for him. However, he has since grown and he fits on it perfectly. Although he still isn’t walking or running much, he rides his bicycle for hours a day. Since his bicycle doesn’t have pedals he is effectively running. The real kicker is I have to briskly jog to keep up with him! His bicycle has given him renewed confidence to be physically active. Finally we discovered the perfect outlet for his abundant energy and resolved a tricky dilemma.

The moral of the story is to get your bumpkins moving using whatever strategy suits their personality. While their expending some punch you can get shaking too!! Now that is what I call win-win.

Here’s to groove’in (rain or shine),
Jamie x

Kathi Kattol of RawFoodFamily.com

Tuesday, April 14th, 2009 by Lisa

Here today is a post from another of our readers that really touched my heart.  Her name is Kathi Kattol.  She and her husband have 3 raw kids.  Notice her simple and gentle philosophy which is the underpinning of her success with them…I think we can all learn from her on  how to learn from our children about what they need:

rawfoodfamily-pic1We are a raw food family known as the Rawfoodfamily. We have 3 beautiful children and started our journey almost 4 years ago, because our second son - Jaro - used to be chronically ill.

He had asthma and the doctors told us, that we would have to live with an inhalator forcing him to use the machine 4 times a day. But still this thing did not help a single bit.

We couldn´t sleep during the night, because Jaro was not able to breath properly, and we were alarmed all the time.

Then we thought: ” Ok. We have to change something!”

At this point of time, I found a book at my mothers house called: ” If you want to be healthy, forget the cooking pot!”

After I read this book, I became a Rawfooder! Thank god, my lovely husband was with me right away after some intense discussion!

So we went Raw almost over night. We didn´t do it 100% from the start, but close to. It took us about one year to become a 100% Rawfoodfamily. The problems of Jaro were gone within a week, and never came back!! Since this point of time no one in my family has ever been ill. And my daughter Ronja was born at home and is on 100% all her life. She is so lucky and shining!

But we did some important steps during our Rawfood Journey! We started our diet eating mainly fruits and discovered after a year, that our sons started to have brownish teeth. At this point we learned about the importance of GREEEEEEN! We reduced sugary food, like dates , and served green to the meals…that really worked! His teeth became white again! Isn’t that amazing!!

It has become one of our most important mantras, talking to people who want to do Rawfood with their children. Especially the children need the minerals from the green to grow properly. And most Rawkids are eating not enough of this magical food. Us included.

We bought the Vita-mix and started doing green smoothies, which really helped us a lot. Nowdays we eat green, especially wild edibles, to every meal, and feel so good with it!

Another advantage is, that the green vegetables and wild edibles are good to satisfy all the needs. Our kids do not ask for other food during the meals, because they are happy. When we started going raw, they wanted always more, another banana, one more orange, some nuts on top,….

And the green truly connects us with mother nature. The feeling for my kids, my husband and myself increased a lot, since I eat more wild edibles. Our daughter Ronja, who is a raw fooder from the beginning loves to eat daisies freshly picked. In fact she pickes them for herself, whenever she wants them!

Sometimes the children play around and don’t want to eat their greens, but most of the times we found, that it helps, when we sit next to them and give them tiny pieces of leave to every bite they do! I have the feeling, they really enjoy that we truly care about them and about what they eat!!! We never get angry when they refuse their green, but we stay clear and focused…and that really works!

When we do green smoothies, we let the children do it. That gives them the feeling they decide and they never refuse to drink it, when they’ve done. I think that is, because they feel responsible for the taste and they are really proud, that they made on their own.

I think that is one of the biggest secrets of raising happy, healthy children: Give them the feeling they’ve done it alone! It although is a great lesson for us grown ups…just stay in the background and believe in our children!

Children are our future, so let us believe in the future and therefore in our children!

All my love to all you wonderful mums out there, enjoy your children and your life.

Kathi

P.S. We created a free mini course on our website called: “How to raise happy and healthy children!” to support all you mums with our knowledge we gained raising three raw kids.

P.S.S. We also just finished our first e-book called “How to start your Rawfood Journey!” This book concentrates on doing rawfood together with children, and goes more deep than our mini-course does.

Visit our website to get more informations, about how to become really healthy and happy.

www.therawfoodfamily.com

From the Pencils of Babes

Friday, April 10th, 2009 by stacey

Hello everyone!

I just thought I’d share with you some gorgeous pictures that my daughter Evangeline drew recently. My daughters and I often talk about the environment - about looking after our precious Mother Earth and how she looks after us - and they soak up this information like little sponges.

Drawing on some notepaper that came courtesy of a goodie bag from a school-friend’s party, Evie created these (all pictures are reproduced with her kind permission):

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(Note: Petrol is the Australian/British word for “gas”.) We’re very proud of her spelling ability, having only just started school in February. We think that “woheld” is a pretty good attempt at “world”!

In the second picture, the little person is wearing sunglasses and enjoying the sunshine:

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I hope you enjoy these as much as we do. Evie is so proud to be able to share her artwork with you.

Have a wonderful week, won’t you?

Love & hugs from me to you!

Jo

Un-Parenting

Friday, April 10th, 2009 by Lisa

me-and-boys-hike-09My parenting skills are pretty good- I’m disciplined enough to keep some structure to my days which very young children thrive on despite my free-spirited ways, and I attend to feeding and taking care of my children’s basic needs.  But lately, I have been feeling a shifting of the sands, like something is changing on a level that isn’t visible, yet very real.

Perhaps it’s their ages, especially my oldest Landon, who is 11…I am not sure exactly the whys and whats, but I just feel everything as I know it in terms of parenting is about to become obsolete.  My kids just don’t seem to need the same things from me, yet of course they still need me; so I am trying to be very open and empty and observing to see what exactly has changed and what do they really need from me…

liams-hoodieI have very strong feelings about raising children, and have always said that RAISING CHILDREN RAISES US…and I am sure you feel as I do that the learning on our part as parents is perhaps even more profound than anything we could ever teach our kids.  Yet, I have always felt I too that that in no way diminishes our role as parents.  As children teach us a renewed freshness, a ‘being in the moment’ awareness, unconditional love and laughter, and so much MORE, we also have valuable gifts of experience, and insight to share with them.  Like for example, when my youngest left his hoodie jacket on top of the burning wood stove this morning and it caught on fire until Landon grabbed it and through it in the snow (yes, its April 7 and although we had a few Spring-like days there where we enjoyed some great hiking, we just got another huge dump of snow SNOW! Arghhhh) extinguishing it.

funny-liamWe all thanked Landon for his superhero awareness and ability to take action.  Then Liam said an odd thing.  “I’m sorry I was guilty of nearly burning down our house”.  Guilty?  That’s a pretty heavy burden for a 9 year young boy.  But of course he felt that.  It’s just a conditioned response to all the times his parents and family and now school teachers have projected that attitude onto him when he failed to perform the function we thought he ought to perform.  If only we could really see how there is no guilt, only learning and lessons that we choose to experience…

Blissings, Peaches!

xoShannon

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If you want to hear more, listen in as I’m interviewed by Laura Fox of RAW SPIRIT RADIO next Wednesday April 15th at 10pm EST.  Drhumil Purohit from WE LIKE IT RAW will be on that show also.

Homeopathy and Kids

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009 by Lisa

beautiful-carelynHomeopathy is a healing modality which is very compatible with a raw lifestyle.  I have used it in my home on myself and my family with great success along with Bach Flower Remedies.  I first learned about this wonderful healing art when I worked in Dr Dean’s office as a medical secretary from age 16- 20.  Carolyn is a unique and wonderful doctor because she skillfully understands how to combine conventional allopathic medicine with naturopathic and preventative medicine. At 60 years young she radiates vitality and happiness, and is respected and loved by colleagues and patients world-wide.  She is the medical director of a 5 star medical spa which is currently being built in Costa Rico which will have cutting edge wellness facilities, and I will be one of the resident Raw Food chefs and educators.

Dr Dean has written 12 books, and she, or one of her books, is mentioned in no less than 3,500 books/articles!  Carolyn has practiced homeopathy for over 20 years and swears by it for its safety and effectiveness.  You can learn more about homeopathy by reading about its origins and indications at the library or through a google search, as well by visiting a Homeopath. In the meantime here are some quick markers to look for in your child that may be markedly improved with correct application of Homeopathic remedies.

carolyndean2Using Homeopathy for Your Child’s Emotional Health

By CAROLYN DEAN, M.D., N.D.

We would never think of giving a child Valium or Prozac. We know their systems are too delicate, but their emotional life is also very delicate. They are subject to much of the same stresses as adults and need love, support and attention.

Homeopathy is the fastest growing over the counter therapy in the United States and its remedies provide a therapy that can spare them needless emotional suffering in an effective and harmless form.

Anger

  • Chamomile is for finicky anger. The child is fine one moment and angry the next.
  • Lachesis is for the anger of jealousy. This child is critical, suspicious, contradictory and oversensitive.
  • Natrum mur is for the child who is very sensitive and gets angry and bursts into tears at any imagined slight.
  • Nux vomica is used for great irritability which leads to headaches and stomach upsets with great sensitivity to noises, bright lights and smells.
  • Staphasagria is for suppressed anger and humiliation causing headaches.

Anxiety

Children express a particular type of anxiety that can be called acute anticipation.

  • Aconite is for chronic fright and fearfulness.
  • Calc carb is for children who overwork and overload themselves with tasks and anticipate problems.
  • Gelsemium is for acute anticipation or for a child who has never felt well since a particular frightful event.
  • Lycopodium is for children who will do anything to avoid humiliation and embarrassment or who have not been well since such an event.
  • Silicea is for children who fear that they will not have enough energy and constantly moan and whine that they are unable to get things done.

Hyperactivity

This condition is often misdiagnosed in a child who is just too bright and active for the adult caregivers in charge. It may be due to food allergies, too much sugar in the diet or lack of attention and discipline.

  • Argentum nitricum is used for the hyperactive child with a sweet tooth. The child seems to have a high metabolic rate and is thin, pale, anxious and can’t sit still.
  • Calc phos is suited to the child who likes to play pranks but is still shy and afraid. Physically there are swollen tonsils and abdominal gas.
  • Chamomilla is used to calm the excessively agitated child who cannot sit still for one minute and literally wears himself out to the point of tears.
  • Kali bromatum is for the case of the child who is constantly using his hands in some form and cannot keep them still.
  • Lycopodium is used for the child who is exhausted but still can’t sit still. There is irritability and restlessness, mostly around dinnertime, and lots of gastric distress.
  • Stramonium is used for a severe case of hyperactivity with violence. There is a characteristic loud and frenetic speech pattern.

Lack of Confidence

The following are constitutional remedies that are given to restore lost confidence in a child. As the parent or caregiver you may work with a homeopathic doctor on the treatment of these difficult issues.

  • Anacardium is for lack of confidence due to abuse or physical humiliation. The child becomes hard and cold, has no feeling and may become emotionally cold and viokent.
  • Gelsemium is for poor confidence due to anticipatory anxiety, weakness, illness or fright.
  • Lycopodium is for poor confidence due to fear of being in public, having been embarrassed in the past.
  • Natrum mur is for fear of being rejected.
  • Staphasagria is for poor confidence due to being humiliated. There is deep anger but the child will do anything to please.

Sadness

Children get sad for many of the same reasons that adults do. The following remedies can treat the effects of a loss in the family due to death of a family member including the family pet, for separation due to illness or divorce or for disappointment.

  • Aurum is for the loss of a very close relative to whom the child was extremely attached. When this relationship is lost, the child feels there is nothing to live for.
  • Ignatia is for acute, sudden, overwhelming, shocking grief; the child can’t understand and can’t believe what has happened.
  • Natrum mur is for a child who is emotionally open and whose heart is broken. At that point she gets stuck there and shuts down emotionally and becomes both guilty and resentful.
  • Phosphoric acid is for treating a big grief. The child has emotional and physical symptoms of loss of energy, debility and apathy.
  • Pulsatilla is for abandonment with grief and sadness and gentle weeping.

A word on Rescue Remedy.

Although not technically a homeopathic remedy, a Bach Flower Essence called Rescue Remedy is a very effective blend of 5 different Bach Flowers designed to relieve shock and stress. The Bach Flowers were invented in the U.K. by Dr. Edward Bach in the 1930’s. Rescue Remedy is used around the world to treat emotional stress in emergency situations. It can be found in drops, creams and lozenges. Rescue Remedy is regulated by the FDA in the United States; it is safe for all ages and can be used, as can homeopathy, even if someone is on medication.

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