Sometimes being a raw mom feels like double-duty- doing everything on top of making everything we eat from scratch, and then trying to get our brood to eat it! I can say from experience ‘been there done that’ so I can honestly say #1 IT GET’S EASIER and #2 IT’S TOTALLY WORTH IT! First of all, it pays of in so many ways: I literally haven’t had a sick child in YEARS! They are both crazy active, and completely free of any health complaints. Next, EMOTIONALLY it is the difference between night and day between raising a child on the Standard American Diet with an over emphasis on protein and cooked foods not to mention all the processed food like ‘pizza’ or worse, junk food which is mostly just chemicals as opposed to simple, natural, real food. Poor kids. They get a bad attitude because they feel sooooo crappy, and then they get low grades in school and have socialization problems, and just cannot function properly. It has happened that during holidays or other times when we would ‘fall off the wagon’ for a party or celebration, and naturally go overboard on sugar and cooked options, we all notice the difference immediately. We all become agitated and restless and bored and moody- not natural for us usually. In fact, its ridiculous how calm, caring and fun to be around both the kids are when their diet is excellent and we are all just enjoying life. By the way, Moms, this works best as a lifestyle and not just a diet per se. So, ensuring enough exercise and outdoor time and enough rest/sleep and the right kind of stimulation out in Nature and not too much media, etc., makes a BIG difference too.
The amazing thing to remember is that kids LOVE to help, to be involved and to participate in whatever is happening. I have made it really clear that although I take-on most of the shopping and food prep, that I am not running a hotel or restaurant and their help is needed and appreciated. It’s a family or team spirit to makes sure that Mom isn’t overworked or feeling really resentful and tired. I consider children after the age of 5 to be great additions to the ‘workforce’ within the home. A household just doesn’t run well with ONE PERSON doing all the work! It isn’t fair or just, and no one would be able to feel good about it. Having chores and looking after our home together is a bonding experience and a great skill to learn. LAUNDRY, FOOD PREP, TIDYING, VACCUMING, SWEEPING, DUSTING, FILLING SPICE RACKS, everything is an opportunity to contribute and make a difference. Let your family know all the different daily and weekly chores, and start asking for input from everyone on a regular basis. Moms are precious and important too! And kids whom are given real-life opportunities to contribute and be involved are proud of their efforts and feel good about themselves.
Joseph Beausoleil. He was born Monday, November 17, 2008, exactly one day before his “due” date. My entire labor took less than 4 hours - fast and furious - we barely made it to the birth center in time! I’m happy to report that we are all healthy and doing well.
So, I’ve been putting John to bed in another room (which he has, surprisingly, taken to quite well), and my boyfriend’s been sleeping on the couch since he knows that’s the only way he’ll get any sleep these days! So, for much of the night, it’s just me and the baby and one great, big, gigantic, king-sized bed. Sigh.
Wow, I can’t believe it’s been a month since I posted. I am truly sorry for that. I apologize to myself as well as to you, dear readers, since writing for this blog is one of the few things I do just for myself, that gives me a sense of identity, and a lot of personal satisfaction. I’ve tried to keep my weekly postings a top priority as, for the reasons just stated, they really help to keep me grounded and happy. All I can say is, for the last month, I’ve been a bit distracted.
I have to admit, I’ve been burning the candle at both ends lately. With back-to-back travel, home remodeling projects, taking care of my “boys” (big and small), maintaining the home, and keeping up with our regular activities, I’ve had very little time to take care of Number One. As a result, I’ve been a bit off balance lately and everything and everyone has suffered. I’ve been impatient with my son and my boyfriend, I’ve let my diet and exercise slip and, as a result, have been feeling less than great - sluggish, frazzled and defeated.
About 6 months ago, I wrote about the
By now, most people are familiar with the many ways in which breast milk benefits babies. For example, it provides unrivaled nutrition, immune-boosting antibodies, and healthy mother-child bonding, to name a few. However, the amazing properties of breast milk are farther reaching than that; in fact, there are dozens of practical uses, from which everyone can benefit – from cancer killer to decongestant – making it a true panacea.
There are many reasons to avoid plastics. One major reason is bisphenol-A, or BPA, an estrogen-like chemical added to most polycarbonate plastics – from water bottles and food containers to the linings of tin cans, and - most alarmingly - to many baby toys, baby bottles and sippy cups. Research has shown BPA is associated with early puberty in girls, feminizing of boys, and reduced fertility in both sexes. In fact, in utero exposure is linked to abnormal development of the sex organs in the fetus. BPA is also associated with an increased risk for obesity and certain cancers, such as breast and prostate.
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Have you traded in your fishnets for sweats? Swapped those lacy thongs for granny pants? Being a mom is more than a full time job – and often a dirty, grimy, sweaty one at that - it’s easy to lose touch with your more sensual side. Perhaps it got buried under a heap of laundry. Or a pile of dishes. Or maybe that stack of bills.Next time you’ve got a night off from the kids (or if they sleep really soundly), pounce on the situation!The following tips will help you find that inner sex goddess. Here, kitty kitty….







